What are the customs of marriage in rural areas, and what are the procedures to be followed?

Rural wedding customs are more exquisite, when to get married, when to go out, when to welcome the bride, when to go to the hotel, when to hold a wedding ceremony, etc., these are all issues that need to be paid attention to.

Rural Wedding Customs I

The media said. In the earliest days, the media said that this program was indispensable, whether it was two little guesses or childhood sweethearts, they needed matchmakers, but now many people advocate free love, so this program is not so important, you need to ask a matchmaker.

You can still ask to say kiss.

Rural Wedding Customs No. 2

Look at the pro. Seeing relatives is generally the matchmaker who looks at people after the marriage of the two families, in today's words, it is a blind date, looking at each other's looks and family conditions.

Rural Wedding Customs III

Marriage, auspiciousness, and marriage. After the two people fall in love, they can enter the engagement link and choose a good birthday.

The right good day can enter the engagement link, and the engagement requires the man to go to the woman's house to give the bride price.

In order to show her sincerity to the woman, if the woman has no objection, then she can prepare for marriage. Preparation for marriage means that the man has to build a house and the woman has to buy a dowry.

Rural Wedding Customs IV

Marrying, marrying, and making a hole in the house. The time of the wedding day is probably in the early morning or early morning, and when the wedding is welcomed, the south should prepare a car to go to the woman's house to pick up the relatives, and the bride's parents should be given tea and change the mouth at the bride's house. When she arrives at the man's house, the woman also has to offer tea to the man's parents and ask for a change of payment.

Some rural weddings will choose to go to the hotel, some will choose to find a mobile restaurant chef at home to prepare the dishes, and after the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom toast the guests. The haunted room is generally a place where the bride and groom are more familiar with friends and make some funny games for the newlyweds to come or complete, mainly to be lively.

The wedding customs in the countryside are roughly the same as those of modern weddings, and some necessary rules are still retained, such as the money given for engagement, generally the family is not very good can give 10,000 engagement money, to buy three gold jewelry for the bride, and the general conditions of the family can be given 31,000 eight, which means that the three families are sent together. If you have good family conditions, you can get 60,000.

Six, eighty-eight and so on are not capped auspicious numbers. These are decided according to the family conditions of the bride and groom, and are not mandatory requirements.

They want to meet the relatives of both sides, make a marriage and buy hardware, have a family banquet with relatives and friends, and have a wedding.

The groom prepares the red envelope and prepares to set off to pick up the kiss.

When you arrive at the woman's house, change your name to your parents to get the lipstick envelope. (Of course, some places are at the last link of the blockade, and you need to follow your local customs.) And into the house.

Start the door blocking game (it is recommended to spend less than 30 minutes to avoid delaying the auspicious time for marriage) 4The bride and groom pose for a family photo, then say goodbye to their parents with tea.

1.The first is to set a marriage, and the etiquette of marriage is generally for the man to invite a matchmaker or the slippery person is the man's parents who are ready to go to the woman's house to propose marriage by the dowry, and then choose the time of formal marriage according to the birth date of both men and women.

2.Secondly, choose auspiciousness. The auspicious day for marriage is generally chosen by the man's family, and the time for weddings to be held in rural areas is generally in winter, because spring and autumn are the seasons of sowing and harvesting, so there are many weddings in rural areas in winter.

3.Preparing for marriage. The man will prepare the wedding room and decoration, the woman needs to buy wedding clothes for herself, etc., and the rural wedding date letter ceremony generally holds a wedding banquet for the woman and a wedding banquet for the man.

What are the customs of marriage in rural areas?

1.Gift-giving: Chinese people will give red envelopes when they attend the wedding banquet for the newlyweds, and the red envelopes will contain appropriate gifts as a congratulatory gift for the newlyweds.

2.Seating: The wedding venue is equipped with a guide, and if you are busy with the guide, you can sit with your relatives and friends.

