What causes people who were originally in love to break up?

I think it's because they don't think from the other side's point of view, and they often have cold wars. It is true that in this world, there are many people who fall in love and end up breaking up, not because they don't love each other, but because of many trivial things. At that point, it may be impulsive, angry, or not knowing how to deal with it, but later in my life, I will regret it.

After all, it's one thing to fall in love, it's another to get along.

For those who love each other, the most worrying thing is that two people will have conflicts and quarrels over small things. It is not only the quarrel itself that hurts the feelings of the other party, but also the way to deal with it after the quarrel. If both of them are stubborn, both believe that they are not wrong, neither agree, neither knows how to apologize, how to make the other person happy, then there is a good chance that the Cold War will continue, and even if they want to say something in their hearts, they will not be able to open their mouths.

At times like these, my biggest fear is that other third parties will use this opportunity to comfort you, your friends of the opposite sex.

At times like these, you may become vulnerable and depressed. Having someone to talk to, comfort you, and inspire you, it may be easy to think that this person really knows themselves, and the person with whom they quarrel really makes me angry. If I'm a little naïve, I might think:

I may have met someone better than the person I was fighting with. If I think like that, I'm really going to lose the other person really easily. Therefore, during quarrels and cold wars, remember to be firm if other heterosexual friends comfort you, talk to you, or relax with you.

At times like these, the people who accompany you will surely follow you. Naturally, he won't argue with you.

Even if he disagrees with you, he will follow you, rely on you, and let you. If he still wants your ideas, he will work harder to make you feel that he knows you well and that you have a tacit understanding with him because he is deliberately pandering to you. Therefore, never think that the person who is comforting you now is more suitable for you than the person you are arguing with, or that he is much better than the person you are arguing with.

You just didn't start, you didn't stay together, you still acted out of politeness, pandering and restraint. So I think it's because I don't think about things from the other side's point of view, and I often have a cold war.

I guess it's just some family reasons.

Of course, it is necessary to think more from the other person's point of view.

In fact, there are some reasons that do not need to be explained.

Because two people may not have the right personality.

I think it's very likely that it's a parental issue.

People will meet a lot of people in this life, but it is difficult to meet people who like each other, we are all looking for the person who is worthy of relying on for a lifetime, looking forward to having a home with him, having a child, and living happily for a lifetime. But the reality is often cruel, many people who love each other for various reasons, can't go to the end, end up with a breakup, and finally end up in the vast sea of people. There are many factors to consider if two people want to go to the end, and if many things are not considered, it is easy to lead to contradictions and lead to breakups.

I think there are three reasons why people who love each other very much will break up: first, the family gap between the two parties is too large; 2. The parents of both parties do not agree; Third, the three views of the two sides do not agree.

First, the family gap between the two sides is too large.

We often say: "Two people can only be happy if they are the right person". In fact, this is very reasonable, if the gap between the two people's families is too large, then their living habits, personalities, social circles, etc., there will be a big gap, maybe at the beginning, they will not care about these, but when they really talk about marriage, they will find that the problem exists.

Therefore, I hope that those couples who have too big a gap between the two families will redouble their efforts, even if they are not the right person at that time, it does not mean that they will not be the right person in the future.

2. The parents of both parties do not agree;

Many people break up because their parents do not agree, some parents are worried that their daughters will be bullied if they marry far away, and some parents feel that the woman is not worthy of their son, etc., which is also a helpless thing, although some people can convince their parents, but the vast majority of them are still forced to choose to break up with their beloved.

Third, the three views of the two sides do not agree.

This is the most important reason, many people start to fall in love with their appearance, and only in the end do they find that the three views of two people do not match at all, and there is no way to become each other's soul mates.

I could only break up in tears. I think that if two people can go to the end, they must have three views, and only when they have three views can they get along.

