Is fate really something that cannot be violated? As the title suggests, thank you

There is no absolute destining or undestined fate, some can be changed, and some cannot. If you want to go against fate, then you can succeed in disobeying, but at the same time you may also suffer retribution, saying that the other side of this contradiction is fate! The master speaks, maybe you feel a little dizzy, haha.

Forced fate is meaningless, like someone wants you to give up ps, Warcraft, computer, to be a star singer, do you want to go? Definitely not, although your singing isn't very good, hehe. Ah Anyway, you're starting to get tangled again, please don't go around in circles, look ahead, I don't believe there is no fate you want!

This good fate requires a good attitude, zero.

Life is an accident, death is an inevitability! The process of living is life! Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets, life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence, just think about yourself, give yourself an explanation, give your parents, friends, and the one you love the most! Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset, giggle a little, and draw a perfect picture of your life...

To live the meaning is to find the meaning of life.

What is your greatest perception of fate?

First of all, what exactly is "fate"?

Some people may think that fate is a kind of thing that is destined at birth, no matter how hard you work, your life trajectory in this life is written, like a script arranged by God, you were born in **, how are you doing, what kind of job you have, what kind of people you meet, and what kind of way you die in the end, all of this is arranged.

And some people, think that my life is up to me, fate is in their own hands, it can be changed through human efforts, although born poor, but can be through hard work, get a good school to let yourself out of the cold, or strive to master a superb craft, so that you have a skill or multi-skill, become a valuable person to the company and society, let yourself get full right to speak and choose, is the best control of your own destiny.

I think the fate can be summed up in a common saying: "three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work". God determines our birth, and we can determine the direction of the future through our acquired efforts.

But when they were young, many people didn't understand this truth, and they wasted a lot of green years, unwilling or unable to calm down to study, so they couldn't get into a good school, although they didn't have a good school to study, they didn't necessarily can't find a good company. However, what you do when you are young will have a series of chain effects in the future, and you don't develop the habit of focusing on doing one thing well when you are young, so you will be easy to be lazy and procrastinate half-heartedly in doing things in the future.

However, I would like to say that this is just the impact of the previous inaction, but it is not immutable. Although it is very difficult to work hard now, accumulate little by little, and re-cultivate new good habits, fortunately, as long as people live, they have the opportunity to change their current behavior and habits. Some people say, "Your choice today determines your life state in three years", since the life state in three years is the consequence of today's decision, this is a causal cycle, which means that every moment we have lived is a choice of fate.

I also regretted the past for not working hard, but I still didn't give up and tried to change the situation. I'm not a very persistent person, and I often give up halfway, have a lot of plans, have a lot of ideas, work hard while giving up, and persist while giving up, but when I think calmly, I will rekindle my fighting spirit! As long as one thing is done well at the end, I think, I will win.

Fate, perhaps the biggest twist and turn, is to fight against yourself.

Destiny is the uniqueness and irreversibility of time. There are many factors that affect the development of things, and time and opportunity are only given once, and the change of any factor, the development of things will also change, and time is only unique and irreversible, so people do not know what the situation of a certain factor has no impact on, this is fate. For example, now, you see these words of mine, you have your thoughts, you talk about them with your classmates or friends, and you get into a fight because of the discussion; But if you hadn't seen these words, you and your friends wouldn't have talked about them, you wouldn't have those conversations, there wouldn't have been fights and quarrels, then things might have gone in another direction, but, because of the uniqueness of time, we have no way of knowing what kind of situation is going in the other direction!

That's fate! It is the uniqueness and irreversibility of time. When it comes to failure, a lot of people say:

This is fate, when success Many people say: I am destined to be good when I fail and succeed again Many people say: I choke the throat of fate (my fate is up to me) In fact, fate is an excuse It can bear the cause of failure It can also reflect the performance of success There is nothing to be fatal Do your own thing Success is the result of hard work Failure is nothing.

In fact, fate sees everything in its eyes.

Don't believe that Hello may now bring you great mental pressure due to the ever-accelerating pace of work or life, feeling psychologically troubled and in need of adjustment. Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries. How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Ways to relieve stress: When you go home, you should yell loudly for 5 minutes to vent your grievances; Sit on the couch and listen quietly for another 15 minutes, after which you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved.

Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy. You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed.

Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often. You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart, which can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

I believe that fate is also called luck, which only accounts for 10% of a person's life, and the rest rely on their own efforts to fight.

Don't believe it. No matter how difficult it is now. Tell yourself to work hard to face it. to change.

Believe, but fate is always changed. ~

Everyone's fate is predestined and different.

Destiny is in the hands of each and every one of us.

Fate, the past that cannot be changed and the future full of variables is called fate! Fate is like an ever-extending line of defeat, the starting point is a line destined to go, this line is connected to countless branch lines, when you choose one of the dry lines with a certain attitude, this fate is doomed, when you face several lines again, fate changes, this is the so-called fate in your own hands.