How to survive a life of despair in debt

First: start from scratch, don't be afraid of losing face Combined with yourself, when a person is down, he must be in debt, desperate, and have no extra money to maintain family and feelings, and sometimes, we can't even take care of ourselves. Life has become a problem, we are constantly worried about debts, unpaid money, endless worries, and sometimes we think about it, and we fall into deep thought.

We may doubt ourselves and our lives, and sometimes we can't turn the corner, and we can easily reach a dead end, and we can't get out. Some people may want to get rid of all their suffering by leaving. Some people may use alcohol to kill their sorrows, while others blindly avoid it.

Although we are all ordinary people, we can't be irresponsible for ourselves, the more others look down on us, the more we have to work hard. The more others want to see us sinking, the more difficult it is for us to live a better life than them, and there will always be a time when the clouds will see the light of day. Start from scratch, barefoot people are not afraid to wear shoes, find a serious job, start by supporting yourself.

Where there is life, there is hope! I believe that one day, we will overcome the so-called mid-life crisis through our own efforts.

Step over all the downfall, come on! Second: Be prepared to continue to endure hardships Who would have thought that most of the desperate life comes from the family", yes, in fact, the reason why we are desperate and scarred is not because of a responsibility, this responsibility refers to our willingness to pay for the family and be willing to endure hardships for the family.

Remember, at this time, face is a fart, because no one cares about your face, living to give yourself an explanation, to give your family a future, to give the creditor a confidence, is the foundation of a comeback. A man's tiredness is never physically tired, but mentally tired. The reason why our hearts are tired is because we are not understood, which makes us want to run away from this home, because it is really tiring to live like that.

As a middle-aged person, I can understand Otsuka's thoughts very well. That's how I came over, I did everything I had for my family, but in the end, I hurt myself. But at the same time I also recognize:

In this world, no one can be relied on except yourself. This world, more difficult than us, more pitiful than us, is much better. But others are still living bravely, how dare we give up on ourselves first.

It's not terrible to be in debt, it's terrible that you lose the courage and confidence to live, and you feel hopeless. There will always be some unsatisfactory in life, when you are in debt, you must cheer up, you must hold on, life must go on, your only way is to give your life a Jedi counterattack!Come on!

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Every failure is because of our shortcomings!Quit Chong and get rid of bad habits is the only way out!Scattered and vertical.

1. It is very important to adjust the mentality Only those who have experienced it know that the helplessness when they are in debt, the inability to sleep at night, the inability to calm down, and the ability to sleep well, how can they grasp themselves, and if this continues, the situation will only get worse.

Therefore, adjusting the mentality is the top priority, calm the heart, the matter has come to this point, regret is useless, then recognize the reality, find yourself, return to yourself, find confidence and courage, this is a very important step out of the predicament.

2. Learn lessons and find out the reasons When you are in debt, you have to reflect on yourself, reflect on the past, find your own problems, and do it in the future.

Learn a lesson, how to go in the future, you have to have a plan, you can't repeat the mistakes of the past, and of course, you have to prepare for the worst.

3. Stop-loss liabilities are not terrible, what is terrible is that they can not stop losses in time, and they will delay again and again, which will only make you more and more indebted

4. Only do three things a day When you are in debt, don't go to Tik Tok, don't play games, don't watch world events, the situation in Ukraine has nothing to do with you at all!In addition to eating, drinking, and sleeping people must do trivial things to live, you can only do three things a day, and these three things must be related to making money to pay off debts, as for which three things can only be measured by yourself.

First: There is a good leader, even if there are many unpleasant problems between people at this time, but as long as I think about my work, there is a wise leader, and there is a better development platform, I feel very satisfied.

Second: the support of my family, every time my mother's nagging pushes the words I don't like to hear the most, often these words are the most used, the words that move me the most, encourage and support me, this is the invisible power.

I want to prove myself, I want to live a meaningful life, even if I die, I have to die a chic and tragic death, so as to highlight the value of my existence, otherwise I will come in such a vain, what is the meaning?It will be spurned and looked down upon by everyone.

If you can't live, you don't necessarily want to die, but you do think about the word death. I thought at the time, if I die, I don't exist, I can't gamble with my life on the true existence of the Pure Land of Bliss or Heaven, it's better to live well, as long as I have to eat, so many delicious things can't be wasted, and the people who cook for me can't live up to it. It's better to cheer up than to steal a living, there's nothing worse than now.

After figuring it out, the mentality is good, the mentality is better, and the state of life is better.

Family, of course.

When I almost got sick in the hospital last year, life felt boring, and my wife was always with me, and she never showed disgust. It's false to say that I am not moved, and I hope to live better for them.

Supporting my parents and raising my children, my family should be the driving force for me to live now.

When I was desperate in life, it was my dream that made me persevere, because I had my own goals and directions, I must insist on not giving up, giving up is equivalent to giving up on myself, I don't think about myself but also think about my parents, I want to repay their kindness to me!

At that time, my life suffered a big setback, I thought about whether to just end my life like this, or simply give up on myself and live a day to survive, but my parents cheered me up again, I was their only hope, and if I fell, they would not be able to support it, which was the last thing I wanted.

I think it's that faith, to live to enjoy the beauty of the world, sigh the wonder of all things, I still have lovers in life, children, parents, they are all my most important people, if I don't have them, how can they live, thinking of this, I tell myself that I must live well.

When I feel hopeless, I really think about whether I won't feel pain when I end my life, but whenever this happens, I always think of my father's deep love, my mother's nagging love, looking at two young children, so innocent and lovely, and my husband working hard for a better tomorrow. Life is hard, but with the family who loves me and my loved ones, I should believe that the future is beautiful.

First of all, there is a sense of responsibility.

After all, there are old and young adults.

They are the people who can't just say they give up.

And money is something outside of the body.

There is no more to earn.

Secondly, you can consider the simplest part-time job.

Steady part-time job.

Now I work part-time, 7-80,000 yuan a year, which is very good.

Have a plan for the future.

Plus work your own.

Repay the loan slowly. Finally, if you don't have enough funds, background, ability, and connections.

You need to be cautious and cautious when starting a business.

Don't blindly follow the herd.

Discernment cannot be taught to you.

Rather, it relies on one's own experience and understanding.