There may be many reasons for breaking up people who love each other very much. For example, if one of your parents opposes your relationship, it may prevent you from coming together. In addition, if a third party intervenes, there is a very deep misunderstanding between you, and it may also make you break up.

When two people's pursuits are different, they may have different ideas, and they may break up at that time, because people with incompatible personalities can't be together, their opinions are different, and they will always think about their own thoughts, then the two of you will not be happy together, and in the end it can only end up breaking up.

Some of these reasons are sometimes very complicated, sometimes very simple, maybe because of a misunderstanding between two people, or because there is no relationship between two people, so they will break up directly, so such a reason will make two people who love each other very much break up directly.

The reason why two people who love each other very much need to break up is generally to touch each other's bottom line. In this way, the people who love each other will break up. Although two people love each other, they also have their own independent personalities, if one person touches the bottom line of the other person's personality, then the two people can't be together, they can only break up.

The reason for the breakup of people who love each other very much is sometimes trivial, because it is difficult for the problem of original responsibility to appear, because two people must have the same views in the process of falling in love, have the same interests and hobbies, and will not have too different opinions, mainly in the process of getting along, so that the other party can not feel the emotional appeal they want, which accumulates over time, and eventually leads to a breakup.

Because of the real problems and the reasons in the family.

First of all, there is a practical problem, because boys do not have good economic conditions to give girls a good material life, then girls will definitely choose to break up.

The second is that two people can't get support from the family when they fall in love together, and the attitude of the family towards the two people is a very important factor.

There are only two reasons for two people who originally loved each other very much to break up, the first reason is the opposition of parents and family, there is no way for two people to unite, and the second reason is that one of them has betrayed and cheated, which makes the other party unacceptable.

There are many reasons for this, which are also very direct, that is, there is no such love between two people, or two people have a betrayal in love or a person who is in contact with two people, and they don't want to endure such a relationship, and they take the initiative to break up, and they will also let the two people who love each other break up directly.

The reason for this is also very simple, that is, my partner doesn't like me now, although he loved me very much before, but now he doesn't like me anymore, so I will break up with my partner directly, because it is impossible for the two of us to be together well.

It's a bit ridiculous to say this reason, that is, my boyfriend misunderstood me at the beginning, so it led me to break up with my boyfriend, because I felt that my boyfriend didn't love me anymore, and there was no longer me in his heart, so I chose to break up with my boyfriend.

There are family reasons and work reasons, as well as long-distance relationship reasons, which will smooth out the relationship between the two parties, and will allow time to destroy the feelings of both parties, which will lead to the breakup of the other party who loves each other very much.

A couple of lovers will also have sweet moments, and there will also be moments of conflict, when two people lose their minds and say things that hurt each other when they are in conflict. In this way, the two people who love deeply will also break up.

There are thousands of reasons for breaking up, but the most fatal is emotional betrayal, if one of the couples has an affair with another person of the opposite sex, then the relationship will end immediately. There are also couples who love each other very much, but end up breaking up because of the opposition of their families.

Selective mistakes, what is selective mistakes, is to touch the bottom line, everyone has their own bottom line and principles, if you step on it, it is likely to lead to a breakup, disrespect for each other, men will be a little more or less machismo, moderate machismo can make women feel that you are very manly, and you are very secure with you, but excessive machismo will make the other party feel that you do not respect each other.

Parental family reasons can break up people who love each other very much.

Because two people love each other again, their parents are blocking them in the middle, which will also make there be conflicts between the two people, and they will also break up because of their parents.

One is the opposition of parents, in many cases, if the family background of two people is quite different or the family distance is far away, the parents are more opposed, and the two people who love each other have to break up for their respective families.

The second is that one party has a quirky personality, some people don't have any problems on the surface, but they are flawed in a certain aspect of their hearts, or their personalities are unstable, so they are particularly good to the other half when they are normal, but they will become very scary when they are not normal, which will also lead to the breakup of people who love each other.

