How should I go at the age of 21 and what should I do after the age of 20?

Find a man and get married, and share it with multiple people.

First of all, I ask you to write down this sentence, and then look at your own strengths and your own interests and hobbies, living conditions and other factors, determine a direction, and make unremitting efforts. Everything starts at 0.

You're a great kid, that's my first impression after reading your statement. Anxious and confused about their future, only people with ideas can do this. What I said is not necessarily right, I hope to refer to it.

The value of a person's life is in the prominence of one point. The name of this point is expertise, hobby, good at, ideal, study, etc., all of which mean the same thing: it is to do something well, surprisingly, and everyone needs and likes.

For example: toothpicks, toilet paper, etc., although not big, everyone needs it. So, what do you do?

1] Find the inconvenience of people's lives first, and then choose the point you are willing to break through to study and produce carefully without hurry. 2] Work a job during the day and eat well. Use it in your spare time and in the evenings to break through the projects of your choice.

3] Struggle with your own embarrassment, compromise, and laziness in your heart, and don't stop if you can't make a boutique that others like. 4] Junior high school knowledge is enough to be a world-class boss!! In order to survive based on our own choices and results, we don't need to be a stepping stone with a high degree of education.

5] I don't think I should specialize in computer science, it is laborious and of little value. Choosing a good project, learning knowledge around the project, and finding gaps will save effort. 6] The small streets in the city are all manually cleaned, and their wages are low, dirty, and laborious

People push and walk, and dust-free, sweeping is clean, everyone can push and walk the small power street sweeper, the market is the world. However, if it is not refined and efficient, there is no market, and everything is done in this way.

The value of a person is the result of one's ability to overcome one's own laziness, dependence, and demand. Self-confidence is the essence of life. "If I can't, who else?

1. What questions do you ask the most when your friends come to you for no reason?

If you are very good at makeup and have a keen eye for clothes, people around you will ask your opinion when choosing clothes and cosmetics, this is where your talent lies, you may be very sensitive to color, maybe you are very logical in thinking, maybe you are proper and decent, maybe you are good at taking pictures and retouching, maybe you are very good at talking, these are all your skills.

2. Make a list of the five friends you know and admire the most, and list why you admire them. The intersection of these reasons is the trait you expect to have, and that's what you're interested in.

Once you've identified your hobbies and interests, start asking yourself what jobs require you and what your talents are, and then start experimenting with your own work, trying different areas of work, don't think you're not ready, always make excuses for yourself and stay in the preparation stage for a long time, in fact, just standing still, nothing has changed.

3.Lots of deliberate practice to make 100 pieces to get started. 

Ultimately, it's up to you to find the answer to this question. Do what you can do, and then find out what you want to do, and keep learning and working hard to improve it, do better and stronger.

Young people can try more when they just come out of the society, they don't need to be timid, and they don't want to think about how much money they want to earn at this stage, just learn things, enrich their work experience and experience, and later improve their ability to go up, and high income will naturally come. Today's oil prospects can be done: new **, new retail, education and other industries, the future will not be outdated, but also a shortage of talents.

You have to learn and progress more, so that your family can see your growth and progress mature, so that your family can rest assured! Because your family is worried that you are busy in vain and waste your time, energy and financial resources.

I was 22 years old, graduated from junior high school, I didn't do well in the exam at that time, my family was poor, so I chose to drop out of school, I was also very confused, I went to work day after day, with a small salary from a part-time job, three points and one line, I was tired of numbness, I wanted to change, but I couldn't take that step, I didn't have any specialty, I didn't have any advantages, I was introverted, I really don't know what I can do, what should I do? The education level is low, and if you go to a big city, you need to have a degree, you can't see clearly, you don't have a goal, and you don't even have a dream. What a crossroads in life.

Being born as a human being is sometimes really painful.

How high the heart is, how big the stage is, choose your own path, stick to it if you choose the right one, there will definitely be a good ending, choose the wrong one, it's a big deal to start over! You have to cheer for yourself, no one can really help you in your heart, you have to rely on your own struggle, diligence and hard work to have a better future and development

At the age of 21, plan your life direction, set a three-year goal or a five-year goal, find a promising industry, do it seriously, become an expert and expert, have your own career, have a good financial plan, take down the house, and then consider the car! Travel once or twice a year!

The lecture sells tickets, and the topic is If you don't study hard now, you will be worse than me in the future.

At the age of 1, I should rush back with whoever I choose, because you are an adult, and you should go wherever you want. Where to go and where to achieve? The place that should be chosen is chosen by each level of the class. That's what the contract means.

As a boy, you must have a skill, this is the capital to start a family in the society, you are still young, you must go to study, as for what major, depending on your interests, education is still very useful, at least you will touch fewer nails and take fewer detours, more opportunities than people without academic qualifications will have more opportunities and a wider range of choices, people who have gone through a history in society, but will feel that reading is a very happy thing, less young do not work hard, the boss is sad, this sentence is true.

We have a particularly unrealistic extravagant expectation, which is to get better and better. There is always turmoil and change, and no one can move forward steadily. We always fall, get up again, fall again, and then slowly get stronger, and although we still have to fall, it doesn't hurt anymore.

There is no easy way for people to live. Everyone has tiredness that can't be stopped; Everyone has endless suffering; Everyone has tears that can't be shed. No matter how tired and bitter it is, you can't face it strongly; No matter how difficult and annoying it is, life has to go on the same way.

Learn, do what you love, and don't worry about it. Follow your heart.

Go out and see the outside world, I don't know which city you are in, if it is a third- or fourth-tier city, then I advise you to go out for a walk, but the premise is that there must be acquaintances in the field, you can trust, your family can trust people. There is a lot of room for development in the outside world, we are too limited now, just living in a circle, in fact, I don't want to do this, if I don't get married next year, I will go out for a walk, another city, or another country!

It depends on your specialties and interests. For you now, please don't pursue too much material things, and don't do it on a whim. The key is that you have to lay a solid foundation now, such as learning some long-term technical work such as electric welding, auto repair, etc., as long as you are technically proficient, are you still afraid that there will be no income in the future?

Or if you are interested, invest some petty capital and engage in some farming. If the market prospect is good, there is a promising future. No matter what you do, you must take it seriously, be willing to endure hardships, persist in working hard, and have confidence!

Learn computer programming, and come out to find a job with a high income.

Read more, learn more, and practice more.

I can send you a tutorial to learn first.

"The Weakness of Human Nature" Carnegie.