There is a complex, as if a person will like the person who saved him, what is that complex?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    That's gratitude. It became a love affair again.

    When he saves you, you must be in danger, and at this time, people's feelings and psychology are the most vulnerable, when a person stands up for you, then he will form an extremely tall image in your mind, because at that time in your eyes there are only two of you in this world. You will naturally imprint him firmly in your heart, and his good image will be preconceived, that is, you wear colored glasses and look at people **, so before you know it, no one can compare with him, so you fall in love with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The plot of repaying the favor ......Because people can fall into a feeling of helplessness and despair in times of crisis, the person who can rescue you and get you out of this frightening, unbearable feeling will make you feel that all the beauty of this world is because of him.

    In fact, it's just a ...... caused by too much emotional contrastIt is commonly seen in the ...... of young women whose outlook on life, worldview, and values are not yet mature

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is a physiological response, the worship and obedience of the strong. It's something in the genes. If you are concerned or confused, you can talk to a counselor.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Feelings of gratitude develop into love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You saved her first and foremost a gratitude.

    If she was in danger, she might have a kind of worship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When a person appears in the form of light in my low period, even a glance is engraved in my heart, and after I really experience it, I will find that it is the continuous improvement of his image in my heart that is close to perfection little by little.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's pleasing to the eye. And the people are good! It's the type you like! So there is an inexplicable feeling for him!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Heroes save beauty, repay kindness, and promise ...... each other in their livesHa ha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He cares too much about you, and he slowly fell into it without paying attention at first, and one day he suddenly realized that there was a problem, which was not right, and he was afraid and deliberately avoided it, but at the same time or after that, he really couldn't control it, so he presented this contradictory situation. He loves you deeply, and he doesn't dare to love you, but he can't help but love you. He may be most troubled by this matter every day, telling himself not to contact you every day, cutting off all possible communication, and even showing his disgust for you, and after that, he secretly looks at you, secretly looks for the subtle connections and coincidences that accumulate with you, and then rejoices and excites because of some of your behaviors, of course, it must also cover up, because you are too close to other boys or girls and resents you, so that they hate you a little, love and hate.

    Since you can see what these may mean, you make your own choice, not after a long time, not after a lot of things, he will not let go of himself, even if he has been separated for many years after graduation, he will still treat you contradictory, even if he has little contact with you, he doesn't dare, he is deliberately avoiding, trying to make himself normal, but on important days, he will not forget to greet you, like an ordinary friend, send two cliché words, but every reply from you makes his heart tremble, He will be excited to get along with any opportunity you have, and no matter what he does, it will have a different meaning to him, because it is you. I don't know how long it will take for him to really forget about you, maybe until the next person he loves so much when he has a chance to get along. Scorpio's crush is a bit scary, regardless of the opposite sex and the same sex, there is a lot of inner drama, of course, it will behave strangely.

    You can only analyze, don't know how to solve it, look at yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    15 manifestations of a Scorpio's deep love for someone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He may realize that he is gay, and then he doesn't believe it, but he feels like your ambivalence. Scorpio is also a human being, but when he likes each other, he is very possessive, and the whole is very arrogant, hot and cold, but he just wants the other party to pay attention to himself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Same-sex rejection is not illegal, but it will be despised by society, so please be cautious.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    So you're a girl.

    It may be his temptation to hold on to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have a friend and I ...... to her tooI'm also a Pisces Scorpio, and every time I look behind her, she looks at me every time, always looking at her, and when I do the other side of her, I can see her looking at me with my peripheral vision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think so, because such a person is more feudal and narrow-minded in his heart, and it is very difficult for him to pass this hurdle.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, love is a strange thing, and you can't guarantee that the person you love is what you think it is. If you can't even do this, it means that the man doesn't really love the woman.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hardly!

    Because, this kind of person is narrow-minded, and the basis of his love is that "membrane", without the "membrane", there is less love, or even no love!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It varies from person to person, and this is something that only he knows about, so you can interview him sideways.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Such people are somewhat narrow-minded and cautious in getting along with each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're normal. Because of the lack of love when I was a child, it will be like this. In fact, he also likes you and will treat you as a son.

