After getting married, will you dislike your husband for earning less, what will you do?

Updated on society 2024-07-15
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I will not dislike my husband for earning less, and I will work with him to make the family richer.

    Money is very important to every family and affects the happiness of the whole family to a large extent. There are many girls who will think that their husbands earn less after marriage, but I don't think I will do this, but will work with him to make life better.

    This is the man I chose myself, and I have no reason to think that he is making less money. My partner and I have known each other since we met and fell in love, and we have already known each other well enough before marriage, and I have long known his financial income.

    Although life suddenly became a lot more stressful after the two of them entered into marriage, I don't think this is a reason to dislike him for making less money. He has been working hard for this family and for the happiness of the two of us, and I think this heart is the biggest motivation for this marriage to continue.

    Life is actually like this, although there is a lot of pressure, but we can go on hand in hand. I don't know what those who think that their husbands make less money think, the man you choose in your life, and you think he makes less money after marriage, so why not find a man who makes more money before you get married?

    I will work hard with my husband to make money and strive to make our lives richer. That's what I think, and I've always done so in my married life. Except from the time my child was born to the age of one, I have always devoted myself to my work and have been trying to make money.

    Although my wife and I are not successful in our careers, we are both working steadily, and our income is enough to meet the needs of the family and we can have a little savings.

    Maybe the current life is not what I wanted, but I think as long as we continue to work hard, the future is always worth looking forward to.

    A woman's choice of life partner, if even she begins to dislike herself, it is not easy for those two people to continue on the road of life in the future.

    As long as he is willing to work for you, you can go on hand in hand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It also depends on how much my husband's salary is every month. If there are really few, there will still be some dislike, and they may find some jobs in other areas to subsidize the family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think so, as long as he is self-motivated and working hard, I think we should give him the greatest support, so that he doesn't have too much pressure, and I can share his pressure and work hard.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After getting married, I will not dislike my husband for earning less, if he earns less, I will encourage him to improve his business level and strive to be appreciated by the company.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, I will also earn money to subsidize the family, plan the family together, and the amount of money I earn is not a measure of happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal for a woman to not earn money after marriage, you just need to do the following:

    1. Don't get angry.

    Don't be angry when your husband dislikes you for making less money. It's useless to be angry and open your eyes, it's better to use your brain to think about how to make money in Lang Liang Xi Cong, besides, if women are often angry, it will affect their health!

    2. Don't quarrel with him.

    When your husband dislikes you for making less money, of course, don't quarrel with him. Respect the reality, the fact that you earn less will not change because you quarrel, and the quarrel will also affect the relationship between your husband and wife.

    3. Talk to your husband.

    When your husband dislikes you for earning less money, you can talk to your husband. Tell everything you do for your family, clean up your family, take care of your children, etc., and dedicate your time and youth to your family, so what if you have time to make money? As long as you can talk to the old bus, you can generally be understood.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After marriage, your husband's hunger always shows that the money you earn is bad luck, and you can quietly solve it like this: first of all, you can work harder, you can change jobs or learn heart skills, increase your competitiveness, don't care about your husband's eyes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should reply to the married woman, she already earns less, how much can you earn? As far as you earn the most, you raise me

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I need to talk to my husband. Generally speaking, this aspect should be considered and negotiated before marriage, and if one party loses his or her job at work, the other half will tolerate it.

    But in the family, if a man points to a woman to make money to live, then I scoff at her. Although it cannot be said that women necessarily need to be supported by men, men cannot use you as a money-making machine.

    To put it another way, it's a sign that he's slowly getting tired of you, and if he really loves you, he'll encourage you to do what you want. You can talk to him well, choose what you want to do and enjoy, and turn it into earning power as much as possible, and grow while having fun. I think he'll support you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is recommended that you communicate well with your husband to understand his stupid ideas and needs, and also express your thoughts and confusions. You can try to seek the help of a professional counsellor or a relationship counsellor to solve the problem together. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your emotional and mental health, and maintain an extremely optimistic attitude.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he mentions who earns money next time, you say that he will try to take care of the children and earn money, sometimes there is no food, and you want to make money, but the children always have to be taken care of. It can't be the best of both worlds, otherwise what would a man do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that your husband also has no ability to make money, if he has the ability to make money, he will not dislike you for not being able to make money. You don't earn money, that's because you have children, take care of children, do housework, and take care of the family. It's been so tiring and hard.

    If you don't do that, you'll definitely make money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I can make money, more than you, you can get out, I don't need you, you're a burden to me, so to speak.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Feed yourself and show him, is it impossible to live without a few stinky money from him? Speak with strength.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As long as you can support yourself, what qualifications does he have to say about you without spending your husband's money!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you have to work hard, prove that you are not bad, and slap him in the face with practical actions.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you go out and earn money, and tell him with practical actions that you can also make money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Married for 7 years, she has never earned any money, she is pregnant and has children, 2 boys.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Substitution, simple things, and ask this question, the brain is not good!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then go out and make money and let him know that you can support yourself too.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should work hard and raise your salary.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then use your expertise and make money to show him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What can I do, earn my own money and spend it myself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Start your own business, it's good for your family and for yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You also dislike him, does he earn millions a month? Why look down on people?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a man earns less money, will he be disgusted by his wife?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes. Because in the traditional Chinese consciousness, men are responsible for the financial responsibility of the family. If you don't make much money, you will definitely be disliked by your wife.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes. Because one of the factors that maintain a marriage is the income of the family, the combination of a family requires a lot of expenses, and if the man's income is not enough, it will add a lot of troubles to the woman.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not necessarily, because every woman wants to care about it differently, some women may care about how much money you earn today and whether she can spend it, and some women care about whether you are tired today and do not care about how much money you can earn today.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    will definitely be disgusted by his wife, in married life, if the man earns very little money, after a long time, the wife will look down on the man and will choose to break up with the man.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, if a man makes very little money after getting married, it will definitely make his wife dislike, because this will bring a lot of financial pressure to the family, and it will also make his wife feel that you are very incompetent.

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