Friends help me analyze what I should do

Originally, a woman in love in the self-protection psychology will intentionally or unintentionally test each other, and your separation problem has become the reason for her to test you, at this time the woman's heart is very sensitive and fragile, if you don't grasp it well, even if you don't break up, she will become anxious about your relationship and worry about affecting each other's development and break up, you and her want to be together you can't think too much, you have to know that two people who love each other need to maintain a balance between giving love and receiving love, in order to achieve a harmonious love relationship, No matter what way you use to give her a reason to believe in you, maybe what you expect will develop for the better, even if the separation between the two places cannot be solved for the time being, as long as the two of you really want to be together, you will find that this is not a problem at all, because it is enough to love each other, what troubles are so simple in the eyes of two people in love, how ridiculous it was to worry before, try to keep her, don't affect the two people who originally loved each other because of this!

I feel like you accept the two first. After all, there is only one person, but there are many job opportunities. It's a long time coming.

If you don't get into the exam now, it doesn't mean you won't be able to take the test next year or the year after. And once people miss it, can you be sure that the next one is suitable for you? You don't put too much pressure on her.

You can see that this girl is really good. You can't have both. Hope it helps.

Hard. How to say it.

It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

After all, you want to be rewarded for your efforts.

It is advisable to wait until she is really satisfied with her work.

As you can imagine, you should be cautious about the things of your life.

I don't know what to define if I don't understand the other party, I will oppose something, it's nothing now, consider accepting the two places.

The girl is afraid that you will leave her after you understand it, and in the end, it is still a sign of insecurity

Looks like she has a past she doesn't want to tell you.

First of all, people who have dreams are respectable, people always have their favorite things in this life, and dreams are more precious than anything else. You are 88 years old, you are still very young, and you can be forgiven for whatever ignorant behavior you have done before, because young people make mistakes. Are difficulties at home the main reason preventing your dreams from coming true?

I think not. There's always resistance to success, right? The realization of dreams is mainly achieved by internal factors, although external factors also play a role, but if external factors determine your path, then your dream is not a dream, or a dream that is not worth your realization.

The greater the resistance, the more worthy you are to achieve, and the more realistic the value of your dreams.

In fact, when you choose whether to go to training, you should update and comprehensively, although it will cost a lot of money, maybe all your belongings, but you can work hard when you go to training again, do a few more odd jobs, and make more money, provided that it does not affect learning, in fact, I also want to say that IT is a very advanced industry, and you don't learn much in a year, but I also want to say that if you really have a dream, you can overcome anything, and you have to work hard and have perseverance to realize your dreams. Especially for our children from poor families. The more difficult the road, the more we must strengthen our faith.

I don't have any good schools to train in, and I don't know if you will succeed in the future, but if you give up because others say your dream is not worth it, then don't say that you love you, because you don't dream hard for it, you don't deserve to love!

I'm the same age as you, but I'm still studying, I haven't stepped into the society, but it doesn't mean that I don't know anything about the society, the friends on the 1st floor told you that people should have dreams, to persevere, only those who insist will succeed, but I prefer the advice given to you by friends on the 2nd floor, after all, you don't make much money now, and you are very risky to go to a training school, and as a friend on the 2nd floor said, many training schools are now advertised well, and what is better than what is heard, you may not be able to really learn knowledge after entering, Of course, it is not excluded that those good and responsible schools will be responsible for you, but this kind of school, to be honest, after all, is a minority, there are many training schools you have to choose a good one is really difficult, I support your dreams, ideas, but I don't encourage you to do so, the risk is too great, you have to think carefully, of course, life is a fight, if you win, you will climb to the sky, if you lose, you will ...

But I want to tell you a real example, a front-line employee of an electromechanical factory, also has a high school degree, after 8 years of hard work, from the front-line staff to the position of deputy manager, with an annual salary of more than 30w, he has been reading books to supplement knowledge and recharge himself, and the most important thing is that he goes to the factory every weekend to observe and record the production process of front-line employees, that is to say, he knows all the details of front-line employees, which also provides the basis for his step-by-step climb in the future.

