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First of all, I want to say that this kind of man is rare, and although I can't offend you, I still have to say what I think in my heart.
This kind of man should be very down-to-earth, but very introverted, muffled, and will not deal with feelings, so there will be a lot of problems in feelings, communication difficulties, and indifference to feelings is an autistic, introverted, and man who does not have much perception in love (may be more selfish, and a little machismo, thinking that women chase men, and men are chased).
It can be seen that if you have such a man, then you care about him very much, if two people love each other, they should care for each other, this is a manifestation of love, if there is no such performance, then even if you know that he loves you, what can you do? Can he give you warmth? Even if, as he said downstairs, he loves you quietly and silently, can you be happy?
He can't develop better with you! If you are so indifferent that you don't take care of you at all, then love is meaningless, it is very sad to get along with him, and if this is the case with his character, then change his personality (but it is almost impossible).
In the face of this kind of man, you use the following methods:
1.Start by determining if he cares about you.
2.If you don't care, there's no possibility of change; If you care, then you have to care for him all the time, be considerate of him, and let him feel it.
3.Talk to him more often, and try to avoid topics he hates and his shortcomings first.
4.When the time is ripe, have a heart-to-heart conversation with him and slowly get closer to his heart.
Believe that true love can change everything, and if he loves you, then it can change; But if he loves you and can't change his attitude, I'm sorry, to be honest, then you will not be happy.
I have made a detailed answer, I hope you can find true love!
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Oh intellectual" girl!
You're hard to find, girl.
Personal advice: "selfish" men, "sensual" men, "immature" men, "cowardly" men.
Machismo" men "quietly and silently love you" men Unrequited women love "men".
Benzene woman "man" who loves "benzene" man.
is one of these 9 types of men .
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It will help you when you are in trouble, will accompany you when you feel helpless, will protect you when you are being bullied, will comfort you when you are unhappy, and will always be mindful of your emotions.
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When you are in trouble, we will come forward to help you solve your difficulties in a timely manner, when you have no money, we will transfer money to you, spend money on you, give you gifts, and protect you when you are bullied by others.
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It doesn't care about your every move, doesn't care about your emotions, doesn't comfort you when you're sad, and won't be there for you.
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Pick up your **, don't reply to your messages, have a particularly bad attitude towards you, if this man doesn't love you anymore, there will be these manifestations of indifference.
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I think in a relationship, if a man doesn't love you, he will become very indifferent when you talk to him, and he will be very indifferent when you quarrel with him, he doesn't care about your feelings, all the plans are gone, and you are getting less and less contact with you.
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Usually the breakup is said in the case of emotional excess, when each other due to a small contradiction slowly spread into a problem, the dispute becomes increasingly intense, dizzy, the concept is not very clear, the word breakup first pops out of the mouth, if you realize that it is too late, he does not look back and runs away. You begin to regret that you were irrational and want to redeem him, and after careful consideration, you decide that you must apologize to him and ask for his forgiveness. However, apologizing is also a skill, so let me explain it to me in detail.
First of all, you have to be clear that even if the two people break up because of your impulse, you are also in a state of broken love, at this time your mood is definitely not peaceful, the brain is not normal, you can't meet him for such a thing, otherwise you may have another dispute with him. Therefore, you need to be as calm as possible, to settle yourself, to pick yourself up again, to show your best posture and to attract its focus again.
Before apologizing, you have to actively think about where your problems are, and you have to deal with them, so that your apology can become more and more meaningful. In fact, what you have to do to him is to ask him to forgive you for your previous mistakes, to let him know that he will not be as arrogant as before, and that you have gradually corrected your shortcomings, but you have to remember that you have to remember one thing, don't be too low, let him feel that you have been begging him to give you something, otherwise he will not cherish it. Say hello with moderate words, let him gradually get used to your presence, and make your plan more effective.
If you apologize to him, don't contact him for a while at the right opportunity, and show your recent status to your good friend, let him know how you are doing, and let him cause inner turmoil. In this case, it will be more likely to want to contact you, and even more so, it will actively propose compounding. At this time, you can also talk about your realistic feelings to make the relationship between you stronger.
In fact, apologizing does not mean that the one who actively apologizes is really wrong. It's just because that person cares more about that relationship, actively asks for forgiveness, and retains the beauty of the past again. Couples must learn to tolerate and forgive each other, and they also need to control their own temperament, don't easily say things like breaking up because they are irrational, remember that quarrels will not hurt harmony, and saying that breaking up at every turn will even hurt each other, emotions are not easy to come by, and you must know how to cherish them, after all, no one will care about you as much as your lover and love you, right?
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Understand his self-esteem. In life, as a normal person, you will have self-esteem, and self-esteem is the bottom line, that is, a person's "weakness", no one can hurt his self-esteem, even if it is the dearest and most beloved parents and partners around him, he cannot trample on his self-esteem at will. Therefore, in the relationship, if a woman wants a man to love you as her life, she should understand that men sometimes regard self-esteem as more important than life.
When he is not wrong in principle, try to maintain his self-esteem and give him face, and he will be very grateful to you in his heart and love you more.
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Men especially need to be understood, respected, cared for, and supported, and as long as you get hold of these, men will love you very much.
