I quarrel with my boyfriend, I m so sad, what should I do if I quarrel with my boyfriend but can t f

Alas, your heart is a little too small It's the same as before my wife got married, but now I'm almost enlightened, it's normal to talk to each other, it's because you're afraid that you'll be jealous, so you set up stealth and visibility to that girl, and if you love someone, you have to trust him! Unless you have a definite reason to prove that he is not exclusive to you, what reason do you have to doubt him? Also, if you have an opinion or idea about him, just come forward and talk to her, there is no need to break up at every turn, or something!

It's very emotionally hurtful.

The heart is too small, I think so, if any boy talks to my girlfriend, I am welcome, so that it can prove my girlfriend's personality and charm more, I don't doubt my girlfriend's reason is that I will not doubt the love I choose, I doubt this love, I will not choose!

You're jealous and he's happy.

But don't go too far, just be generous in front of him.

And then you talk to the girl privately, and then everyone will be fine, and you don't want her to have no friends of the opposite sex other than you.

You think too much, and if you don't have the necessary trust, and you're having a hard time getting along, you should give him more trust if you love him.

Even if you are in love, you will have friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship, so don't think too much about it.

It may be a common problem of men, who like to talk about big truths and put themselves on the moral high ground to sanction each other, so when arguing with men, they should take advantage of their unpreparedness, and when they talk about a certain topic, they suddenly turn to the point of view that they have not won before, and they can suppress him. Hahaha, this is done when you really want to win. In fact, to be honest, I find that there is no point in arguing with men, the more you argue, the more angry he becomes, the more he argues, you just ignore him, don't be angry with yourself, it's not worth it.

When you encounter a point of view that is contrary to yours, you use modal words.

Like "cut" like that) with subtle body language (roll your eyes.

shrug your shoulders and so on) It's good to express dissatisfaction, don't really care, or you will lose again.

If you can't quarrel, you can cry, you can be coquettish, so that your boyfriend will coax you,

Summary. Dear, since it's sad to quarrel with your boyfriend, you can regulate your sadness by breathing.

Dear, since it's sad to quarrel with your boyfriend, you can regulate your sadness by breathing.

It's the morning before yesterday that I told him to tie up a software lover relationship, he said to bind his family, I said why, he said why he has to bind lovers, I said why can't bind, and then he said he didn't want to get it, and then I got angry, I said oh, he said every time because of a little bit of trivial things to quarrel hail acres, and then said to quarrel.

I see! To put it bluntly, he doesn't want to fulfill your wishes, and your emotions collide, leading to a quarrel behind you.

From his point of view, family is more suitable for your relationship than lovers, so he is not fulfilling your wishes.

Because Yan Fan broke up with the first trip, and then the second time he tied up with my family, he lifted it again, and then this afternoon I wanted to talk to him well, I didn't want to talk to him that day, and explained to him, and then as soon as I sent a long message to someone, people were two words, three words were sold in dates, and people thought I was annoyed.

You had a previous emotional change that led to the dissolution of the relationship between the bound lovers and the dissolution of the binding family relationship.

To put it bluntly, the relationship between you is unstable.

If you send a long paragraph, he has two or three words, and thinks you are annoying, which means that he has negative feelings about you and does not love you enough.

And then I didn't talk to him, and then he said, what the hell do you want? You'll be happy after a fight! I'll just say, what is the noisy luck to raise relatives?

I just want to know what you think? Then he didn't reply to me, and he said "Do you want to break up?" And he murdered me.

If he loves you very much, then this phenomenon will not occur.

In this way, he doesn't want you to understand what he thinks, and he doesn't want to break up with you.

Otherwise, I won't reply to you, and I won't murder you.

But he finally said, can you quietly play by yourself? I didn't reply to him, and I ignored him.

That said, he wants you to play quietly by yourself.

He doesn't want to argue with you like this.

It can be seen from here that he doesn't want to continue to quarrel with you, he still loves you in his heart and is unwilling to break up with you.

