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My boyfriend is very concerned about my past and whether there is a need to continue, mainly considering these factors.
The first factor, your boyfriend minds your past, it means that you are a narrow-minded person, and your boyfriend has already taken care of it, what else do you have to be nostalgic about? It is often said that a lover will eventually become a family, and the boyfriend is ruthless, so you don't have to keep it as a family. Find someone who loves each other, why not?
We must firmly believe that let go of the past, and a better tomorrow is not far ahead.
The second factor, frankly, is that both men and women care about their significant other's history. But I'm more opposed, understand some moderation. After all, the past has become history, and it doesn't make much sense to talk about him.
The other party's past can give us a reference of the other party's character at most, but it may not be accurate. Therefore, the most important thing is to cultivate good feelings at the moment. For boyfriend or girlfriend, mind the other party's past, and want to break up, then it's good to break up, and there is no need to keep it.
Because of the essence of this problem, we still haven't established enough trust with each other and have prejudices.
Because of the narrow-mindedness of intolerance, it's good to be chic and let go.
The third factor, people who really love you will want to grow old with you and will not mind your past, because everyone has their own past, some good and some bad! The history proves that we were also young! But it is also the mistake of our youth and ignorance.
Our bad past has happened, but we have to look forward, step forward, and work hard to change ourselves for the person we like, become the person that the other person likes, and make the other half willing to take care of ourselves! So come on! Let's cheer for yourself to get better and better in the future.
The fourth factor, of course, should continue, you should pull him with a dead face, do not let him leave you, no matter how he scolds you, you will beg him to stay, so that you will love more and more humblely, and this relationship will last.
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If my boyfriend cares about his past in particular, then I don't think there's any need to continue. Because he is very mindful of your past in his heart, such as some things that happened between you and your boyfriend before. So now these things must still have some thorns in his heart, and one day, these things will become a barrier between the two of you.
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Hello, there is no need, because if you continue, you will not be happy, he is always entangled in your past, and he can't get over his own hurdle, which will slowly wear out your feelings, and there can be no future.
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Dear, if your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, then there is no need to develop. Everyone has their own past, he cares a lot about your past, it may mean that he loves you very much, but he can't get over this hurdle in his heart, this is also a bit of selfishness, if he really loves you, then he will tolerate everything about you.
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Your boyfriend cares about your past very much, so don't continue to talk to him, because everyone has a past, he doesn't have a little belly, your past is over after all, and he must be in love with you in the future, not your past.
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A person who truly likes you should not care about your past, but let your past become a thing of the past, hoping to be a part of your future in the future. If your boyfriend minds, then he doesn't really love you or don't continue.
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Making friends and falling in love two people have to look forward together, boyfriend cares too much about your past, then in a certain situation, there is no need for this person to go on together, because what he values is always only the past you, not the present with the future of you wholeheartedly and with him, no future development is unhappy.
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Your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, which means that he doesn't really love you, and I don't think there's any need to continue, because he doesn't know how to tolerate your past, and he won't love you with his heart, so it's better to break up.
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If your boyfriend is concerned about your past, I suggest you don't stay with him. After being together for a long time, he has always told you about this matter. In the future, when you get married, you will have a gap in your heart, and you will be unhappy.
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I don't think there's any need to continue, because the past has happened and can't be changed, and if he insists on not changing his point of view and cares a lot, then there is no better way for you than to let go.
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If your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, there is no need to continue, because he will never remember the past and will definitely not be able to live in the present.
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If you care about your past, it will become the basis for him to dislike you. If your boyfriend is really concerned about this, I suggest you separate from each other.
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Your past has nothing to do with your boyfriend, and if your boyfriend is holding on to your past, then he is a cautious person, and you don't need to talk to him anymore.
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If your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, and after your repeated persuasion, it has not changed, then there is really no need to be together, because it will become a thorn in his heart, which is difficult to forget.
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Your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, and if he can't get over that hurdle, there is no need to continue, after all, it will be a lifetime.
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Your boyfriend minds your past, which means that he is a narrow-minded person, he has already taken care of everything, what else do you have to be nostalgic about? It is often said that a lover will eventually become a family, and the boyfriend is ruthless, and you don't have to keep it.
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If your boyfriend cares about your past very much and can't get over this hurdle, I don't think there is any need to continue dating, otherwise there may be a lot of friction in later life.
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I care a lot about your past, and if it affects your relationship, there is no need to continue.
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It's really hard to do, and I'm in a dilemma, you can try to convince him to see if you can get rid of your past completely from his eyes, and if he still doesn't say anything that hurts you, then you have to let it go. Because over time, you will slowly change from love to hate.
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If your past is a knot in your boyfriend's heart that cannot be passed, then this knot in his heart cannot be untied, and it is likely to become a contradiction in the future.
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Your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, which means that he has very stubborn standards in some aspects, and he is not happy when he is with you, and the reason why he did not propose to break up is because he does not want to be a bad person for the sake of face. In this case, you can take the initiative to break up with him and not waste each other's time.
