I didn t know how to get along with my friends, and I felt lost

At this age, girls are more sensitive, but don't take it too seriously! There will always be friction between friends, small awkwardness is always inevitable, if the other party is really friends with you, then all this will not be too much of a problem, if you are wrong, apologize bravely! When you work hard she still ignores you, then give up decisively, because this shows that she is not your real friend, friends need to be considerate of each other, but not endlessly tolerate each other, that will wronged themselves will also miss the real friendship, sometimes the necessary decisions are indispensable, life has to go on, you can't just wander in one place, everything needs to work hard, then life will improve, come on!

It's up to you to decide!!

I can understand your feelings, because I'm also such a person, and I'm also more introverted.

The book says that the way to get along with people is as follows: 1. Don't criticize others.

2. Praise others sincerely.

3. Consider the problem from the other person's point of view.

4. Always smile.

5. Be a good listener.

6. Talk about topics that the other person is interested in.

Hope it helps.

I'd like to be friends with you if I could, mine.

Making friends is each other's business You treat your friends sincerely Your friends will naturally be sincere to you Talk to friends to understand each other through communication Listen to your friends with an open mind and make progress with each other Then it will be easy for you to find friends I hope you will find your true friends.

This kind of experience is normal, you better get used to it, everyone has different personality ideas, you have to learn to empathize. If you have friends in the past, it is recommended to contact them often, after all, most of the problems encountered by peers are the same, and it is better for everyone to think together than to bear it alone. Finally, it is recommended that you maintain a cheerful state of mind, have a bright smile every day, in a stressful situation in high school, everyone is lonely, everyone also craves warmth, I believe that your cheerfulness will attract you to have more friends.

I wish you a happy life and progress in your studies.

In fact, your personality is very good, speak straight, in fact, it is nothing to speak straight, much better than those who are not right-hearted, generally speak straight, people can't accept it, compare the heart to the heart, everyone wants to hear good words, but it will be very easy to be with the talk worthwhile, and it will also make people progress, sometimes make friends, you have to be attentive and sincere, rather than already having a certain framework in your heart, what do you think your friends are like, that is, not imposing what you think on others, because everyone thinks differently, We always think, how good he should be, how he doesn't understand me, this is still my own thoughts, in fact, friends are also a kind of fate, I used to have few friends, but also this kind of thinking, with sincerity to make friends, appropriate tolerance, one more friend is better than multiple enemies, you are now in high school, to cherish, in the future work that is even more friendless, school friendship is the purest, usually just a few small contradictions, or a problem of mentality, relaxed mentality, people are also happy, looking back, you will feel that these affect the contradictions between you, It's not worth talking about, it's going to be ridiculous, my question today is also a kind of fate, if you don't mind, you can talk to me, my, my screen name is: No Youru Guo . I like to make friends, so let's talk about ...... if it's okay^

In fact, I have the same problem, and the method is very simple: 1. When she is angry with you. 2. Don't go to make peace and have a cold war with her. 3. Wait.

I succeeded with this method and changed her temper.

To be friends is to be honest with each other, and if you do this, I believe you will have many friends. It should feel easy and enjoyable for everyone to walk together. If you feel that this friend of yours is always stressing you, you should treat it with a flat mind.

There are a lot of people around you who want to be your friends.

Just don't be careful.

If you want others to be good friends with you, treat others as good friends first!

Be optimistic: Bad things will pass.

Everyone will have a time of confusion, confusion is the normal state of our lives, because we can not predict the future, do not know what will happen in the future, if long-term confusion, will make a person have a negative psychology, for example, anxiety, depression, etc., if not timely relieve this emotion, it will affect a person's living state, and even make him tired of the world, therefore, if my friend is confused, I am willing to accompany him.

1. I will help to find what he likes Many times, the reason why a person is confused is because he doesn't know what he really likes and what he should pursue, so the first step to please be confused will be to help him find what he really likes, when a person is interested in something, he will have greater motivation and enthusiasm to complete it seriously, therefore, if you are still confused, ask yourself what you like, and then, put aside all your worries to complete it.

Second, I will help him to develop appropriate goals and plans When a person knows what he likes, the next step is to set long-term goals and short-term goals, long-term goals can make people not forget their original intentions, short-term goals help a person to complete a thing step by step, after all, no matter what we do, we will slack off things, and even have boredom, the right short-term goals can help you get out of this slack negativity, in addition, the right goals also reduce a person's anxiety, Maintain a positive mindset every day.

Third, I will supervise him, conscientiously complete all things in the process of completing the goal, there will definitely be slack or bad mood, then, a suitable supervisor plays a very big role, I will encourage him when he wants to give up, help him when he encounters difficulties, help him when he is in a bad mood, this encouragement from the outside world will allow him to face everything in the future with a more positive attitude.

Then I will give him encouragement, will let him rekindle hope, and if there is a good opportunity, I will definitely recommend it to him and take him out of the confusion together.

In the process of growing up, we often feel very lost, if your friend around you feels lost, you can take him out for a walk, enlighten him more, and talk to him.

Communicate with him more, but you can't solve the problem for him, you can only provide him with a solution to the problem, and you have to rely on yourself to get out of the confusion.

A friend is someone who comes out to pull you in times of trouble.

