How did you feel before you got married, was everyone like this?

Updated on society 2024-07-09
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can't help it, this is a necessary transition period, I understand your feelings, because my husband and I have also had such a period.

    In the decoration, it is recommended that you do as much as you want, some things that can be replaced in the future, you can not buy a very advanced one-time thing, and now the things are updated so quickly, can you guarantee that everything can be used forever?

    Regarding the issue of the wedding banquet, from your statement, it is really difficult to do, I don't know if you have finalized this matter, my suggestion is to discuss with your husband first, don't be too tough, because marriage is a matter of the two of you, you tell him, people get married once in a lifetime, you don't want to leave any regrets, not to mention that your parents definitely don't want their daughter's wedding banquet to be too shabby, so you must run a few more restaurants, a little more tired, To see if there is a hotel that is close to the effect area and the price of the dish is not very expensive, it is best to ask if there are any acquaintances who are engaged in the catering industry around, and ask friends to help write a recipe. When we got married, we also ran a lot, my husband's house is also in the effect area, and then we finally found a restaurant not very far from his house, the store layout is also very good, the menu first chooses how much is about how much per table, and then make some changes according to the dishes ordered by the hotel, compared to fish, shrimp, or something like that, the price difference between sea bass and salmon is dozens of dozens, in fact, the appearance and taste are similar, and the price of fried shrimp and brine shrimp is also much worse, and tobacco and alcohol must be brought by their own ,..Now the price is so high, in our place, even if you don't bring cigarettes and alcohol, the cheapest no seven or eight hundred and one tables can not be done at all, I don't know what price you are, I did it in 2006, when the tobacco and alcohol were removed, a table also ran more than 600, and the money for the wedding banquet was almost offset with the favor money, and the people who came also wanted to be lively, as long as the dishes were enough to eat, the dishes were not very bad, and now everyone knows that the wedding banquet did not eat the head.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's right, and so am I.

    There are not a few quarrels because of economic conditions before marriage, you should be considerate of each other, 6 years have passed, this is just a small trial before marriage, and the days in the future are always there, more contradictions are waiting for you.

    However, if you are married and live in a two-person world, the relationship will go further.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, that's it when you get married, as far as I'm concerned, the two of them were originally very good, but because they wanted to get married, the relationship was particularly bad, and they quarreled at every turn, which was really annoying. Originally, getting married was a matter for the two of us, but there were many people in the middle who made trouble, one would say this, one would ask for that, and the other would say that this was not good, embarrassing her, it was really helpless.

    Sometimes there is nowhere to go when you really cry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Getting married is certainly a hassle!

    Life is inevitably firewood, rice, oil and salt, of course, there are bumps and bumps!

    Wedding banquets are actually profitable, right?! Of course it's hard to make money!

    Discuss everything, anyway, the two of you still have a long way to go, compare your hearts with your hearts, and empathize!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Seeing that the wedding day is approaching, many newlyweds will be emotionally affected, marriage is a happy thing, but the newlyweds will have other emotions in addition to being happy, I will talk about it belowMood before marriageHow and how to regulate premarital emotions.

    1. What is the mood before marriage?

    1. Most newcomers will be nervous and anxious while being happy. In the face of the marriage date getting closer and closer, I am always worried that the other party will not love me as much as I do after marriage, and I am afraid that my life after marriage will not be happy.

    2. Newcomers are anxious and prone to tantrums before marriage, especially in front of acquaintances, sometimes they know that they can't lose their temper, but they feel anxious and uncontrollable when they hear about marriage.

    3. Of course, most of the newlyweds will occasionally be anxious by the cumbersome wedding, which is a normal phenomenon, as long as they regulate their emotions, it will not have much impact, so it is very important to regulate their emotions before marriage.

    2. How to regulate premarital feelings.

    1. When people feel anxious and irritable, don't think about anything, you can go outdoors to run or play ball, a moderate amount of exercise can not only exercise the body, but also relax the body and mind, relieve anxiety, and make you more energetic to do the next thing.

    2. People tend to devote themselves wholeheartedly to things they are interested in when they are concerned, so when you feel anxious, you might as well put down your work and do what you are most interested in.

    3. The best way to relieve stress is undoubtedly to vent your emotions, tell your relatives or good friends about the anxiety and tension in your heart, adjust your psychological balance, or cry alone in a suitable place to vent all negative emotions.

    4. If you feel upset in dealing with wedding matters, you can divert your attention and look at the scenery outside the window, or you can walk around and deal with it after relieving stress.

    I conclude: know that the above isMood before marriagePleasure, these are conducive to the smooth running of the wedding.

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