Will you give up on someone you really like because of low self esteem? Why?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Yes, the emotions generated by low self-esteem really affect the relationship, and before the adjustment is good, some people will really give up, at least leave a good impression on the other party, afraid that the other party will find out that I am actually a cowardly person. I don't feel good enough of myself, and I don't have the qualifications to contact him, talk to him, and walk side by side with him.

    So some people say that it's an excuse to not be worthy, and if you give up, you don't like it, not necessarily. But people who give up liking each other because of low self-esteem can only say that they love themselves more, care more about their feelings, do not think about the person they like, hurt each other's feelings, and are unwilling to work hard to change themselves.

    If you still have that in your heart, he will say it, even if it is rejected, it is a big deal to cry so that you can have a number in your heart, and you will find it later. Don't feel inferior, low self-esteem will only disadvantage you.

    There used to be a lot of friends like this, he felt that he had to work hard to earn money for the woman to live a better life, so he went to work during the day and drove Didi at night, but the time to accompany the girl is getting less and less, because things have trade-offs, in the man chose the latter in accompanying the woman and trying to earn money, he has always felt that only when the economy keeps up with them will they live happily. Later they separated. Later, the boy's economy improved, he bought a garage, and wanted to recover the girl, but time could not go back, and the girl already had a family.

    If you like someone, the first thing that comes to mind must be low self-esteem, and this sentence is something I believe. If you have a crush, then you might as well turn it into a clear love, sometimes a confession is also a kind of end, give yourself an explanation of your crush.

    If you're already in love and give up because of low self-esteem, I don't know much about this, I haven't experienced it, unless she's really, really good. But if you really like it, why not get better? Not for that girl, but also for yourself.

    In the end, all I have is advice and opinions, you have to think about it yourself, it's too difficult to give up, and don't make decisions for a girl at random.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, it won't. Because I feel that my low self-esteem stems from my lack of effort, and if I work very hard, I can be worthy of him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I would give up on the person I liked because of low self-esteem. Because I feel like I'm not as good as him, it's going to be a lot of pressure to be with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I won't, because I think two people should be together well, and they should also change some of their unconfidence, so that the relationship between two people can be deeper.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No. Such words may make you lose someone you particularly like, so this kind of thing should not happen in life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you meet someone you like, you always retreat because of low self-esteem. What to do in this case? In fact, many people with low self-esteem are not good enough.

    It's all psychological. He may miss the other person's attitude towards him because he denies himself first, even if the other person is interested. I really feel the same way.

    When you meet someone you like, if you are held back by low self-esteem, you will regret it for the rest of your life. So, I hope to share what I want to say and make a difference. All people with low self-esteem, when they have low self-esteem, in fact, if they know why they are withdrawing, such as average appearance, family insufficiency, etc., then reflect on themselves, analyze from the inferiority complex, and strive to overcome their shortcomings in a targeted manner.

    For example, if you don't look like you're dressed for anything, if you're not tall enough, you can work hard to improve your knowledge, and if you're not financially rich, you'll become a warm person.

    Another big reason for the inferiority complex in private equity is to think too highly of the other party. Because in fact, if it weren't for some wealthy aristocrats, none of them would be ordinary families. So when you're about to quit, remember to remind yourself unconsciously.

    It's the same for everyone. Why have low self-esteem. Maybe people are born with an inferiority complex, so it's not just encouragement that solves the problem, but such people often get more hits, leading to doubts about themselves, which eventually turns into a vicious circle.

    In this case, you can only rely on your own initiative and mentality to save yourself. Some people don't really pursue and are completely decadent by self-defeat, and some people have low self-esteem, but the mentality of pursuing beauty is correct. They take the initiative to think about their own path and look for other paths.

    I'm also a person with low self-esteem, and that feeling is painful. It's like another ego that keeps injecting negativity into its head and is talking to you all the time. It doesn't seem to work.

    People can't seem to see you, and you can't seem to get along with others. I can't move a single step. But this is not a terminal illness.

    Rely on your own willpower.

    Or people who can escape low self-esteem lack the most courage to take the first step. You must know that everything is difficult at the beginning. Moreover, because I look at the results too seriously, I am afraid of failure, so I am afraid of the tail.

    You must know that the things of this world are by no means like TV scripts, everything is arranged very well, and the princess will always wait for the prince to appear.

    Don't take yourself too seriously. People with low self-esteem always care too much about other people's opinions and are afraid of others' eyes, but in fact, there are so many people in the world, and a person is just a person who passes by in a hurry in the eyes of others, and you are only the protagonist of your own inner world. Remember, no one is going to leave a spotlight on you in particular.

    Unless you are Wang Sicong.

    It's hard to get rewards for pursuing someone you like without working hard. If you are denied, you can't come back. In layman's terms, roll up your sleeves and it's over. What is there to worry about.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, it won't. I'm still a very persistent person, and if I like that person very much, I will still be brave enough to pursue him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I will also give up chasing the person I like because of low self-esteem, because I feel that there is no match between two people, and I feel that my personality is not the same after being together, and I have no way to communicate, and I feel that the other party does not like me at all, so I will give up, or I feel that the long pain is better than the short pain, and in the end I will be sad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't, because you have to be brave, otherwise you will become a great failure, and you will regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will give up, because the current society is very realistic, and if your requirements do not meet the standards of the other party, you should give up as soon as possible to prevent yourself from being hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I don't give up on someone I like because of low self-esteem. If I like someone very much, then there must be some good qualities in that person that I appreciate. In the same way, if you want him to like me, then I also have to have some qualities that attract him.

    And I believe that most of these advantages can be acquired through hard work and dedication.

    There is a saying that the interaction between people begins with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.

    And more than 70% of this can be changed through acquired efforts. The only thing that can't be changed is the innate appearance, but the appearance can also be greatly improved through ** care, exercise, maintaining figure, choosing clothing matching suitable for your body shape and appearance and temperament, as well as elegant temperament and humorous conversation.

    If I like someone, I don't have to worry about giving up or not giving up because of low self-esteem, because it doesn't make any sense. Instead, they will spend all their time improving themselves and making themselves good enough. And to make yourself more excellent is nothing more than an external image and an internal strong quality.

    Specifically, efforts can be made in the following aspects:

    1. Appearance: 1. In terms of body, you can insist on practicing yoga.

    It can not only keep the body slender and tight, but also keep the body flexible and light, and the temperament of the whole person is different. 2. Insist on doing your own care, stick it at home at night, and keep it clean and moisturized. 3. Get enough sleep.

    4. Match the right clothes every day, and then put on light makeup to maintain an elegant and calm state.

    Second, the inner quality: we must learn more and see more, and seize all the fragments of time to improve ourselves. You can learn professional knowledge, and you can also learn all the knowledge you are interested in, including literature, psychology, aesthetics, clothing, food, etc. In short, there are many skills, not pressing.

    When you unconsciously have made a qualitative leap from the inside to the outside, becoming more and more excellent, you will still have low self-esteem, not to mention giving up the person you like because of inferiority. When you become good enough, even if the person you like is not suitable for you, there will be a big ticket of people rushing towards you. So, don't give up by focusing on what inferiority complex is, hurry up and seize the time to improve yourself, or you will always have to retreat step by step, until there is no way back in the end!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I will give up on myself because of low self-esteem, and the person I really like, because of low self-esteem, makes me afraid to look at him directly, and makes me feel that he is particularly good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I would give up on the person I really liked because of low self-esteem, because I felt that I was not worthy of him at all, so I would give up my feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I won't, because I'm very confident in myself, and I'll try to catch up when I meet true love, and I won't leave regrets for myself.

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