Isn t it really an excuse to divorce children, divorce, is it good or bad for children!

Updated on parenting 2024-07-27
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There was a man who fell in love with a woman outside of marriage. Love, love. I thought about divorce, but because I felt that it was not good for the children, I could only not divorce, and the explanation to the extramarital woman was that the children could not be divorced, so the man was not making excuses.

    Is this man still in love with his wife, and he still has a wife in his heart Supplement: The child suffered with them when he was young, so he felt that he owed the child, and he didn't want the child to have no mother or father. He and his wife are always fighting, and now his wife is very strict with him, and he is also listening to her, what does this mean, does his heart go back.

    Are you still in love with your wife Supplement: What is the difference between calm and insipid for couples. He basically doesn't participate in his family's affairs, he listens to her, and she does whatever she says.

    What does this mean, he loves her, cares about her, or doesn't care about her? Supplement: What is the difference between calm and insipid for couples.

    He basically doesn't participate in his family's affairs, he listens to her, and she does whatever she says. What does this mean, he loves her, cares about her, or doesn't care about her? Added:

    Which one is unfair to her, is it the wife or the other. Do you think he's going to go home eventually? Added:

    I just want to know if he still cares about his wife. Supplement: Since you care about your wife, why do you lie to her and say that you broke up with a woman outside.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Children are also responsibilities, and if there are no substantive problems in the marriage, understand and tolerate each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Divorce is not good for anyone, especially the child is the ultimate victim, after all, he is the crystallization of the two of you, is the symbol of the original love, once the child is separated, there is no complete family, that is, the so-called lack of the original family, which is quite detrimental to the growth of the child.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not good! Physical and mental health is better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Parents don't need to tell their children about divorce, the children are still young, maybe they don't understand and will be impacted, you can hide this matter first, and then tell him when the child grows up and is sensible and has the ability to accept it, so that the harm to the child will be less.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If the child is still young and ignorant, then you don't need to tell the child, so as not to bring a shadow to the child's growth, but if the child is an adult and sensible, you must tell the child.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think parents still need to talk to their children about divorce, because we can't underestimate the insight of children, and children are more intelligent and sensitive than we think. Although I am divorced, I don't want my child to feel that I have lost the love of either party, and I think it will be better for my child's growth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the parents are divorced, if it is not a matter of principle, it is recommended to communicate well for the children, and try not to take the step of divorce as much as possible, once it cannot be maintained, if the child is older, you can talk to the child, it is not necessary when it is very young, they will not understand, but let the child have pressure on his mind.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that if the child is still in school, don't tell her about the divorce for the time being, and when the summer or winter vacation comes, you can find an opportunity to tell the child, and tell the child at this time, if the child is in a bad mood, it will not delay his class.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, I think it's best not to tell your children until they reach adulthood, because I'm afraid that if they can't accept it, it will affect their mood and learning. Therefore, many people make it clear to their children after the college entrance examination.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not correct, although the child is young, but he can understand and understand this, even if he hides it from him, after a long time, he can see it, it is better to tell him truthfully, he can distinguish between right and wrong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is also correct not to tell the children when the parents are divorced, after all, the divorce has an impact on the growth of the children. Therefore, not telling the child is also for the sake of the child's healthy and happy growth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Parents don't tell their children about divorce, I think it depends on the situation, generally if you are in high school, I am afraid that it will affect your studies, so it is correct not to say it at this time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Incorrect, children have the right to know the marital status of their parents, and not telling them will make children particularly distressed, and children will be particularly broken after discovering themselves, and they are prone to rebellion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it is not correct, this will lead to the child not having the right to know, and after learning the news, the child is likely to be very irritable and rebellious.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It must be an incorrect child, as the most important member of the family, when something big happens in the family, you should be with the child**, and then make a decision.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Parents divorce and do not tell their children because they want to protect their children, but children have the right to know, which is not necessarily true.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents rarely tell their children the truth when they divorce, and they will tell their children that even if their parents are divorced, they will not give their children less love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents divorce and hide from their children to see what the situation is, if the child is facing the college entrance examination, I think it is right to hide it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's the right thing for parents to do if they don't talk to their children when they get divorced, because it will actually hurt their children more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    <> "Is a child an excuse not to divorce.

    <> "Is a child an excuse not to divorce. This is a highly controversial topic, and some people believe that children are the bond of the family and that divorce can have a bad effect on the children, so they choose to endure the unhappiness in the marriage and maintain the marriage, however, this kind of thinking can bring more harm to the children.

    First of all, children are not the bond of the family, although children are the blood of their parents, they are not responsible for maintaining the family, the feelings and interactions between husband and wife are the cornerstone of the family, if the relationship between husband and wife is not healthy, children may feel the tension in the family, and even think that the relationship is normal, which will have a negative impact on their growth and future marriage.

