How to end a tangled relationship, do you have any thoughts and suggestions?

There is no one thing in the world that should not be solved, and it is the same to redeem, once you use it to measure whether it should or not, it will automatically use your brain to conduct logical analysis, and the feeling of this thing can not be solved by logic and reason, just follow your heart, if your heart wants to redeem, then redeem, if you don't want to redeem, then give up.

When a relationship is over and you find that you can't let go of him, but you are the one who was broken up" This sentence means that I broke up, but I can't let go of the other party and want to redeem it, but I can't let go of my self-esteem, because I am the one who was broken up.

Most people will have some belief system: they think that it is a shameless thing to take the initiative to find or redeem each other after a breakup, especially if a girl takes the initiative to redeem each other, then even if they get back together, they will not be cherished by the other party. Everyone should understand that we are trying to redeem each other, but we are not begging for each other to come back, so there will be no such thing as letting go of self-esteem and losing face.

If you feel that it is a matter of hurting your self-esteem and losing face to redeem the other party, then as long as the other party's attitude or feedback is not good in the process of redeeming, then you will feel that your self-esteem has been hurt, and then you will naturally want to give up and redeem. So if you want to redeem the other person, you must first talk to your own self-esteem, and then no matter what the attitude and feedback in the process of redemption, we have to accept it. Then you will have a good attitude, a good attitude is half the success, and it will not affect your own emotions because of the other party's words and deeds.

In the past experience of recovery, most people will ask such a question: what should be said or done to redeem the ex? In fact, redemption has little to do with what you say or do to the other person, only with emotions and feelings.

Good emotions and feelings attract good relationships, and bad emotions and feelings attract bad relationships.

Personally, I think that if you want to end a tangled relationship quickly, you must work hard to adjust your mentality, make yourself more determined, appropriately shift your attention, devote yourself to the career you are interested in, and no longer place hope on the other party.

I can see that you are very confused and in a bad mood right now. You have to think calmly: whether the other person is worthy of your love, if it is worthy, don't give up easily! Now you try to adjust your mood and make yourself happy, only when people are happy will they solve problems better.

If you want to adjust your mood, you can do what you like to do, listen to your favorite **, watch movies, idol dramas, if you don't want to listen to songs or watch movies, you can also go out for a walk and make an appointment with friends to hang out together. When I'm bored, I like to look at the sky outside, which is actually very pleasant. People just think a lot.

In fact, there are not many things, and a lot of things will be thought of, so you have to do more things and keep yourself busy, so that you don't think about it. It is impossible for people to be happy all the time in their lives without troubles, and there are always ups and downs in life, so it is interesting. Sometimes it's not a good thing to be annoyed, bored, lonely, depressed, irritable, and empty, and can be used as a catalyst.

When you're in a good mood, everything won't be a problem.

I hope you can find the answer from the bottom of your heart!