How am I going to deal with this tangled relationship?

People are the most fateful ones! You can't run, you can't beg! If you can't keep the love, you have to learn to let go. If you can't keep them, let them go wherever they love!

To deal with a temporary loss, we must learn to be relieved, to look down, to let go, and not to care! The more you dwell on something and the more you care about it, the more it will torment you! In the face of "entanglement", first of all, see if there are new methods that have not been used before.

If you have exhausted your talents, see if you can adapt and no longer think too much about yourself, the next thing is to see if you can wait, because life itself is changing. Adjust your wishes. Change with the changes in your life.

Another option is to give up or retreat, no longer care about the merits, and seek to go with the flow, of course, the most important principle for dealing with entanglements is to agree, people cannot live according to their own wishes, which is an inevitability in itself. It is very important to understand this, and most of the entanglements are not accepted and dissatisfied with reality. People will complain that life makes them too entangled, but they don't know that it is because they think too much and do too little; Often confused by many choices and torn between them, but never thinking about what they really need; Hate is constantly blocked in wandering, but he is unwilling to break through himself.

Sometimes, when we encounter troubles, we are entangled; When we encounter setbacks, we are entangled; When we encounter dissatisfaction, we are entangled; When we encounter confusion, we are entangled ......People are obsessed with the inevitable bumps and bumps in life, but in fact, they are all pseudo-entanglements.

Their family pays a down payment to buy a house, which also shows their determination to be with you. You make up the down payment, perhaps giving them the impression that you look down on their family and think that their family can't afford it. For marriage, down payment, etc., perhaps you and your family occupy a more active position, which has caused him a certain amount of pressure.

You repeatedly mention family conditions several times, saying that you don't care, but it is precisely because you care that you always mention them. You have the idea of "I'm married, you have to cherish me more" in your bones. The woman who marries feels that she is very noble, but how many men can afford to get married.

If you can truly accept him, try not to talk about how your family is or how their family is in the future, but what will be like "you" in the future. The mother's family and the in-law's family are their own family, just like there are always people in the family with higher incomes and some people with lower incomes. A family is evaluated as a whole, not by separating high-income and low-income households.

Whenever a relationship is at an impasse, try to repair the relationship.

Studies have found that a person falls out of love an average of three times in their lifetime. What do we do when love is gone?

If a person wants to break up with their partner and still loves each other, but they can't deal with the problems between them, then there is an opportunity to find professional counseling to talk to, and maybe they will not break up. It's like if you have a pair of shoes, it's very comfortable to wear, but the hook is broken, and every time you wear it, you don't know what to do at first? Later, I decided not to, but I still miss these shoes very much, maybe you can't repair them yourself, but you can send them to the shoemaker to repair them.

Once the hook is repaired, you can continue to wear it, and it is very comfortable, which is a feeling of happiness that is difficult for others to understand.

Feelings have the so-called beginning and end, there will be development after opening, and difficulties will be encountered after development, if you can solve it together, it is together, and if you can't solve it, it is divided. The most feared thing is that I didn't try to deal with it, which made the difficulties bigger and bigger, and the negative energy accumulated from the quarrel became bigger and bigger. There will be friction between people, and we must learn to mend the relationship, rather than giving up easily, just like finding a doctor to diagnose when we are sick.

If the repair still doesn't work in the end, the situation will be better when you choose to break up, because each other knows the reason for the breakup.

On the contrary, if the two of them can't handle it by themselves, and they don't ask a psychological counselor for help, so that they don't say goodbye properly, in this case, it is normal to still have feelings for their ex.

If the relationship is causing you trouble. You might as well calm down for a while and wait until you're ready to think about it.