    Second, enduring unhappiness in marriage is not necessarily a good choice. If there is an unhealthy relationship between the couple, the child will not benefit from just being patient for the sake of the child's imitation, but it can cause them more harm and the child may feel depressed and not screaming for safety, which can affect their self-esteem and mental health.

    In addition, psychological theories also support the choice of divorce, and studies have shown that the key factor in children's growth is not whether the parents are divorced or not, but the emotional health of the parents and the parent-child relationship, if the parents are happy in the marriage, the children will also feel this happiness, and conversely, if the parents are unhappy in the marriage, the children will feel this unhappiness.

    In conclusion, children should not be an excuse not to divorce, the relationship between husband and wife is the cornerstone of the family, if the relationship between husband and wife is not healthy, divorce may be a better option, it is important that parents should pay attention to their emotional health and parent-child relationship, which is the key factor in the growth of children.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is said that the husband and wife have slept in separate rooms for several years, but in the eyes of outsiders, they are a loving and happy family.

    In today's society, how many couples are like this, they are husband and wife during the day and neighbors at night, there is no husband and wife life, there is no husband and wife name, but there is no husband and wife. There are also such friends around me, there are houses, cars and babies, and the elderly in the family are also alive, which is happy and happy, but the fact is that life is a chicken feather, and life is really boring.

    The divorce that can't bear it is divorced, and the one who can bear it is still persevering, and the reason for insisting is the child. Many people do not divorce because of their children, and they all say that the most hurtful thing about divorce is the children, how many people have fulfilled their children and wronged themselves, but is this kind of fulfillment really good for children?

    Marriage, like people drinking water and knowing themselves, should they part ways or make do for the sake of their children?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In general, divorce is very harmful to family members.

    The biggest injuries from lifting are children.

    But for a specific family, it is also necessary to analyze it on a case-by-case basis.

    If the conflict in the family is very sharp, the husband and wife hurt each other, directly endangering each other and the children.

    The feeling of not taking good care of the child makes the child lose the right environment for growth.

    It has caused great damage and impact on the child's body and mind.

    Well, in this case, divorce may be a protection for the children.

    Children may be less harmed after a divorce and the family will be more stable.

    It will also be a little faster for the child's growth and progress.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. The damage to children is eternal and immeasurable.

    2. Don't let go casually when you hold hands, and don't divorce easily when you get married.

    3. It's not easy for two people to be together, and the ups and downs have come over, and there is something that can't be passed.

    4. Parents will eventually grow old, children will eventually grow up, and it is the other half who accompanies them to the end.

    5. As the saying goes, a hundred years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together. Couple room, bedside fight, bed foot and.

    6. Divorce is not necessarily a relief, there is no perfect marriage. No one can guarantee that finding another one after a divorce will be perfect, maybe it's better than this.

    7. Divorce is not a matter of two people, but of two families. Including all of your own social circles, this has a great impact, and it hurts each other a lot, if you can be together, try not to separate.

    8. The prodigal son does not change his money. Ignite hope with love; Cherish each other. I believe that one day they will understand that you are good to them.

    Influence with love, ignite with family affection, and cherish the existing life. Don't make decisions blindly. Careful!

    Careful! Since he was given a chance, why not one more time?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It should be said that this is indeed the case, divorce is that both husband and wife want to leave each other and live their own independent lives in order to live well for themselves. But he has no choice for children, and after the divorce, he can only be forced to give one party a life on his own. Children simply can't choose which side to live with.

    There is always the loss of the other party's love. And children are also small, and they have less ability to adjust their minds. Faced with the contradiction that husband and wife often quarrel, children feel very aggrieved, and there is no way to solve this kind of thing.

    Therefore, it is not wrong that children are the ones who suffer the most in divorce. There are some calm couples who do better and never quarrel in front of their children. Don't say bad things about the other spouse, and don't let the image of parents collapse in the hearts of children.

    In this way, after the divorce, the child will love more and more, and the child will feel that there is not much difference from before, and the damage will be the least. But not all smart couples choose to do this, and it takes a lot of perseverance to do so.

    In general, if the husband and wife choose not to divorce for the sake of the child and continue to live together, then don't quarrel every day, and quarrel in front of the child, otherwise this will also be a direct psychological harm to the child. It's better to separate directly and live a peaceful life, and you can't vent all your grievances on the children.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Divorce is harmful to children.

    But domestic violence and not divorce are also harmful to children.

    An unhappy family is a disservice to the child itself.

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If you can think about it, of course, it is not difficult, but if the consequences are more favorable than the disadvantages, it is not difficult For children, every child will want to have a warm and happy home, but this is based on feelings, if the feelings are gone, I think divorce is good for children But children must understand all this, it will definitely work!

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Sometimes not getting a divorce is just an excuse that adults don't want to face.

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Communicate well, quarrels between husband and wife are not a big problem, and be more considerate of each other. What is it called to divorce for quarrels? The most serious problem in marriage is betraying each other, except for this. Everything is negotiable, so cherish it. Don't be silly.