What are ineffective socials and what are ineffective socials

Now social has become an important part of people's life and work, people meet friends through social networking, develop their own careers, benign social interaction is very beneficial to people, but some social networking is useless, and waste time, and even some social brings negative effects.

What kind of social interaction is ineffective social networking?Broadly speaking, the role of social interaction is to bring oneself a happy mood, convenient life, and career progress. And some socializing, for example, is to eat and drink together, and drink every day, for a long time, what is the meaning of this kind of socialization?

There is no role in making one's own progress, and if you drink too much, you will be dizzy all day long, you can't do anything, you can't do anything, you will hurt your liver if you drink too much, some social is to play mahjong together, occasionally it's okay, it's a long time, it's a waste of time, it hurts the body, and some may have an accident. Or some people feel that connections are important, no matter what social occasions to go, but if you yourself are a nobody, go in vain, waste time for a social, no one will recognize you, no one will have an impression of you, even if you hand each other business cards, you receive a bunch of business cards, it is useless, this kind of social is not good for yourself, or some people feel that the powerful have hands and eyes, and make enough effort to make friends with the powerful, but the powerful are very shrewd, and will only make friends with people who are good for themselves, and are only polite to ordinary people, and some people think that they have picked up a treasure, and when they ask the powerful to do things, no one pays attention to them at allAs a result, it is a waste of time and material resources. Society is not that simple, and not all social networks are useful.

Ineffective socialization is a waste of life, we must put our energy on useful socialization, put on the social that can really improve ourselves, rather than ineffective socializing, it is better to learn to read at home, self-charging and progress, in order to enhance their gold content, in the social attention of others, ushered in their own bright future.

Ineffective social interaction is mainly judged by the other person's reaction, if the other party can't have a lot of effective interaction with you, and he is ineffective socializing.

Young people's social capital is generally insufficient, and social interaction can be made effective by improving some social soft skills, such as personal image, communication skills, handling skills, affinity skills, expression skills, etc.

Do you know what effective social is, and what doesn't work?

Ineffective socialization, an Internet buzzword, refers to the kind of social activities that cannot bring any pleasure and progress to your spirit, feelings, work, and life.

Ineffective social complex, the so-called ineffective social networking, refers to ineffective connections. Since childhood, I have been taught by adults to have good relationships with others.

Ineffective social -..The so-called ineffective social networking refers to ineffective networking.

Since childhood, I have been taught by adults to have good relationships with others.

But, when you think about it, we want this.

What is the real purpose of networking? --Exchange of interests.

Isn't it just that when you use it in the future, you can hope that he can.

Can you give me a hand? What I asked for was this opportunity for him to help me in the future.

It's not nice to say, but it's true.

Moreover, such connections also have one thing in common, that is, they can be fairly exchanged with you, and the value you pay is fair to the value you can get in the future.

Of course, we are talking here about the general situation, excluding those who are more scheming and achieve their ends by some means.

Feeling is a social activity that doesn't make any sense.

Busy for a long time squeezing his head to drill inside, who is the other person,

The first is online socializing.

Sociologist Goffman has insight into the nature of personality in online social networking: it is a big theater where everyone is a natural actor, and he beautifies himself through various symbols to perform in line with the expectations of others. The actors sometimes form a drama troupe and play with each other; Sometimes they go deep into the audience and tease and interact.

For these scattered masses, all they need is an emotional attitude, such as a rush of praise and onlookers, even if this has no practical value.

This kind of online social networking can also be called "like friends".

The second type is general acquaintance.

Many people have the following behaviors: they have to visit relatives and friends during the holidays, they have to take care of their relationships with colleagues on weekdays, sometimes they are invited to parties by old classmates, and they are even pulled over by a hardcore friend to make up a few ......

Think about the following scene again: you run to a party, greet a group of strangers, greet each other with a smile, talk politely to each other, toast, scan WeChat, and leave ** numbers, but after three days, you can't remember who the other party is......This is the socialization of ordinary people, and it can also be said to be ineffective socialization.

For successful people, these socializations are a waste of life, as they tend to skip these options and go straight to the more important and valuable things.

Look at a person's worth, just look at whether his time is worth it. A person at a high level will not put time and energy into things or people that are of no value.

The third is unequal socialization.

Social networking is actually a kind of resource trading. We must understand that the distribution of social resources is uneven, and in this trading market, the status of people is unequal.

If the resources you have are too weak, you will become a mere "taker", and the relationship of fair exchange cannot be established, which is just a kind of futility.

Even if you use too much force, you will become a "flattering", "flattering", "nodding" and "nodding" in the eyes of others, and eventually become a laughing stock in the eyes of others.

If you think about it, most of our time and energy is taken up by this "ineffective socialization". Many times, it is not the work itself that tires us, but this "ineffective socialization".

Although you have been socializing all the time, but you have not had the social effect that you should have, and you have not established a useful social circle, then the social interaction you have been doing is ineffective socialization.

One of the most typical representative models is to only talk about quantity and not quality of social networking.

Compared to the number of social interactions, the quality of social interaction is much more important, if you can't turn the people you know in social networking into real friends, even if there are more people added to your phone, it will not help you substantially, it will only waste your time and energy.

The quality of social interaction is reflected in two aspects, one is the quality of social objects, and the other is the depth of communication.

The quality of social objects refers to not blindly being greedy in social interactions, making friends with everyone, and screening according to certain criteria, such as interests, aspirations, and win-win cooperation.

The depth of social interaction refers to the way and frequency of contact on a daily basis. People who only pursue the number of social interactions, the general social network only stops at business cards and WeChat, as long as they have these two, they will go to other people's business cards and WeChat. I have been busy for this reason, but I don't realize that to business cards and WeChat, it is only the beginning of social networking, not the result.