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Don't care what your family thinks, the most important thing is to be happy and happy.
After all, it's up to you to take the road on your own, so you have to think clearly.
If you love him, face it bravely.
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As long as a man is ambitious, it means that he will succeed, if there is no dedication, you don't want this kind of man, if you are really the kind of person who is not willing to accept a little suffering, I suggest you still find a big money, after all, only big money will have temporary happiness, but there are too few sincere people in the big money, in a word, it depends on what kind of life you want, if you just need to solve the problem of food and clothing, then it is worth finding a career-minded man to enjoy the hard work of entrepreneurship with him, Love without wind and waves is not necessarily perfect!
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All of the above is very good, you must have understood!
In fact, it is not difficult to feel that you have the answer to this question, but you are not firm and you need others to give you support and understanding!
I would like to give you a word: choose it carefully, and abandon it more carefully! I experienced it myself!
Seek, seek, maybe what you have is the best!
Wishing you happiness!
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I feel the same way about your question.
But I think we have the ability to make ourselves rich 1
If you want to be rich, you don't have to work, it's easier to make money in business.
You can also postpone your marriage.
He wants to marry you as soon as possible, but he is afraid of losing you.
You should be happy because it's not easy to find someone who is really good to you.
So don't give up easily, and don't be afraid, he says he's going to buy a house, and you can just tell him.
Wait until we have enough money to buy a house and get married.
He will be very stressed now, so you should encourage him, men are most likely to feel that they are useless, and they can't take good care of their wives, but if you give up on him, it will be really difficult for you to meet such a person who really cares for you again.
Whether he earns money to buy a house, or receives money to buy a house, he just wants to give you a home, I'm afraid that you will be wronged, there is a person in this world, you are so good, ask yourself, what else do you want, I wish you happiness! ~
If you and I are not in the same city, I can tell you some experience in doing business, and in the end, I sincerely wish you 1
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Category: Annoyances >> in love.
Problem description: I have a classmate, she loves him, he doesn't love her very much, he just likes her very much, but that day she almost lost her life for him, he said to her: You marry me! Let's get married!
But she told him that I love you, but it doesn't mean that I want to marry you, and if I want to marry, I have to marry someone who loves me?
Is it necessary to choose a husband who loves him?
Analysis: Loving him but not the same as marrying him.
When you want to taste the taste of love, you can find a person you love to talk about, you can find that unforgettable love, but when you want to marry someone, I think it is to marry someone who loves you, marrying someone is to want to be happy, only those who love themselves will give themselves happiness, and then the relationship can be slowly cultivated, since you marry a person, you will also fall in love with him in the days you get along.
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Third, since the result is already doomed, you must learn to turn around in style so that you can have your own life. Obviously, you already have the answer in your heart, you can't marry your boyfriend no matter what, so why bother not to forget. Life is short, and if you have been struggling with the wrong relationship and will only miss the scenery along the way, the only thing you can do is to work hard to improve yourself and chase your dreams, so that you can have a new life.
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The relationship between love and love can definitely be very heart-wrenching, just like my girlfriend and I, who obviously love each other very much, but we were opposed by our parents, and we had no choice but to break up.
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I must be very disappointed in my heart, I like a person and I want to be with each other, but I can't be together for various reasons, and I will definitely feel very helpless.
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This feeling can be said to be very depressing, I love each other very much and can't marry each other, I have a feeling of pain and struggle in my heart, and I feel that I am really too sad.
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Loving him but not being able to marry him is actually a very helpless and painful experience, because you love him and want to live with him, but you can't.
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It was a feeling of extreme heartache. I love each other, but I can't stay with each other for a long time, which is the most painful thing.
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It would be a very disappointing feeling. He clearly loves him, but he doesn't love himself, so even if he marries him, he won't be happy.
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It would be a particularly painful feeling. After all, I love someone so much and give my heart to each other, but I can't marry him, but I can't be together for a long time.
