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Your situation is very similar to my friend's, so don't worry about it. Haven't you heard anyone say that? It's true to be plain, don't believe it, you're not like who doesn't love whom, who doesn't feel for whom, it's not what you think, if you suddenly disappear now, I'm sure he will definitely want to go crazy to find you, have confidence in yourself, after all, you've been together for so long, and the feelings can't be said to be gone, because you're used to living in each other's world, and there's less happiness between you that no one will ever have, don't be because of what common language is getting less and less, what you don't know whom, Not at all, it's just that you're thinking too much, you have to think about it, think about it in a good place, talk less maybe it's because he's really too busy during this time, or what troubles he encounters will become depressed, instead of you going to think about it, it's better to find a way to make him happy, this is what you have to do now, you must have confidence in yourself, if he doesn't love you, how can he think of marrying you?
Right? Friends want to open it, things are not as bad as you think, to regulate your mood, be a confident yourself, I believe you will be happy, bless you!
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It should be said that you are not without feelings, as they said, maybe feelings can withstand the wind and rain, but they can't stand the bland, maybe your boyfriend is also used to this kind of life, but you can't, but it doesn't mean that you have no feelings, maybe one day you really leave him, you will find that you still love him, after all, a few years of feelings, how can you say that there is no more? Have you ever wondered what kind of life you want? If you really leave him, even if you say that you have a relationship again, but after waiting together for a long time, won't it be the same as dull?
However, after all, it is the happiness of your life, and you have to figure out how to do it yourself.
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Enlightenment can't be talked about. Let's just talk about the feeling!
They know each other too well, so everyone knows what to think in the early stage.
Propose a marriage certificate and he has figured it out, it's time to have a result, or I'm sorry for you who have been with him all the way!
I decided to worry about the burden of my family, and I thought about it more and more carefully, and there may be less discussion, probably because I am afraid that you will worry about him.
Give him a relaxed environment, more understanding, when starting a family, men have their own ideas, give him the feeling of a big man, this is what men want.
After the vigorous love, it is naturally an ordinary life
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Although I have always believed that the simple and ordinary is the most real. But if you have this kind of thinking, you must solve it, and you two will find a time to talk about it, and you must not hide anything, and marriage will only be once in my life, and there will never be a second time, and once you get married, you will have to take this responsibility, so don't wait until after marriage to regret it.
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Imagine how good he is and how tolerant he is.
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Turnips and cabbages have their own loves, and they have chosen.
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If you really can't live this life.
Let's think about your own happiness.
It's a responsibility to you and to him.
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There is no affection between two people, even if they are reluctantly together, even if they enter the palace of marriage, I think that such a marriage is two people who are strangers will definitely not last long, maybe we do not rule out that there will be such a situation as long-term love, but this situation is still quite rare.
If two people have no feelings at all, they may be as strange and alienated as friends when they go to and from work every day, and there is no emotional connection between two people, then I think this home is cold and has no happiness at all.
A marriage definitely needs two people to run together, two people don't have the heart to manage their feelings and manage this family such a marriage, in fact, it is an indifferent walking corpse, many people may think that when they reach a certain age, they can find someone suitable to make do with it, but after a long time, maybe you will see this person more and more annoyed, and the little things he does may make you particularly angry, so why continue to torture each other?
If there is no love between two people, they don't know how to tolerate each other, trust each other, and love each other, even if it is to complete the mission, or to cope with the elders and have a child, then the parents have no love to give the child, in fact, it is really just one-sided love.
Because there is no love, maybe a small flaw of the other party will become a contradiction between you, such a marriage is actually soulless, often in this case I think one party will hate the other person very much.
So love needs to be responsible, marriage also needs to be responsible, if it's just because there is no love for the right marriage, then I think this kind of marriage is really meaningless, even if two people get married, they may be the most familiar strangers, two people respect each other like guests, isn't this what everyone calls existence in name only?
When we choose the other half, we must consider whether this person is worthy of entrusting for life, and whether we love this person in our hearts, we must follow our inner feelings, and do not be bound by some traditional moral concepts.
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Such a marriage will definitely not last long, because the most important thing in marriage is affection, if two people have no feelings for each other, then such a marriage is a kind of torment for each other.
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It won't last long, because two people don't like each other at all, and if two people get married, there will be a lot of contradictions, and this kind of marriage is particularly boring.
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Such a marriage will not last long at all, there is no affection between two people, but they come together because of the conditions, and there is no way to get a run-in in their personalities, and they will definitely divorce in the end.
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If two people who have no feelings can barely make do with living together, then one of them is bound to find life boring, and once there are other emotional outlets, the marriage is likely to not last.
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For people who have no feelings, it is best for two people to be separated, which is better for everyone! After all, life is lived by two people together!
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In our lives, we will always know many people, and we will experience many things, and some people and some things will slowly teach us to grow. In each of my lives, maybe we will meet someone we like very much, and then meet a romantic love story with him, enter the palace of marriage together, and start a family together. In the face of the reality of life, some people will also use their own way to operate, which belongs to the love of two people.