Teacher, I don't know what to do.

You didn't reply to him, you ignored him, you did the right thing. This will help put the brakes on your emotional conflicts.

Here's what to do: Don't contact him just yet.

After a while, wait for him to take the initiative to reconcile with you.

Doing so will help show your dignity and help ease the emotional conflict between you.

I also thought that I wouldn't contact him anymore, and I kept sending messages and making people trouble.

Uh-huh. It's good not to contact him, at least you can not continue to make trouble for your family.

By the way, dear, why are you sad?

Did he do anything excessive?

Can you go on and add a little bit more?

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject!

As a girl, I understand your depression and grievances very well, hug

I would like to share my thoughts with you, hoping to provide you with some help.

There is only one that clearly expresses the idea and bottom line of self-esteem.

Seeing that you are in a relationship for the first time, you may not have found a suitable way to communicate with your boyfriend, you may be worried that speaking out about your grievances and distress will make the other party feel too sensitive and vulnerable, but it will be very uncomfortable not to say it.

But in a relationship, the most important thing is not conflict, but hidden, and a good relationship must be built on the basis of good communication.

You need to clearly express your attitude and bottom line, you don't like his ex-girlfriend in his public social networking, and you want him to post your ** in social media, because you want you to be a recognized girlfriend ...... in front of his friends and familyYou can express all of this directly.

Through your expression, he can at least understand your thoughts, and through your communication, you can also understand your place in his heart, and may really understand that his behaviors that make you uncomfortable actually have no special meaning, so that you will not be distressed anymore.

Psychoanalysis: Hug you (

Seeing your experience is like seeing me in the past, and the other party's failure to properly handle the past with your ex is indeed easy to cause trouble.

Once, I also had a conflict because of this shed, even if the communication was good, but there seemed to be a thorn in my heart, and I couldn't get over it. I understand how you feel. Because ......

On the surface, reconciliation is good, but in fact, trust collapses

Before you learn about his ex's actions, you have a greater sense of security, and generally believe that you are his only one at the moment, a certain feeling of being in your control or expectation. But when you find out one day that he is doing something behind your back to remember your ex, your original belief in that relationship seems to collapse. You will question whether he can't let go of her, question whether the person he loves is her and not you, and the trust at the beginning will be suddenly reduced, and insecurity will follow.

Because, the development of that relationship, or his performance, is out of control, out of control is the most anxious, you have suffered a "spiritual betrayal" in your heart, the original sense of trust will be diluted, even disintegrated, and this is the source of your reconciliation but still sad and emotionally complicated.

He is the primer of your emotions, but you are the master of your emotions

In fact, when I analyze my heart at that time, I find that all the emotions that arise from him and his ex are rooted in myself, and the other party's behavior only provides an opportunity for me to see my own heart. Not confident, hungry for recognition, not genuinely liking yourself.

Behind his nostalgia may be that some of his needs are not met

Try to think about it from a different perspective, is it possible that you ignored some of his needs, and she once gave them? This may happen if he lacks satisfaction in the relationship, and it is advisable to communicate with him. Of course, if you're basically in place, then, the problem lies with him.

Advice for you].

Communicate in-depth with each other, talk about feelings and needs, and gradually re-chain leasing to build trust

There are also emotions that indicate that the communication is not in place, or that the other party's behavior does not make you trust enough. It is recommended to communicate in depth, explain your feelings in detail, explain your needs, thoughts and expectations one by one, and try to reach an agreement with him to build mutual trust.

Accept yourself and strengthen your inner strength

Self-acceptance is a lifelong topic, and when you focus on loving yourself, your inner strength grows stronger. People with inner strength will be more likely to self-regulate in intimate relationships, which will help you to communicate calmly and emotionally, and when you think you are worthy of love, you will be much less anxious and fearful about this situation.

Of course, if you communicate carefully and he repeatedly ignores your feelings, then be cautious.

Hope the above is helpful to you, good luck.