First, maybe you have talked about your boyfriend before and didn't leave the best things for him, so he has been obsessed, but in fact, you can give something to him in this relationship, but he has never felt it, which proves that his vision is relatively superficial. But everyone has their own ambitions, you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, even if you are reluctant to be with the other person, and when you get married, he will often talk about your past. In this way, your position in the marriage will also be very low, and you will not be happy in this life.
Second, not everyone cares about a girl's past, there are many women who are married for the second time, even with a child, can find their own love and live a happy life. So you don't have to be too humble in this relationship, you can just talk about the topic and ask the other party if they have been concerned about their past, then choose to break up. Some men didn't open up before, but when you propose to break up, they will think of your kindness and will not agree to break up.
Or after a breakup, start trying to make amends. If this happens, you must make your position clear and tell the other party that if you care about your past as much as before, you will choose to leave, and this time you promise to reconcile, which is the last trust in him. In this way, the other party can also know how to cherish.
Third, if you choose to break up and the other party has not recovered, then when you are looking for a partner, don't lower your requirements too much. Although your past is not perfect, you have the right to pursue love, and you can't feel inferior because of other people's eyes, which will only make you fall into this strange circle, and even meet someone like your ex-boyfriend again.
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No. Because your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, it means that he doesn't really love you, so I don't think there's any need to continue.
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A man, if he cares a lot about your past, even if he doesn't show it on the surface, this is a time bomb, and when he gets tired of you and has no interest, he will not hesitate to use this as an excuse to dump you;
You don't need to be entangled, if you love someone, you have to love her all, your past doesn't mean anything.
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If your boyfriend confirms the relationship between the two of you and then goes to your past, there is no need to continue.
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Your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, which is not conducive to the continued development and stability of the relationship between two people, and you should communicate with your boyfriend in time to point out the emotional impact of this drawback. If the boyfriend still hasn't changed, it is recommended that the relationship stop breaking up, otherwise it will not be good for both parties to develop.
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There is no need to continue, because if two people are really together, there will be estrangement, and there will be many contradictions.
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I think if your boyfriend cares about your past now, then there is no need to continue, because even after getting married, he will mock you with your past.
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If you've talked to him so much to no avail, I don't think there's any need for you to continue, but I want to say that even if he finds his next girlfriend, he will still mind if he has a similar past.
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Boys who care about your past are either special traditions or possessive, and this kind of boy is difficult to get along with later in life.
If you have to get over it, it's particularly complicated, it's best to break up with him right away.
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I don't feel the need to go on because the other person simply doesn't love you enough.
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The past can't determine whether you are good or bad in the present, if your current boyfriend can't cherish you, then go find a man who can cherish you in the present.
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Your boyfriend cares about your past very much, I don't think there is any need to continue with him, because he is a very careful person, find a girl who has no past, and be with him, otherwise you will not be happy together.
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When men and women are together, they mostly ask each other about their exes, and some boys may not accept it after hearing about the girl's past. What should a girl do at this time to save this relationship? Is it necessary to continue?
Whether or not to continue depends on the feelings of both parties. We often say that impulse is the devil! So we always advise others to think twice and not be impulsive.
But after all, I'm afraid it's long gone, especially when I encounter something. For example, in relationships, we often see a couple impulsively breaking up because of some trivial things, and then thinking about how to get back together after the breakup.
First of all, you need to know what kind of personality your boyfriend is so that you can make appropriate adjustments in your daily life. Why do men care so much about their girlfriends' past? In fact, as a woman, she should know that although it is a man's nature and nature, it is also a sign of caring and valuing you.
Because she cared, she wanted to know. Because she likes it, she cares. Maybe the truth will make him sad, but the person who truly loves you is trying to let go of it all and continue to love you.
And it's true that men who deliberately break up or deliberately "punish" you because of your past may like, but selfishness is also true. Premise, your past feelings are not random. Many couples break up, mostly because of a lack of communication, which will lead to more and more misunderstandings later.
Therefore, if we talk more and express our inner feelings more, the misunderstanding between two people can be solved well.
Moreover, when you are talking, you can better express your inner feelings, and you may find that your feelings for each other are actually very deep and you are reluctant to end the relationship. Your boyfriend will also understand your feelings. Let's break it down.
Since you love each other, you should be together and don't mind the past. Since you have accepted this person, you must accept everything about this person. This kind of love deserves the respect of others.
If you don't feel that someone else has passed away, then it will start to change, not too hot and not too cold. It's a terrible choice. After all, love is about mutual respect and mutual support, so that love will last for a long time.
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There is no need, everyone has a past, he himself has a past, but you have to mind your past, he can't empathize with your deep feelings, which will be a great hidden danger to you in the future, so stop loss in time.
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Your boyfriend didn't go over, but you told him about your past, but he hid his dirty side in his heart. If two people are together so much tolerance and understanding, it's better not to be together.
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