Friends, can you come in and help me analyze the analysis? I m very depressed and depressed right no

Talk to her and break up if she's not willing to change.

Upstairs is right, I will add, you have just gotten married, you may not be very mature, you may not really understand the various pressures of society, husband and wife need to be more tolerant, young, playful is normal, it depends on how you look at and deal with it, and when you have children, I think you want to play again, I'm afraid you don't have the time and energy.

I am in my early 30s, and I also have some experience in life, so I can't say it well.

Finally, if you don't want to hear something, divide it, as soon as possible, and don't mention it again when you have a child, after all, the child is innocent, and everything is for the child.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Let me first talk about one of the biggest problems, and the third point is that this concept of consumption is not advisable, what is the right thing for boys to pay, and this concept is no different from patriarchy. The AA system is still the best way to consume, so that at least you will have few disputes over money, so you can spend more energy to enjoy your love, and will not turn your feelings into benefits and materialism. The concept of money is the most important chain of the three views, if you pay for a long time, then the imbalance of the concept of money will inevitably affect the concept of love and life.

Secondly, emotionally giving, feeling that you pay more for her, just like spending money, you pay more, and in the long run, she will feel that it is a matter of course for you to pay more. This is what it really takes for granted.

You said it very clearly, you've been tired for only two months, and you have to be like this to continue to be together, the first point: the difference between watching movies and TV series I think this is not in the way of small things, singing, shopping, partying, you can accompany her when you rest, if you don't accompany her, you should also have female friends and girlfriends.

The second point: You are definitely right, and she can't be wrong, there are many ancient and modern times in the shopping malls in the system, but you have to grasp the proportion, and you can't be careful to give yourself away or something.

The third point: It's okay to repay the loan This is a pre-marital property, and she doesn't spend money should also depend on whether you are willing to spend money for her, (I feel a little bit only concerned about her own thoughts, and I don't care about your thoughts, including what else you said, this may be that you chase her, not that you love each other and she chases you, love is not like this, is it that she looks good and you chase it?) ), the fourth point:

Clothes can be thrown in the washing machine to wash, can not be machine washed sent outside to wash, the room is usually tidyed up to maintain good hygiene, generally wipe off the dust and drag the ground OK, don't want to work, you can also a month and a half a month to ask a temporary cleaner to clean down, lazy together, her aunt about her, do your own, bear together is a harmonious family, or spend money, after marriage to spend money is also to bear together (ha, after marriage is to earn your jointly owned property is fine), it is indeed for you to serve, because she is lazy, I like to play.

Point 5: It's not a bad thing that you can say something to be smooth when you increase your communication, I think it's impossible to change too much, she thinks too much, she wants to transform you into what she wants, and she still wants to set a deadline? It's a bit too much, I think she needs to change more than you, with her personality I think if you tell her, you will break it right away, she thinks you don't love him?

Point 6: It's okay, after all, you haven't been together for long.

You chase her, so she picks, she is asking you to change, you didn't say her, I don't think it's suitable for you, because you can't become what she wants, and his habits are not what you like, to be honest, since you are rushing to get married, your change is seen, and you can change it a little bit in the future to like her, she thinks it should be changed, you think about it yourself, after all, you are going to get married, and you are uncomfortable before next year.

I can tell you that the relationship is the feeling of your heart at first sight, and you can feel the warmth of a woman during the relationship, and you will continue to be heartbeat. It is best for both parties to appreciate or understand each other's hobbies, but not to interfere with each other. In the end, when you feel that your relationship is not right, or you feel dissatisfied with each other, you don't have that feeling of heartbeat, and you will continue to quarrel even if you are married.

Anyway, I suggest you take the graduate school exam first.

There are no two people who are born to be suitable for each other, they are all about respecting each other, accommodating each other, and tolerating each other, and since you asked like this, you know the answer yourself, don't you? You're just struggling with the fact that you love her, so tolerate her, and the reason why she's doing this way, I think there's a big part of the reason for you.

No one can bear the pain for you, and no one can take away your strength, everyone is a lonely walker, slowly becoming strong in the process of walking. It is not difficult to improve the problem, and it depends on whether you have the effort to change, and it is recommended that you spend some time to discuss, so that you will have a clear direction and goal, and many people make their own problems solved and resolved smoothly.

Is it love Can you go on and don't have a point in your heart?

It's easy to fall in love because of the facial features.

It's not easy to get along because of the three views.

I feel that if you talk about two months, it is still a bit short, of course, even if you go on a blind date, you may not know each other well enough for two months, I feel that you should wait.

<> seeing that you have worked so hard to type so many words, I feel that she should have belonged to the kind of special beauty that you actively pursued at the beginning.

I think this man is too selfish and wants to possess all of you, I don't think this boyfriend is worthy of you like this, he won't think about each other, and it may be simple for two people to communicate some things but if they don't communicate, it will also produce a big conflict. It's better to divide it, and it won't be able to go on in the future.

Men can't get used to it, you let it go, he's not suitable for you, love is built on the basis of trust, since he doesn't believe in you, then you don't need to be with him, find a love that really hurts you, you will be happy!

My boyfriend would do the same, but he would apologize, and he would come and please me as soon as he knew I was sad. I'm also very accommodating to my boyfriend sometimes, but I don't go along with him like you do. I don't think you're suitable.

Try to let it go, I always have a bad feeling when I see what you wrote. After you get married, he may be rough with you, don't be bitter about yourself. It's not an exaggeration to say that a man who will tell a woman to get out is not a good thing, and a man who will do something to a woman is a beast.