4.Scattering confetti: In the past, couples would sprinkle candy when they got married, but now most of them are replaced by colored confetti, which is sprinkled on the bride and groom guests at the same time.

5.Eating glutinous rice balls: When the groom comes to pick up his relatives, he has to have a group meal with his parents, sisters and brothers before leaving, and he also cries when he leaves.

6.Please: When greeting the bride, the bridesmaids will give the title of difficult for the groom, and the groom can only meet the bride after passing the customs.

7.Farewell: The bride bows to her parents and the groom bows.

8.Go out: The bride should use a red umbrella when she goes out, and the bride is the largest on the wedding day, but the largest can not be bigger than the sky.

9.Limousine car: The bamboo plaque can be placed on the back cover of the limousine. Wow rock wax.

10.Fan: Before the bride sets off in front of the wedding procession, a little boy will hold a fan to the bride, and the bride will give him a red envelope as a thank you.

11.Don't say goodbye: The woman leaves with the welcoming procession, and she can't say goodbye to her mother's family.

12.Fan throwing: Before the limousine departs, the bride throws the fan out of the car.

13.Firecrackers: The limousine leaves the woman's house to set off firecrackers.

14.Don't step on the threshold: cross the threshold.

15.Crossing the brazier and stepping on the tiles: When the bride enters the hall, she steps over the brazier and smashes the tiles.

Marriage: Usually the man asks the matchmaker to send the matchmaker, and the gift is sent to the post, which has the man's birthday on it. After the woman receives the post, she combines it with the woman's eight characters and calculates. If the harmony is to reply to the simple promise, it is called the permission post, which is regarded as a formal marriage.

Choosing auspiciousness: that is, the man asks the woman for a marriage date. First ask Mr. Yin and Yang to calculate the auspicious day, avoid a single day, obscure day to bend, still double moon and double day, with the flower festival and Laba Festival the days are the most.

After choosing, write the wedding day on red paper, and the gift will be sent to the woman by the matchmaker. If the woman has no objection, the parties will start to prepare for the marriage.

Preparation for marriage: The man builds a new house and decorates the interior, and the woman buys a dowry. The dowry is divided into full marriage and half marriage.

The whole marryer has four sets of boxes and clothes, which means prosperity in the four seasons; Half-married is divided into two sets, symbolizing pairs. Most of the middle-sized families are married to the full-length family, and the majority of the peasant households are half-married. The rich have a super dowry, and they are extremely luxurious.

One or two days before the auspicious day, the man prepares a big gift and sends it to the woman's home, which contains large meat, chickens, geese, clothes, etc.

Although the format and process of weddings are now gradually westernized, that is, the man wears a suit and a bow tie, and the woman wears a white gauze skirt and holds a gift flower, and finally the two take the oath to kiss and exchange rings in the presence of the priest.

However, there are still some traditional marriage customs and etiquette in today's Chinese land, and today, the author will talk to you about the traditional marriage customs reported by ethnic minorities.

Marriage, because of the different cultural customs in each place, there will naturally be regional differences in marriage customs, so the marriage customs in the countryside are compared with the city, and some interesting rural marriage customs are worth seeing.

1. Eat happy noodles.

After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, and begin to answer the red envelope and agree on the price of the noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to grab the happy face.

Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.

2. Door opening fee.

After eating the noodles, the groom came to the bride's door, and the bride did not open the door, so he had to take a red envelope to open the door. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.

3. Door lock fee.

When the groom enters the house, the bride's parents have already locked the door, and if they want to marry the bride back, they have to pay the door lock fee, not give red envelopes, and do not open the door. Some smart grooms will arrange for someone to hold the door in advance and not let it be locked.

Fourth, three cannons.

When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, the bride should get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.

Fifth, there is no turning back.

When you come back, you can't take the road you used to marry, which means that the husband and wife don't go back.

Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room.

On the night of the cave room, the bride and groom will rush to grab the only red quilt, and whoever grabs it means that the family will have the final say.