It is the one who has your troubles and listens patiently to all the things on your mind.

It is the person who is really happy for you when you are proud of your life.

It is the one who points you to the wrong path when you are on the wrong path.

It is the treasure of your life.

Remember. Wealth is not your friend for life.

And friends are your life's treasure.

What is a friend? A friend is a guitar in a happy day, playing the joy of life for you to your heart's content; Friends are a spring breeze in sad days, gently brushing away the gloom clouds in your heart for you.

What is a friend? Friends are the breeze and will wipe the sweat off your face for you; Friends are the drizzle, will wash away the dust for you; Friends are the big trees, and they will sprinkle a green sprout for you.

Friends, it doesn't have to be very good at getting to know you.

Friend, not necessarily when you need it most, he has to step in.

Friend, just don't treat you as an outsider.

Friend, I won't step on you in your most difficult moments.

Friends, we will not harm your interests because of personal interests.

A friend wants you to constantly discover his strengths! Forget about his shortcomings!

Friends are trust in each other!

A friend is the one who comes out when you need him the most!

A good friend is a brother.,You have a difficulty calling him 'even if it's far away', but some friends are unreliable and interests.。。。

Life will inevitably have troughs, but it is difficult to become a big tree without wind and rain.

As a friend, you are a good friend. However, there are some things that she has to do by herself.

If she doesn't even know what she wants, then. Whatever you give her, it's useless.

If you lose the courage to love again because you have had a failed relationship, then what qualifications do you have to have love? I know that every failure is a heart-rending pain.

But we have to stand up, because I'm not alone in this world.

We have parents and friends.

Parents want us to do things that we don't want to do, and you can tell them you don't want to.

When a friend needs our help, you can lend a hand.

When a friend is sad, you can hug him and give him an understanding smile.

But, you have to understand, what do you want?

If you can't figure it out, just stand there. Don't move.

If you figured it out, go for it.

Now that you understand, what else can stop you?

Since it is because of love together, we should seriously manage this relationship, pay what we can give, the result is not important, and we will start and finish well.

There is never a person you can't live without, and what you can't do without now doesn't mean you can never be separated. There's nothing you can't give up, and there's nothing you don't give up. You might give up first.

Look at what she thinks, if she hides her feelings and ruins her happiness because she accommodates her family, that is the real pain and regret. The most important thing about feelings is your own feelings. She pressed whatever she wanted.

Do it with your own thoughts, people are young for so once, isn't it good to make a presumptuous choice for their own happiness?

Give her some time.

Like emotional problems, it will be solved by itself after a long time.

Your job is to comfort her more if you have nothing to do.

also help her find a suitable boyfriend for her.

First of all, I have to help her get out of the shadow of her previous boyfriend, if you want to fall in love with someone else, you have to let the person in your heart move first.

The pain of making a choice is only a period of time before and after the choice, but happiness is a lifetime.

In the end, the family members will stand together in the end.

Don't think so much, make up your mind and take care of your own business.

If she wants to live her own life, then she will fight for herself, if she doesn't want to, then she can only be herself against her will.

You shouldn't tell us anything like that.

Actually, you should talk to his parents.

That way she doesn't need to speak.

After all, as her friend, it is necessary to do something for her.

Even if it's insignificant.

You say these words to his parents.

The effect is much better than our answer.

Everyone goes through emotional lows.

After the injury, I feel scared.

But when true love comes.

No one can resist it.

Your friend still hasn't met her love.

She will find her happiness

A py-friend is someone who will make sincere promises to you; will tell you the truth tactfully; I will calmly share with you the light of the wheel at any time, whether it is bright or sad.

Friends will understand what you feel in your heart, even if you remain silent, even if you don't know yourself.

Friends will always forgive you, and always before you forgive yourself.

Friends will always occupy a corner of your heart, and this corner may not be big, but it is immortal.

A friend is not someone who constantly paints you with false brilliance, but someone who constantly encourages you to achieve it.

Your friend's evaluation of you is consistent in front of anyone on any occasion because of loyalty.

Friends are happy to always believe in you, and trust doesn't need a reason.

Friends give you warmth and comfort when you are difficult, and people you don't forget when you are happy.

A friend is the one who smiles when you think of him or her.

If a man loves to say to you like this: 'I promised to keep it a secret, but I told you because you were my best friend.' Remember to keep a distance from him (her) Baotong.

Mentality, it can be said that almost everyone has such an experience, how to deal with it? I've thought of a few for you, I hope it can help you:

Confused, because there is no goal, first set yourself a small goal in the near future, through time and then carefully consider your ideals, in this world, what you want to get, what kind of efforts you need to achieve it, you have to act.

If you don't want to communicate, you can find the reason, why you can't be optimistic in front of others, because you are nervous and timid, or do it deliberately, and use methods to improve if you find this flaw.

As long as you do the above two things well, you will not feel lonely and without friends.

No matter what you improve, it takes time and process, and you have to slowly grind in some things to form good habits.

Even so, you are still you, you have not hurt others, and others will not attack you. It's nice to be free. Do you have blood type A? People with this personality should work in the technology industry.

Be cheerful, be outgoing, and make more friends.

Normal, I don't have many real friends now, just work hard to get by.

Friends open up their own! Be optimistic, you're not the only one in society right now.