1 Because of the opposition of the family, 2 the three views between the two people are different, 3 there are many differences in the family conditions, 4 the disparity between the family backgrounds is too large, 5 the constant quarrels will eventually lead to the separation of the two people.

In fact, I think that these people who love each other break up often because they don't know how to solve problems when they are faced with them, which will make more and more problems, and in the end, the contradictions between two people cannot be solved.

Even if two people who love each other for some reason will lead to a breakdown of the relationship, and will eventually break up, if one party betrays the other party, the other party is not loyal enough, if one party cheats on the other party and does not respect the other party enough, if one party does not respect the other party's parents enough, and seems to have no filial piety, this will also make two people who love each other very much break up.

It will make two people who love each other very much break up, then it may be because the two people are not suitable when they get along, there are often contradictions, there are disagreements when dealing with things, or some external problems, such as family pressure, and the two people can't solve it!

I feel that the most likely reason preventing two people who love each other very much from being together is a barrier from family. For example, if both parents are not optimistic about the couple, it will have a certain impact on each other's hearts.

Many people are under pressure from their families, some people are too far apart, and the woman's family is reluctant to marry their daughters far away, so they will be forced to separate, and some people choose to separate because of too much pressure in their lives.

It may be because of family reasons, or because of some problems with the other party, or because of the three views of two people. That's why two people who love each other break up, or maybe it's because although two people love each other very much, they are not suitable for living together at all, so they break up.

It must be a real problem, and it will generally be a family problem.

It is usually a problem for both parents. After all, our parents are the ones who love us the most, and we can't ignore our parents.

Again, it's a matter of the economy, after all, well, food, drink, housing and transportation all need money now.

In fact, two people who love each other may not necessarily be together, and there may be many reasons why two people cannot be together, such as the opposition of parents at home, the long-distance relationship between two people, and the education and family conditions of two people.

Two people who love each other break up, generally because of family reasons, because there is no problem with the relationship between two people, but they will definitely get married if they love each other, and after marriage, it is a matter of two families.

It is divided into subjective and objective factors. Subjectively, it is the incompatibility of each other's personalities, as well as personal inferiority and insecurity.

Objectively, it is due to differences in economic conditions, parents do not agree, or work and live in different places.

Subjective factors. Two people are emotionally compatible with each other, in love, and there are many contradictions in life, and there are constant disputes and no conflict. Love can alleviate momentary negative emotions.

But it may not be able to break the long-rooted knots and barriers. Especially the incompatibility of each other's personalities. When you can't reach a consensus on most things, no amount of sincere and deep friendship is enough.

When the relationship reaches a dead end, it may be more relaxing to be separated than to continue to be together. In addition to this, an imbalance in mindset is also a subjective factor. If you like to point too much, you will put the opponent in an unattainable position, and when facing other strong competitors, you will show a very obvious sense of frustration and inferiority.

On the one hand, they are worried that they are not good enough to give each other a happy and beautiful life and retreat, and on the other hand, they lose their sense of security in the relationship and doubt each other's attitude and feelings, which will lead to the situation of breaking up with the person who loves each other.

Objective factors. A huge difference in economic conditions can prevent two people from being together. In particular, one party has a solid family condition and a deep background, while the other party is only from a poor family, so it will naturally attract opposition and intervention from parents.

This kind of family pressure on a couple who love each other will force them to face reality and return to a completely different trajectory of life. The second is the off-site factor. The two people have lived and worked in different places for a long time, and there is a lack of long-term communication and getting along.

When you are in love, you can come to my city for a few days, and I will go to your city for a vacation and rest. But when faced with marriage, it is necessary to face the reality and reach unity. And many people are unwilling to give up the living environment they are used to, so they can only give up each other and live the life they want.

All in all, when you like it, your thoughts are relatively simple, just look at the feeling and looks, but once you are together, you will usher in many practical or emotional tests, and these problems can not be solved by a "like".