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Who you meet in life is determined by fate; Who can stay, only a small part is up to you, so some emotional things are really not something you can plan and anticipate, the more complicated you think, the more tangled you will be,, so the best state for you, is not to think too much and force, just be at ease, I believe that if it is destined, it will happen later.
To put it bluntly, it is precisely because you don't have the ability to predict the final chapter of your life and see who the person who has been with you for a long time is; You don't have the ability to read minds, see each other's minds and what to do next, so you are always very glassy, too sensitive in your heart, and think too much about the bad side of everything, and sit in the right seat, which tires you.
Seeing that others have neglected you for a while, you are cranky because you care too much, and even can't sleep at all, worrying that the other party doesn't care about you anymore, and there is no difference between love and friendship with each other; Seeing that others just don't respond enthusiastically enough to your performance, you feel that you have done something wrong, and you are worried that you will be disappointed in the end, and in the end you will not be able to keep the relationship that you have cherished so hard.
However, you have to understand that in a relationship, hard work is important, but fate comes before everything.
Therefore, some people are obviously crazy to pursue or silently take care of each other for years, but in the end they are also defeated by a new human who has only known each other for a few months and met several times; So some people all over the world thought that they would grow old, but they didn't know that they would be separated in a blink of an eye, but some people were not optimistic about anyone at first, but they walked and walked for a lifetime.
You need to know that you didn't think about running into each other but you did; I didn't want to fall in love with each other, but I fell in love; I didn't think that you would develop like this later, but it did, and all of this was different from what you had expected.
Therefore, it is good to care, but sometimes even if you care about what you can turn around by 2046, then it is better to go with the flow and look at everything after working hard and cherishing it.
There are some entanglements, the origin is not that the problem is complicated, but that you think too much, and the more you think about it, the more distressed and tired you become, and if you don't want it, you suddenly become enlightened.
I once read a sentence: If you are often depressed, then you are living in the past; If you are constantly nervous and anxious, then you are living in the future; If you're always in stride, you're living in the moment. 」
Why live in the troubles of the past and the unrest of the future? Living well in the present and living well according to one's own principles is the best way to revise the past and establish the future.
In the end, if the other party is really the right person, of course, thank the heavens and thank the ancestors, but if it is the wrong person, you can also understand some truths from it, keep the stone that hurt you, and absorb it from the mistake.
Remember, every distance in life has its meaning, and whoever enters your life has its cause; Whoever leaves you will have a better reason behind it, and you just have to live your life for now. Don't think too far into the future now, just lay the foundation now and take care of yourself, and the days to come will gradually get better.
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Yes, I don't care, why bother.
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What's tangled in this, it's a very simple question, love, just love well, and pull it down if you don't love.
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I think maybe some people just blurt out some words, maybe they don't mean anything else, so it's better to understand each other in a Taiwanese way.
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This is the same as what you said, she is still struggling with whether to love you or not, in fact, he has more or less a feeling for you in his heart, but he thinks that it is not yet time to really love you. Or when you can't really show love, in this case, he will naturally make such an answer, and you are also very entangled, and you scold him too. A certain idea will raise this question, in fact, everything is a matter of fate, if you decide to do it, tangled, but there is still a lot of uncertainty implied.
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First of all, if you have a good impression of someone else, just chase it, it has little to do with whether he is interesting to you, of course, if you are a person who wants others to fall in love with you first, and then fall in love with others, that is, a more passive person, please continue to be passive.
Secondly, if you don't have a good impression of someone else, don't pay attention to it, it doesn't matter if he is interesting to you or not, because whether you like you or not, that's people's freedom, as long as it doesn't affect your personal life. If you are guessing now, it is better to ask directly, if you want to seize the opportunity, then grasp it, if you don't want to, then ignore it, why bother to do useless entanglement and pondering.
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It's very tangled, saying that I don't know what to do, I don't know whether it's right or wrong. Nervous meaning.
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I didn't get tangled! I said I don't want him, I don't want him! It's not angry talk! Because I'm going to be with him! Our whole family hates him, and their whole family hates me, and they all don't like each other!
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Dwelling on it doesn't solve anything, it just adds to the troubles. I learned to be silent and slowly adapted! I also learned to only share happiness, and let myself resist when I was troubled!
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I got sick and went to work. It's a matter of course. What is tangled.
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Nope! Tangled with what? It's just a matter of adjusting your mentality!
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