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Pretty good! Some people say that it is best to have a cooling-off period after divorce, and people who say this either have not experienced divorce or have not paid attention to the divorced people around them.
What does a cooling-off period mean for a divorced woman? The unbearable and sad scenes of the past are constantly repeated in the mind, even if they pull back hard, it will not be long before they sink into it again, especially when they hear or see some things about the person in the past, and even hear others talk about divorce, women can't help but sit down.
Therefore, it is a good choice for a divorced woman to get out of the pain of the past and quickly enter a new married life with the right person.
Perhaps, someone will retort:Newly divorced, how do you know what kind of person is suitable and worthy of trust?
Such considerations are also redundant. Whether it is in life or work, the fastest way for us to learn something is to do it, and only by doing it can we know how to do it and how to do it well.
In the same way, people who have experienced a failed marriage will definitely not be divorced in a day or two days, during which they are actually very clear about what they want to marry and what kind of person they want to marry.
On the contrary, if you do not choose a person to remarry after divorce (except for those who do not plan to remarry after divorce), the woman who prolongs the cooling-off period is likely to have a worse life in the future than a woman who remarries quickly after divorce.
Because, as a single woman, whether divorced or unmarried, there will always be many people who throw olive branches to her, and we will inevitably choose and compare instinctively at this time.
And when we began to make choices and comparisons, slowly our original intention began to become blurred again, Zhang San was richer than Li Si, but he was not as good as Li Si, and Li Si's income was more stable than Zhang San.
At the same time, Zhang San is well versed in the way of dealing with the world, while Li Si is inferior in this regard. Do you marry someone who can speak well or marry someone who is honest?
Please, we're just looking for someone to live in peace, not the general manager of a large company, or the heir to a huge fortune.
Too much comparison, often end up losing yourself, and one of the essences of finding happiness is to recognize what kind of person you are.
In summary:
For men and women who plan to remarry after divorce, my personal suggestion is to try to shorten the gap period in the middle of the relationship, and settle down when they meet a suitable and reliable one.
Our lives are not long, and if we get married one day later, we will spend one less day with the right person.
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It's not good, don't rush to get married, there is a reason for divorce, is it because you found the wrong person, or because of yourself, you have to figure it out, if you find the wrong person, what do you like him or her at the beginning, then you get married, after you get married, you have to figure it out, don't repeat the mistakes of the past, you can't figure it out, and you are still blindly willful, or you can't get happiness.
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I don't think it's good, because it's irrational and it makes people feel a little too hasty.
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Just get divorced and remarry immediately. I feel that it is a little too hasty, and it is better to be more cautious when remarrying.
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Personally, I don't think this is good, because I need time to settle down on myself, and the most important thing is that I have to come out of the grief of my last marriage, have my own career, and make myself better, so that I am responsible for myself.
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Personally, I think that if there is no love in the marriage, the sooner the better, and once divorced, it is very necessary to find the next relationship, which can not only reduce the confusion of life, but also allow him to live in a loving family and so on.
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It's nothing more than jumping from one fire pit to another, it's just a matter of how big the fire is.
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Of course not, whether you need to remarry, this is personal privacy, but also personal freedom, if you meet the right person, you think he is better than your ex, then you can be together, if you don't meet a good one, then you can also live by yourself, and it's not a big deal.
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There is no need to remarry, if you feel that you are living a pretty good life and the quality of life is very good, don't remarry.
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Not necessarily, it depends on each person's wishes, and everyone's ideas are different, just follow your own ideas.
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Not necessarily, everyone has their own choice, judge according to their own actual situation, and don't listen to others.
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As a married person, I can appreciate the spiritual importance of marriage to a person. I will understand and support the parents of this choice. This is because, first, remarriage can make their parents happy is the greatest wish of children, second, remarriage as children should respect the choice of their parents, and third, children should do their best to help their parents live a happy life.
First, remarriage can make parents happy, which is the greatest wish of children. When children are young, their parents bring them up with hard work. When children grow up, they should repay their parents and make their lives happier.
Therefore, for every child, it is their greatest wish to be able to make their parents happy. From this point of view, when they learn that their parents are divorced and remarried, their children will accept and support them.
Second, as children, we should understand and respect their parents' choices. As a parent, Ran Shan has a wealth of life experience and has a clear understanding of what he should do. Therefore, the choices made by parents must be in line with their actual situation and can bring happiness to their lives.
Therefore, as children, the decision of their parents to divorce and remarry should be understood and respected.
Third, the remarried Kindonly children should do their best to help their parents and make them happy. In addition to understanding, respect and support, children can contribute much more to their parents' divorce and remarriage.
Specifically, children should do their best to help their parents, and remarry to make their lives more colorful and happier, so that the whole family can live in harmony and harmony. The result of a closer relationship with each other is the greatest filial piety for both parents and children.
