I only have a vague idea of what life should be like, and how it should be

Communicate with each other and spend more time together.

The post-80s generation is me, my life is very regular, my job is stable, I am married and have children, I have nothing to play ball, listen to Luo Dayou, Alan Tam's songs, my younger brother is a post-90s generation, his life is not so regular, playing games, girlfriends have changed one after another, fortunately, I was admitted to university, and I like to listen to Jay Chou's songs.

There are many differences, adopt oh thank you.

You are sure that you will leave him, but how to leave, do not leave without getting anything, and suffer such a sin in vain.

In your current situation, seek legal assistance, collect more evidence, and divide more things in the divorce, the children cannot be happy with them, and it is impossible for them to receive a good education, so you might as well bring it yourself.

I'm also a girl, I can understand my husband's bad feelings for me, it's not interesting to go on like this, after all, I'm still young, let's find new happiness from scratch. But don't retaliate in a way other than the law, you still have a better life waiting for you, why be so stupid and impulsive for those lazy people.

Hey, long pain is better than short pain, now since you have a child, you have to focus on the child, think more about him, all women will not know what to do if they encounter you, you don't love him and leave him, you can't be with him for the sake of the child, now the child doesn't understand, but he will be very painful when he is sensible, and then find a lover to marry.

I think you should exercise yourself, don't warm your heart, and don't spoil the child too much, you can't scare him, and you can't always think about revenge, you should let them take their own initiative to be punished, God may not let him go, although I am too young to take care of it, you can find more people to help you, I believe they will regret doing that to you, please collect all the evidence and then sue the court, it must be complete.

You will make a comprehensive report to your parents about the situation after you get married, ask for their opinions, what to do, according to the situation you introduced, your husband, lazy, and beat his wife, such a family, in the confinement still let you squeeze the bus, do not take good care of the daughter-in-law in the confinement, really not good, will not be good in the future, such as no children, not to mention, divorce, having children is different, so I said to discuss a good way with your parents, The principle of this method is not to let the child live without a mother, or live separately first, and they will pay for the living expenses, and you will take the child to live in the mother's house, in short, in the case of considering the child, come up with a way. The important thing here is that you can't be soft, don't be honest, and don't care about face, otherwise, you will suffer for the rest of your life. Have fun!

Look, collect all the evidence and all the pain that his family has caused you, and then go through the legal way to solve the problem, don't be stupid and say how about revenge, you have your own relatives and children, and the people who still love you, you have to think about those who love you, and your soft-heartedness will not be rewarded as it should be, and there will only be their punishment for you, you know, if your husband and his family were really kind people, there would not be the sad things you described!

Find a suitable time and place, talk to your husband seriously, tell him all your suffering, remember, you must be serious, for the sake of your children, you can't play with children's temper at every turn, so that others can only despise themselves.

1. Find a women's federation to divorce 2 Find a police divorce 3 Take a child divorce and go to live your own life, even if it is difficult and hard, but you don't need to be angry and don't need to worry about it Just for the children and yourself If the children don't let you take them away Or a word, you go by yourself One day you have the ability to take the child back A mother who has children as a belief will have a strong perseverance So you will succeed Maybe you will meet the right person Now my opinion is Resist it Shouldn't life do something for yourself that can be done? I should call you big sister at my age, so bless you.

You're still too young, you still have a long way to go, don't think about revenge. When there is no continuation, there will be chaos after that! Solve this problem while you are young.

The child is the meat that fell from his own body, so let's solve it through normal legal channels! Be sure to strengthen your confidence and solve things strongly!

A man who really loves you won't care if you have children or not.

You're still very young, maybe you'll still have your love. Why not get out of your life circle.

Change the living environment. Live for yourself, who said that without a man, you can't take care of your children?

Either get divorced, and if you go on like this, neither you nor your children will be happy. Parents force you not to care. You also have personal freedom, take the child with you, the farther the better!!

An ill-fated woman, a conceited and paranoid man, a marriage without dignity, a depressed and depressed life! So that you don't see hope, and you don't know the end! Very sympathetic, but that's not what you want.

You want to change, and you have to change! A woman with a pure nature shouldn't be the end now! But who can really help you?

Maybe the only one who can help you the most is yourself! I can help you alleviate the boredom in your heart, but the difficulties of life still require you to make the right choice and make up your mind! If you have any questions, you can send them again!

I'm just a kid, so I don't have to take it too seriously. I think if it's too painful, it's better to give up, people's lives can be short or long, happy or sad, whether to live happily or in the chaos of the nightmares, you have to choose, really to implement it, choose what you want, I think this should be the ......... lifeThere may be many things that are not allowed in the heart and reality, but people should learn to make trade-offs and learn to give up in order to get something more important. Even though I'm just a twenty-year-old, that's what I think.

Marriage is like that. If you choose, you can only go on. Let's talk to each other.

Divide it, it's too hard to be together like this. Everyone wants to find a girl who tolerates them.

Such a marriage is not married.

Be strong, there is no hurdle that you can't get over.

There are always too many troubles in life, as well as countless feelings and sorrows. We are accustomed to dwelling in the past, repeating the sad or regretful things all the time - dwelling on the regrets and helplessness of the past, or engaging in a complete reflection, but personally, facing setbacks in this silent way, I think, at least I think: it is a bit futile.