What I want to tell you is that no matter what you do, as long as you insist and do it with your heart, you will succeed, you will only persevere, people who don't care are stupid, only attentive, people who don't insist are halfway, no matter what you do, you must persevere, intentions, I firmly believe that success will be closer and closer to you after you do this, come on, also as a post-85 me, optimistic about you :)

To be honest, there is nothing wrong with general workers, I think that it is more reliable to start from general workers, and if you train schools, it costs a lot, and more importantly, the school will not care if you live or die! I won't really arrange you to do the right job, so start from a general worker, you will be able to do it yourself, and the 30,000 yuan can also be used as start-up capital and be your own boss, but the premise is that you can.

Brother read your sincere post, I think you are very good and filial, you are also very hard-working, I am also 88 years old, I am now engaged in the IT industry you yearn for the system engineer, there are a lot of hardships, I am very happy to be friends with you, we learn from each other and struggle together!

Haha, you said that you are not a person who would rather be crushed.

Show that you are a person who can compromise.

It can highlight the good qualities of gentleness and humility.

That is, you may do the first possibility you say.

Slowly get used to her liking her, what do you like her.

Do you know? At the same time, he contradicted that he would find a suitable one for himself, and he would leave her, and he didn't want to hurt her when the time came, but he was doing things that might hurt her, wasn't he afraid that lonely people couldn't afford to hurt him, right, right, o( o Haha, don't talk about you, set a small right goal to work hard.

Over time, you'll be able to set big goals, trust me.

Trust yourself ...... too

You can actually tell her clearly that you just like her, you don't love her, and you will marry someone else in the future, and she likes you, but if you don't want both of you to get hurt, let it go.

Don't you want to get married, do you? To put it mildly, you belong to the bowl and think about the pot, you don't want to be single, so she is just your spare tire, if you touch the beautiful and good eyes, you will definitely dump this girl, so, don't delay other girls. But you're honest, what you are, that's good.

Anyway, if you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, you don't like it, it's as simple as that.

For the good of all of you, for you not to be entangled, for her not to hate you in the future, for your true love, for yourself, for her, you break up Barely there is never a good result It's not love, it's not love, it's not going to be.

Girls, if you can go out and bring it back, too beautiful and narrow-minded, vicious, then you feel good.

With your current state of mind, I'm guessing you'll never find a girlfriend for the rest of your life.

The gap between ideals and reality is often too great. Maybe she's the most suitable person to live with you, maybe she's just a substitute for your momentary emptiness. It's up to you to choose between the two ... Others say that you can't control your own heart.

If you don't like it, let it go. You go after the girl you want. You can't delay the youth of others because you're afraid of loneliness.

You should explain to him what you think, and break up with him if you don't love him.

There is also a possibility that you didn't find a better one after the breakup.

Such people are not absent!

Don't worry too much, if the other party comes to you again, it is recommended to call the police to deal with it! Claim: Blackmailed!

The missing person is himself an adult with civil capacity, and the car transfer transaction between you and him is valid (certificate of annual inspection of ownership)!

There is a father like that who can have a son like this!

More than 30 years ago, I experienced something similar: someone (an adult) in my neighborhood, who was a few years younger than me, told me that his father, who worked in a radio factory, could buy a *** radio (13 yuan), and I gave him the money, but the radio was not given to me for a long time, and the other person also "disappeared". A month later, I found his father, and he was beaten upside down:

You provided the funds for my son to go to **? ”

The monthly salary that year was only 18 yuan! ）

These are two different things, buying a car is a car buying and selling relationship, and it has nothing to do with his son's disappearance, and it is recommended to call the police if he harasses him again.

You don't have to worry about this, the transaction between you and his son is voluntary, valid and legal (his son has full capacity for civil liability), so the disappearance of his son has nothing to do with you, he should report the crime on his own instead of relying on you. It is recommended that you owe it first, and if you can't, you can report it, because this is his wrongdoing against you.