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This kind of person is nothing more than two kinds of knots, and the first ending is that he is too blind, and he is unfortunate at all, because he sees the wrong person. The second ending is of course a happy ending, but most people are the first to sue the first ending.
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Most people really marry love in the end, but after marrying love, they are not happy.
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Some people live happily, some people live very poorly, everything is multifaceted, there is nothing wrong with marrying a sullen love and a chaotic relationship, but love needs to be built on a material basis.
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Those who shouted that Li Qin wanted to marry love, some found true love and were happy. Some of them missed the person who suited them, and finally chose to make do with the first model. And some are still single until now and still believe in true love.
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Chinese history has changed for thousands of years, and most of the time there has been no love in marriage. There seem to be only a few touching love stories such as Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying. For a long time, many women did not know who the person they were with for life until the moment when the red hijab was lifted by a strange man.
Now that is certainly not going to happen. From the city to the countryside, a vigorous Chinese women's liberation movement lasted decades and finally achieved fruitful results: the foundation of China's family formation has been firmly established on love (except for some ulterior motives of trading marriages), it is not uncommon for two people to enter the marriage hall because of love, it is lamentable that many people who have love are shy away from marriage, which is reflected in women, which can be summed up in one sentence:
I love you, but I don't want to marry you. Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and the reasons for this situation can be traced back thousands of years, and the lower can touch the day of reality. Men in feudal society can have three wives and four concubines, which has always been an eternal scar in the history of women's development, and now when women finally have a choice, they also begin to have the right to doubt men:
Can it be entrusted for life? Will there be a change of heart? Will you ever fall in love with another woman?
As a result, they found that this suspicion also stemmed from their dependence on men, and it was these women who disdained to rely on men who formed a group of marriage-fearing people who did not want to gamble on themselves, believing that "fate is like this" and "fate is just like this". In the new millennium, the rise (awakening) of a group of "beautiful writers" has led this trend to become bigger and bigger, and some trendy women regard them as idols. Their attitude towards love is like a cloudy and uncertain weather.
Not to mention marriage. Their discoveries and understandings of themselves will surely have a profound impact on the formation of the future family: love vigorously, marry cowardly and cowardly.
Love him, you can marry him or not. Of course, it's your choice.
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It doesn't have to be up to him to see if he loves you or not.
If he loves you a little more.
Then you can consider marrying him.
If not. Don't get married.
Otherwise, he will have a lot of splits).
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You see what you said, but there is nothing substantial. I would like to ask you a few more questions, and I hope it can help you a little bit in the exchange.
First, do you know him well enough?
Second, what was his motivation for change in the past six months or in the past few years? What is the motivation?
Third, why is he in a hurry to marry you?
Fourth, do you understand his job, the difference between his job and that of a civil servant in a state-owned enterprise, and the difference in ability and effort required between the two?
Fifth, with all due respect, you're sensitive to numbers, but what kind of book did he publish?
Sixth, as you said, when he was in the Bureau of Statistics, he was very satisfied, why was he satisfied? And why did that change?
Seventh, you have quarreled to the point of falling out, or even breaking up. Excuse me, who brought up the breakup? If it were you, was the breakup a coercion at the time, or did you really give up?
Eighth, with all due respect, liking a better material life is a completely normal pursuit, and there is no need to avoid it. So, did you force him to find a better job for a better material life, or did you want him to get ahead because you knew what he was capable of?
The above questions definitely don't mean to ask you, but you don't know how clearly you said in the question, if you can come out, the question of whether to marry or not will be basically solved. To persuade your parents, you just need two arguments, the first is work, and the second is your feelings, the former can be debated openly, even if it can't be sophistry, but the latter, it's better to figure it out. Marriage is such a thing, you want me to be willing, and the most important thing is to have love.
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To love him, you should first understand him, character, education, work, and conditions, and then choose to marry him.
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Love that goes both ways is rare, and if you are both willing to get married, you can get married
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Okay, please provide the material, otherwise no one will be able to help you.
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