Don t raise your child to be a beggar, what s the harm to your child?

"No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor children" This kind of education results are specially used to pit children from poor families. Because the children of rich families grow up in a much more affluent environment than children of poor families, there is no need to carefully add or supplement anything for him or her. Children who grow up with golden spoons are born and raised in a comfortable environment, and everything grows up naturally as their parents' food and housing are already better than those of poor children.

And if the children of poor families want to look like rich families, they must be carefully added. Poor families always feel that their own conditions are poor, and they have an inferiority complex, and they always think that adults feel sorry for their children if they have not been able to create good conditions for their children. It is often said that we can't lack children if we have them, and it's nothing if we suffer a little, and we can't be poor children.

In this way, the child forms the illusion that everything at home is best for him (her). The "little overlord" of the poor family was thus formed.

The rich child's food, clothing, housing and transportation are already very good, and parents often deliberately cultivate his independent ability. Let him or her dress and fold the quilt by himself/herself, and do some household chores such as cleaning and washing dishes and chopsticks. He was very independent from an early age.

And what about poor children? Parents always feel that they should let their children study hard and have a good way out in the future, and don't waste time on miscellaneous things. In this way, the "rich second generation" from poor families often grow up to be vain, comparative, lazy and not self-reliant.

The children of poor families have the disease of wealth, do you say that this "can't be poor child" is it a pit for the poor? The rich second generation itself has better educational resources than the poor, so it's a big deal for people to get a "noble school" or arrange to go abroad for further study. A rich family has a lot of money, and the children themselves are not poor if they are not poor, and your poor family has raised a "rich second generation".

There are several real-life examples that should be a wake-up call for parents who "can't afford to have poor children". A student who was admitted to Tsinghua University did not have very good family conditions, and after leaving his parents to live on campus, he could not dress and cook, could not do laundry, and could not take care of himself. I don't even know how to eat eggs with skin, because my parents have peeled them and fed them since I was a child.

What makes his parents proud is that he is the first in his academic performance, and he is usually not allowed to do anything, just blindly studying. In the end, he got his wish and was admitted to Tsinghua University, a famous school in the county. But what can this genius "giant baby" cultivated by a poor family do?

I couldn't take care of myself and was forced to drop out of school in the end.

Someone once interviewed Li Ka-shing about children's education. The Li family should be known to everyone on the earth, right? People are very rich, and their son should be the prince, and they are not accompanied by luxury car bodyguards and drivers when they go out!

But Li Ka-shing said that since elementary school, he has let his children take the bus and subway to school and go home from school. From an early age, they are cultivated to be self-reliant. Are the parents of our poor "rich second generation" awake!

Wealthy families cultivate independence from an early age to prevent "rich diseases", while poor families often train their children to get "rich diseases". So whether rich or poor, don't raise your children to be spiritual "beggars". "Poor can't be poor children" once it changes its taste, it becomes doting.

The "rich second generation" of the poor family is even more anxious!

This can make the child feel inferior. If you are not able to give your child material satisfaction, then your child's spirit will also be affected, and you will become inferior and unwilling to show yourself, which is not conducive to your child's development and become a real beggar.

This is not conducive to the formation of a sound personality in the child, so that he is born with no self-confidence, develop the habit of getting something for nothing, unable to make him psychologically aware of this kind of mistake, and easy to cause them to cause wrong guidance.

Children's growth, parents' education methods, have a vital impact on their future, especially in the way of education, we must pay attention to the way is very important, a good way of education can cultivate his good attitude towards life, learning atmosphere is also a role in promoting the future.

As a parent, we must encourage and support, because it is not difficult to see from this incident that the child has a good heart, so he must let his kindness be brought into play, which will also be of great benefit to his future growth.

I think parents should support their children, and that their children's behavior shows that they are very loving and kind, and this quality is very necessary to develop, and parents should support them.

I think this is an act to be encouraged, and the fact that your child wants to help the beggar shows that your child is a very caring person and you should support and encourage him appropriately.

Let children know how to be kind, know how to help others, give alms to those in need, even if they really encounter beggars, they should treat them equally and treat them squarely. Beggars are a microcosm of the uneven development of real life and social evolution. Without beggars, where are the rich?

Don't put on a "bad hat" for people (beggars) who have not studied well since childhood.

They may have a variety of family reasons and social backgrounds. It may be a family accident, losing the care and upbringing of the family since childhood; It may be that he is sick and has lost his ability to work; It may be that the parents are divorced, causing the family to be very unhappy; It could also be because of a problem with the individual's intelligence. The family has many children, the peasants have lost their land, their lives are in dire straits, and they lack the ability to live individually?

Wait, wait.

What you need is to let your child know what is good and not discriminatory, otherwise it will be useless in the future.

If the economic conditions allow, the child can give less.

Some people may say that there are many beggars now, and they are all professionally developed, and they are richer than us. However, there are also people who are having difficulties in life.

It's hard to tell. However, every time we see a beggar with a grateful expression or "thank you" when he receives this small amount of money, we feel that it is "worth it".

This "worthwhile" is, of course, in cultivating children's "kindness". As a child, you can't tell the difference between a beggar and a beggar. Then, we might as well "believe it as it is".

Besides, the number of donations is not large, even if it is a fake beggar, what can we lose? In the process of helping others again and again, children will gradually understand some truths, so that children who are "in happiness" will realize that there are still many groups in need of help in life, and realize the other side of society.