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Men's emotional weakness lies in the fact that men are very good-looking, once it affects their face process, it may lead to a very serious impact on the relationship between the two parties, and it is not conducive to the development of emotions between the two parties.
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Yes, indeed, if he always ignores you, or doesn't look at you every time, don't lick your face anymore.
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If he is often very perfunctory to you, does not want to communicate and communicate with you, and does not want to talk to you, it means that he is not interested in you at all.
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If a man loves you, what is the most obvious sign of it? Let's take a look at the psychology of men when they like you, whether the more they like the surface, the more cold they will be?
1. The most obvious manifestation of a man's love for you
1.Accommodate. To like a person is to accommodate, whether it is in daily life, or to like, life will accommodate your habits, accommodate what you want, because in his heart these are no problems, because you like so everything you can bear.
2.Possessive.
Of course, the obvious manifestation of a man's love for you is his possessiveness towards you, no man will let the girl he likes chat or date with other men casually, and even he will take you with you at all times to announce your ownership to the people around him.
3.Keep your distance.
There is also a very obvious manifestation that he likes you because his heart is full of you, so he will take the initiative to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex around him, and he will feel that people who like him are like flies, and he will feel bored because he doesn't need it.
Second, the more men like the surface, the colder they are
1.Fear of disappointment.
Because I like it too much, I often pretend to be cold so that you can't see it, afraid that you will leave after you know it, and because I like it, I will deliberately hide it, so I will feel that the other party is cold.
2.Lock yourself off.
There is also a possibility that because you like it too much and are afraid of being hurt and rejected, you will block your feelings, but in fact, you really like the surface and will be indifferent to you and not let you notice it.
3.Vanity.
Of course, it may also be to satisfy their vanity, because some men will think that what is not big is the best, so the dowry pit does not care, in fact, this is not pure liking, or liking yourself is better than you.
Summary:
The man who loves you, you will feel comfortable and at ease anytime and anywhere, because he will give you the security you want most, as long as you like it, he likes it, and he will never do it if you don't like it.
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Different people have different forms of expression, women like to listen to love, while men are more put into practice, often moisturizing things silently, while women complain that men do not understand the amorous and unexpected surprises, and there is no trace of affection and warmth in ordinary life. Sometimes it's not that there is no love, but that there is a lack of eyes after loss. Women are very easy to blindly follow the trend in their relationships, only deeply trapped in their own imagination of feelings, but forget to look at the essence of things and see the man's mind.
A man who has a deep affection for himself may not be able to warm his mouth when he opens his mouth, but he understands that he warms your heart with practical actions, but you don't know how to achieve it, you don't know how to tacitly do it, only complain about it, and men are very helpless. It is difficult for men to be tempted, but once they are really tempted, they will be very affectionate, and their hearts are all your appearance, and they will give you good everywhere, but sometimes the form of expression looks unsatisfactory and makes you misunderstood. Affection and warmth must be tasted quietly, and you will eventually figure out that men treat you like this, not because they don't love you, but because they love you.
will emphasize that you are not enough, if he doesn't care about you, it is also development or regression for you, this person doesn't care, so why bother you? The man who loves you more and more will be more and more bluntly emphasizing your problems and inaccuracies, in the hope that you can correct and become a stronger person. Men are creatures of parallel lines, and their love is so deep and responsible that they will make you think that they are disgusting you, but in fact they just don't notice the tone and form of expression.
Men themselves are inconvenient people, they don't care about you, they don't say anything about your little things, and the more they care about you, the more they will think about you, and they will emphasize the problems and absences you have been in your work and life, hoping that you can correct them and improve yourself more.
It's really easy for women to misunderstand, they are being harsh, and it's easy to be entertained by their will and initiative, but if they don't care about you, what are you like, and what does it have to do with it? It is precisely because I care about you that I am not afraid of offending you and have the courage to be straightforward, just hoping that you can become better and better. When quarrelling, choose to be silent, is unwilling to expand the contradiction between two people together, has been unable to avoid contradictions, women always want to be able to say it clearly at one time, especially like to get to the bottom of the matter, while men do not like to argue.
Therefore, when a man is silent during a quarrel, he can be misunderstood by a woman as a family cold violence, and misunderstood as not caring, which will annoy the woman and make things more complicated. And men's silence is usually when women lose their temper and don't know how to speak reasonably, in order to prevent the expansion of contradictions, but they are often misunderstood by the women of the manuscript. Men and women look at problems from different perspectives and deal with them in different ways, and men's silence is just that they don't want to renew the contradiction and want to calm both sides.
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Love and warmth need to be tasted quietly, you will understand sooner or later that a man treats you like this, not because he doesn't love you, but because he loves you deeply. Will point out your shortcomings If he doesn't care about you, as for whether you are improving or regressing, he doesn't mind
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Hello, a man obviously loves you very much but is very indifferent to you, if a man loses his temper with a woman for some reason, and is still very indifferent, it must be a woman who has done something that should not have made the man very angry. The male leaky round person obviously loves you very much, but suddenly he is very indifferent to you, often for these reasons, don't understand. In love, there are many women who will always be particularly unreasonable.
Sometimes men obviously haven't done anything wrong, but just women themselves are in a bad mood, and women may vent their anger on men, which will always make men very depressed. But men in love don't do this, and there must be a reason for the difference.
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