Some couples have no feelings in their lives, but they still want to be together, probably because of family reasons. If you have children, maybe children are a major reason. <>
Each of us lives in a happy era, however, this era is also an era of rapid development, everyone will have their own way of life, and at the same time, they will have their own attitude towards life, and they will also have their own life status in life.
In marriage, there is no affection between husband and wife, but they still have to be together. I think that in today's life, some couples face the reality of life, although they no longer have feelings for each other, but they still insist on being together, because they have been living together for many years, they are used to each other's existence, and they don't want to understand other people, so let's make do. <>
I think that in everyone's life, maybe they will have the right to choose their life, and others cannot interfere. Although there is no relationship between the husband and wife, they still want to be together, and the main reason may be because they already have children. If you get divorced, it may have a certain impact on the growth of your children, so you still have to be together for the healthy growth of your children.
So in everyone's married life, in the face of the reality of life, they have to let go of each other's dignity and continue to be together. Even if there is no affection between two people anymore, they still have to be together. The child can ** the heart of an adult, both of them are reluctant to have children, and for the sake of the child's future life, even if there is no emotion, but they must be firmly together.
Marriage is like a shoe under our feet, what suits us is the best, we are not the most perfect people, but we must face our lives with the best attitude. Perhaps for two people, they will have their own opinions in married life, and at the same time, they will also have their own things. Sometimes, facing the reality of life will destroy the love of two people.
There is no relationship between husband and wife, but they still want to be together, probably because they don't want to manage the next love, and at the same time they have children at home, and they are reluctant to have children, so even if there is no relationship, for the healthy growth of the child, they still have to be firmly together.
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Why do some couples stay together without feelings? Maybe it's for the sake of your own children, because separating after having children will have a bad impact on your children.
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Some couples are still together without feelings, and some are worried that divorce will have a bad impact on the children's future. Some are for the sake of profit and do not want to lose everything they have at the moment. Others are worried that they will not find a better home after divorce.
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Probably because of the child. It will allow the child to have a complete home and pay more attention to the child's mental health. It may also be because of tradition, divorce is a bad thing, even if you don't love each other, you have to live together.
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Two couples have no feelings, and they still have to be together, because they have a lot of last resorts, such as children, such as this family, so there are many factors that will cause two people to have no feelings, even if they have no feelings, they will not say that they have to divorce, after all, some things are easy to say and not to do.
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This is because these couples are used to being together and have responsibilities even if there is no affection between them, so they will choose to stay together.
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Because these couples are used to the way two people get along, and they also feel that it is very troublesome to separate, so they will be together.
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Because these couples will choose forbearance for the sake of their children, and in order to give their children a complete home, they will also choose to be together.
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It may be that they are accustomed to each other's existence, or maybe they have lived for many years, and they can't live together without each other.
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In the face of this question, first of all, we have to think clearly about what kind of life we need.
1. Marriage based on money.
A marriage built on money, you can do whatever you want when it comes to money and material things. But on top of feelings, you must do it in your heart to be indifferent, in the face of men's indifference, hurtful words, night trips, long-term business trips, ......Wait, for you, it doesn't matter, because you only have money in your heart, and as long as you have money, you can not care about everything.
Second, there is affection and drinking water.
This is a genus saying in Guangdong, which is a metaphor for two people who have true feelings, even if there is no bread, even if they drink water, they can fill their stomachs, and they do not ask for other material needs, and they live very happily!
Affectionate and married, this kind of couple, their hearts are always sweet, no matter what happens, even if the sky falls, there is another half to support, will always take care of you, and even treat you as his heart and soul baby. No matter what kind of life they live, whether it is coarse tea and light food, or poor clothing and accommodation, in their hearts, as long as two people love each other, love each other, and accompany each other for a lifetime, this is perfect love, both simple and ordinary love, and it is this kind of love that can be called priceless love.
Everyone has their own choices and different perspectives, and it is important to know what kind of life you need before you can pursue your own destiny.
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If you are with people who have no feelings, you will definitely not be happy, first of all, if you don't have a common language, if you can't talk about it, you will definitely not be happy, but some people live together. Feelings may be cultivated, but some people live together, and feelings may be cultivated slowly, because some are suitable for life.
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It's hard to say, if the two don't have love, maybe they have feelings, and getting married is to see if the two feel natural and comfortable living together, tolerating each other, and taking care of each other.
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It depends on whether you have someone you love or not!
If not, I guess I'll be happy.
But if anything, it won't be happy!
But. Whether you are in love with someone or not, and someone you don't love but love you, you will not be happy, at most happy! ~
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It's not that there is no emotion, but there is no freshness. Affection, like love, is not expressed in words, but whether you are happy or not together, you don't care if you can have him or her, whether you will treat him or not. She doesn't feel comfortable touching the opposite sex.
I feel that you should be a very introverted person, a bosom friend, not a day or two can be identified, someone gets along for many years without knowing a bosom friend, I feel like making friends, get along well with your classmates, you will definitely find the advantages of people, I think you will also find your favorite person, find your bosom friend, you should be sincere in making friends, others will be sincere.
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