Why dwell on the past? Maybe you have also thought about escaping, and you have also thought about having eternal glory, probably because of the responsibility in your heart, that kind heart has always inspired us to climb up. The expectations of parents and relatives, the encouragement of friends, and their own hearts that do not accept old age, they have been reminding:

Don't give up. But today, we're still running away! I would like to say:

Step out of the past, face reality, and, in a positive way, be positive! --Reflect. Don't be silent anymore, and don't linger on the past anymore.

The past", for us can only be used to look back. feet, stepping on the road of "now"; the heart, the days of the "past" escape back to the "present"; Your eyes will look for the mistakes you have made in the past years and correct them with your own hands. Reflection is to find self-confidence from the past, rather than blindly staying in the pain of the past.

Sometimes, be a little more open-minded, go with the flow, and live positively – with a fresh perspective.

The above comrades are very good! The first thing you need to do now is to build confidence, set the right mentality, do ordinary things with a normal heart, and believe in yourself! Rekindle the hope of life from scratch, always keep in mind:

I can do it! What others have done, I can do, maybe I can do better? Be kind to yourself and be kind to life!

We must learn to be grateful and learn to be kind to life. Life is like a mirror, you smile at him, he laughs at you, you cry at him, he cries at you. Be confident, believe in yourself, and believe that you are a strong person in life!

No one in the world can defeat you, only you can defeat you! As long as you believe that you can do it, no one can defeat you! There is hope, hope is life, and life is hope.

Life is like a young eagle waiting to be fed, and being kind to life is to take care of it, so that he will eventually become an eagle soaring in the sky; Life is like nature, and being kind to life is like protecting it, only in this way can he give us a healthy and beautiful environment. Therefore, do not give up on life, have faith in him, be hopeful, and only then will it smile at you. We must learn to be tolerant, look at everything in the world correctly, encounter difficulties and setbacks, learn to be flexible, learn to empathize, and many problems will be solved!

It will suddenly be enlightened!

Helen Keller, a well-known American deaf-blind female writer and educator, not only learned to speak multiple languages after losing her hearing, sight and voice, but also published 14 works. Mark Twain once said: Napoleon and Helen Keller are two of the most outstanding figures of the 19th century.

Helen Keller can achieve what she is today because she did not give up hope in life, she is the one who smiles at the mirror, so the mirror gives her back a smile. If, on the contrary, she gives up on herself and loses hope in life, then we have one less person today who is respected by the people.

Hugo said: You should believe that you are a strong person in life. Therefore, one of the necessary conditions for being kind to life is to be confident and believe in yourself.

Augst also said: In real life, every great undertaking has the confidence to start and the confidence to take the first step. This shows the importance of faith.

If there is no Zinner's self-confidence, then the ** of smallpox, how many years will it have to be postponed, and how many innocent people will die from this disease. Without Morse's self-confidence, how many years would the telegraph have to be delayed before it was invented? If there is no Bohr's self-confidence, then how many years later the discovery of quantum theory will bring much damage to mankind.

If they don't have self-confidence, how can they puff up the sails of life, how can they reach the other side of glory?

Hope the above explanation can be helpful to you! I wish you an early victory over yourself and a happy life every day!!

Remember, life should be self-reliant, as long as you are determined to change yourself, you will become full of energy, and have the strength and confidence to constantly improve yourself and create the life you really want.

Actually, don't you think it's because you care too much about too many things? If you can, why not live for yourself?

Happiness depends on the individual's mentality, and if the mentality is right, it will be fine. I love the night because it makes my eyes shine brighter, and you are afraid of the dark because it makes you feel hollow!

Everything in the world has its two opposite poles, as long as you look at the good poles, your state of mind will naturally not live on that empty side!

You are too nervous, no matter what you do, you should ask yourself if you want to do it, and whether you are willing to do it; However, your mind is not at all about what you are doing now, your mind is free, so you feel that everything is illusory.

To get out of the predicament, you need to experience it with your heart, let go of your inner anxiety, and let go of your guard. It's already like this anyway, can it be worse?

Make a good plan and act on the plan.

Go to bed early – wake up early – learn what you love – connect with classmates.

There are goals. Struggle.

Keep your life busy.

Is there a missing goal? Or do you need a reason?

Significance. An empty concept.

Who is it for? As soon as a person carries something in his heart, he will become steady, just like a person walking a high-altitude tightrope, he needs to grasp a heavy iron rod in his hand in order to maintain the balance of his body and go to the other end. In this life, it is roughly the same, many people give themselves a burden (goal, ideal, person or object), under this burden, they can live peacefully day by day.

Even if it is an impossible fantasy, as long as you believe it, you can live happily.

I'm afraid, I don't have such a thing in my heart, my heart is empty, and I don't even have a reason to look for it.

Since you were a child, in your heart (because of your growth environment), you don't have to worry about others, so you can't live for "others", and you can't live for "material"!

But can you handle it yourself? - Leave home, your own food, clothing, shelter and transportation.

Be independent, so you can understand what you need to do.

Friend, I want to tell you after reading your experience, happy life, don't be too yourself, people can never do the best, but you can do very well, I believe you can spend every day happily, I wish you a happy day.