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First of all, if my parents are divorced, I will respect their own choice and if they have the need to remarry, I will agree and support the consent for them to remarry. There are several reasons for this:
1. Life is short, but all divorced people have had such and such troubles and regrets in the last marriage, so most of them will have the need to remarry after divorce, as children should understand and respect this need, know that it is not easy for parents, even if they are unwilling in their hearts, do not hinder their parents' willingness to remarry, otherwise it will only cause conflicts in the family and leave scum for their parents and themselves to regret their lives!
2. People, regardless of age, have the right to pursue happiness. There are many people who think that it is natural for young people to remarry after divorce, while the elderly generally do not remarry after divorce, otherwise it will bring unnecessary trouble to their children, especially property issues, which is the main reason why many children do not agree with their parents to remarry.
However, the parents' property is earned by themselves, and they should have their own power at their disposal, and if the parents' right to pursue happiness is cut off just because of this, even if they meet someone who truly loves each other and can take care of each other and does not agree to their remarriage, they will be suspected of interfering with the freedom of others to love and marry. This behavior is very selfish.
3. Even if you don't agree, sometimes you can't change your parents' determination to remarry. Because if they are financially independent individuals, they will not cancel their determination to spend the rest of their lives with the person they like because their children do not agree.
I have a friend who firmly disagrees with my father's remarriage, but my father's remarriage partner is his first girlfriend, so even if my friend doesn't agree, he still remarries. The consequences can be imagined, because the friend disagreed, relatives and friends all said behind his back that his father was confused, the relationship between his father and relatives was getting worse and worse, although the friend's father won the marriage, but he lost his family affection, was very depressed, often drunk, and died in a drunk car accident not long after remarrying.
My friend was very sad and regretted that he had obstructed his father's marriage in every possible way, so that he let his father pass away in pain and depression.
So, if the parents are divorced, if they have a suitable partner to remarry, then, if you can't give them a big wedding, then give them the most sincere wishes.
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The answer is no.
Some people think that marriage should take a step back and open the sky, but marriage needs to be endured but do not need to endure and endure, and some people are not worth it for you to wronged yourself. Life is not easy for single mothers, but widowed marriages are even more chilling.
Husbands and wives should trust and respect, deal with things calmly and scientifically, do not hurt others, and avoid nonsense. When educating children, some people ignore it, and what they say lacks respect and trust, which leads to an increase in conflicts between husband and wife, and even the breakdown of marriage. In addition, it is important to have trust and respect between husband and wife, as well as respect and trust in the family of the lover.
Respecting and trusting the family of the lover is equivalent to respecting the lover, trusting the lover, and winning the heart of the lover. Some people ignore this truth and pay a heavy price for it. Some couples, thirty or forty years old, usually speak okay, but when they encounter something, they can't control their mouths, they can't control their eyes, they hurt people when they talk, their eyes show ** and suspicious eyes, sometimes the contradiction is very big, it can't end, and the husband and wife are very painful afterwards.
1. First of all, in marriage, there must be trust, because the two people at the beginning of the marriage are not related by blood, so there must be trust between the two people, but if you want the other party to trust yourself, there is no need, establish a sense of trust with each other, so that the marriage can be happy.
2. There should be love in marriage, many people think that love in marriage will become family affection after a long time, in fact, this is not right, a marriage with love can last longer, don't forget why each other entered the marriage in the first place, it is really a marriage that only has love.
3. In a marriage, there must be understanding and tolerance, both people are individual people, but in life they must learn to tolerate each other, everyone has to do wrong, choosing understanding is also a kind of trust, so as to avoid some quarrels.
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Great, since you choose to divorce, it means that your last relationship was not happy. You have escaped an unhappy marriage and embraced better happiness, and there will always be someone who will be willing to be nice to you again. In fact, getting married is like two companies talking about cooperation, continuing to cooperate when the negotiation is done, running in with each other if the negotiation is not appropriate, and finally ending the cooperation if the negotiation is still inappropriate.
Don't believe in love, love will never exist, love is just like people, it will be born, old, sick and die. Many people live happily because they have a good "mentality" and firm "beliefs".
Maybe being busy and running for life has become the most realistic appearance of many marriages, so the two people in the marriage as husband and wife will be reluctant to be romantic after being tired, and they have no intention of falling in love after being trivial. Every woman is inseparable from the watering of love, no matter how busy the marriage is, they need to get a few sweet words from their lover, a little warmth. When love comes, it is always beautiful, romantic, and vowed, so it will be easy to compare it with your bland and slightly lonely marriage.
Men's fragile women can't understand it, and they often see men as shelters from the wind and rain, and men have to block anything difficult, but men's psychological pressure will become heavier and heavier, so men would rather avoid than go head-on, and would rather not choose to remarry, nor find themselves troubled. Unless, this woman can educate the child, and will handle the relationship between the child and the father, and the man is very confident, has good educational means, and can handle the relationship with the child, or the remarried parties have a child together, then the remarriage will also be very happy.
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This situation is not a big deal, and it is only right that you must choose love to get married.
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