Whether it fits or doesn't fit is not something that can be seen on the outside. No matter how bad your boyfriend is, as long as you feel comfortable and can live a comfortable life for a lifetime, that's life. Your boyfriend may have family factors, traditional factors, and cultural factors that cause him to behave and practice this way towards you.

Men are like that, including me. I don't want my girlfriend to know. But I need to know her whereabouts clearly.

Forgive him. The current environment is like this. You can't just go.

People will change, give some hope to everyone. Now he is in trouble and helps more. Don't dislike him.

As long as he is a hard-working person. He's sure to be able to rush out and make a lot of money. Money is to sustain life, not to maintain feelings.

But feelings are bound to life. The days still have to live. People only have one life.

There is no such thing as coming back in the next life.

Your starting point is not right, how can you give so much, if a man really loves you, then he should also give so much, that is to say, he should be your role. But when it comes to your special relationship, you should handle it well, I think you should learn to be humorous, just talk about things in a joke, and the problem will be dealt with. Another point is that you should change him slowly and let him do your role slowly, which requires a certain process, and I hope you can live well.

This is an old saying, why some words will flow to this day, because it does have a certain meaning, adults are all from the past, adults need to listen to the words of adults, love is very beautiful for some people, but for some people still can't have. Like you, don't you think you'll be very tired after you marry him, what you love and don't love is what you don't love. Return to family life, economic life, children.

You have to care about everything, your man really can't do anything for you, do you want such a marriage? I'm a junior college, and to be honest, I don't want to find someone with a lower education than me, a person with a different education, after all, I think about things and have different opinions.

Silly woman, everyone has their own secrets, why entrust yourself to a man who is not worth it, and such a man has no nostalgia.

I don't understand, maybe you don't have to be connected everywhere together, right? But sometimes it really can't be communicated in depth, it depends on the determination of the two people. It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with.

He may be too unconfident. That's why you react so much because other men gave you something. You should communicate more.

Tell him what you think and what you do for him. Choose a time when the atmosphere is better and the mood is better. Pay attention to the tone of voice.

If you can't communicate, just divide it. Barely being together is not happy. Be decisive when you divide it.

Think clearly. Don't regret it when you break it up. In fact, love is a thing, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer.

It's up to you what you think.

I think sometimes it's casual, and it's useless to force it!

You can tell from the hand warmer he throws at you that he loves you. But he felt that he had some inferiority complex, and felt that as a man he was inferior to his woman in many aspects, which made him feel very depressed. The more this feeling is squeezed, the day when it will eventually erupt, and now his situation is just a prelude to a storm.

You have changed a lot for him, and he knows it, but the more you think about him like this, the stronger his inferiority complex will be. It is recommended that you be honest with him, face both sides of something, don't keep avoiding it, what will happen will always happen. Don't be afraid to face the embarrassment of the two of you so quickly, but maybe it's your bravery that will turn your situation around and make your life better!

Hope you are happy!

If you should let go, you have to let go, a woman's youth is very short, and she has to find someone who really loves herself.

Live for others, change for others, aren't you tired?

He may have low self-esteem, but I think a woman should find a man who knows how to love herself in her life.

He has a really bad personality, unless you really love this relationship, otherwise persuade you to let it go.

Love is a thing that pleases each other, only with the person you love will be happy for a lifetime, you feel that you love him very much, but love is also selfish, maybe there is a lack of communication between you, he may be angry and care, but I also hope that you carefully consider whether each other is really suitable, whether there is a common language, not low requirements or principles, the real principle is whether you really love someone, you are deeply in love with each other can hold hands and spend a lifetime, this will get real happiness!

Although it is said that persuasion and separation are not persuaded, specific problems must also be analyzed in detail. Judging from your description, the gap between you and your boyfriend is really big, both subjective and objective. Judging from his attitude towards you, sometimes he doesn't respect you enough and manages you a little too strictly.

As for the impact of your level of education on feelings, this is not the main contradiction. The level of education will lead to differences in the angle and depth of the problem, but as long as the two people have the same mind, these are not problems. In addition, I only see that you have made a lot of changes for him, and I follow his wishes, I don't know what changes he has made for you?

For example, find a stable job or something) What are his plans for your future? What actions have you taken? I can see that you are a good girl, but I just think your boyfriend doesn't understand you.

Maybe you're just obsessed with his kindness to you, and you ignore all other issues. With all due respect, there are problems with both subjectivity and objectivity, and the outside world is not optimistic, so I feel that you will not go far. If you are in love, you can barely survive and get married?

I also hope that the owner of the building will think twice, so as not to regret it later, it will be too late.

It's not suitable, it's better to separate as soon as possible, or it's yourself who doesn't get hurt.

You are not suitable, very inappropriate I can only say this, not to mention your cultural level, a person's mind is not just on his academic qualifications, he does not believe in you, it may be that you are too good, he will have low self-esteem, and jealousy! And he hasn't changed anything because of you, at least you can think that he is not a responsible man, let go as soon as possible, maybe it will be sad in a short time! But for the sake of your own future, give up!!

Or personality differences, tell him what you think, there is a lack of communication between you, at least this man doesn't understand you, then you let him understand you, I think this is also what you think, you still love this man. Find someone who can make the man obedient (such as the man's parents or the people he admires) tell you these thoughts, and it will be much better to let this person talk to the man on your behalf. Men have to be responsible, and no matter how strong a woman is, she also needs to be cared for.

If it is really not suitable, then agree to separate, because the divorce of civil servants has a great impact on the future.