    But don't say it, it's good to be like this now, care about each other, and leave room for it to last. If it is broken, I don't know if his daughter will object. Even if she doesn't object, after all, you have no blood relationship, and there is no parenting relationship, and if you recognize the father-son relationship, you are afraid that you will have more expectations of each other, and once you can't meet it, you will be disappointed, which will affect the relationship.

    So it's better to maintain the status quo.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is quite normal.

    If you want an elderly person who has a father's appointment.

    Even if you can't call Father.

    But you can still treat him as a father.

    If you have anything to ask him.

    You can also talk to him.

    It's like a daughter to a father.

    You're good words.

    He would also like to have such a daughter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This kind of relationship doesn't have to be clear or asked, you just blindly treat him well, treat him as a father, if he can treat you like his own son, then what's the difference between saying and not saying, there are many things that don't have to be said.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Simple, directly recognize him as a godfather! Discuss it with him, he can't bear to reject you directly anyway, right?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you're a woman, it's okay to recognize your godfather, don't fall in love with him! First of all, you can understand his feelings for you, if he treats you as a child but as a woman, then you will be miserable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is normal, people will have feelings together. After all, it's all human. If you are a good person, you can cherish it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's nothing! It's good to be able to turn a friend into an invisible family relationship.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That's not called a father-lover complex, it's a lack of fatherly love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The Aries guy likes to be active and aggressive when it comes to being alone. Aries men are the most macho of the zodiac, they have their own ideas, they don't want others to interfere in their work or life, they are independent, they are not rejected, they love freedom, and they don't like to be tied down.

    They don't know how to be tactful, they are always very impulsive when they talk and do things, they don't think through their brains, and they often offend people before they realize it. Aries men are born child kings, they are honest and honest, and it is obvious that they like a personThey like to go straight to the point, they don't like to beat around the bush, they like it, they don't like it, they don't like itand they will tell you in the simplest and most direct way: I like you!

    When an Aries man likes a girl, he will often appear by the girl's side, wanting to hold all the best things to her, which is very good for the girl. And the Aries man is a boy with a heroism complex, hoping to become a hero, help the girl he likes, solve all the problems around him, and save the princess in distress. At the same time, the Aries man is an opinionated person, who wants to do what he wants, and often does not estimate whether the girl needs it or not, whether he likes it, in short, they will show their emotions impulsively, so that you can directly and irresistibly bear their strong feelings. If you are in love with an Aries, then don't take the initiative to take a liking to him until you're sure he's in love with you. For the son of Mars, there is nothing more interesting in the world than to challenge and conquer.

    Wouldn't it be too boring for you to take the initiative? For Aries, it is necessary to observe and observe.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Aries likes a person who will take the initiative to interact with each other, care about each other's every move, and look for opportunities to talk to each other.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Aries likes someone and will often giggle at that person to make people look weird.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Aries guys, after they like someone, they will become very proactive, very aggressive, as if they have changed people.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    An Aries man likes a man, and he will. Go deliberately. Chat with him. Hope to get his attention.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think the Aries man, he will never hide it, he will tell you in simple and straightforward language that he likes you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Aries guys like to be alone. will silently pay for him and guard himself like jade.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In my opinion, Aries likes a person among the zodiac signs and does not show much on the surface, but hides it all in their hearts.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Normal, this shows that after a girl falls in love with a man, she does not allow a man to like other people, so he will be jealous of a man's sweetheart, which is a normal manifestation of jealousy between real girls, and there is no need to go to these things.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The girl meets danger and likes this guy. Because a boy has a sweetheart, he must not abandon him. It should be normal for this girl to be jealous of him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you're still in danger and you're saved by a man, and the girl is slowly falling in love with the boy. This boy has his own sweetheart. So this girl doesn't have to hate her.

    Because people already liked someone else before you. Now I can't see that you like her now, and people will turn back and like you again. You're thinking differently like this, and that's a good thing for the South.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is same-sex repulsion, opposites attract, I think because he likes your man, so he will hate you, and I think this problem is actually such a very bland problem.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because this girl felt that her beloved man was snatched away by others, obviously this man saved herself, and she liked this man very much, but this man was snatched away by another girl, and she hated it very much in her heart.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This kind of thing is actually a girl army, you are the third party, and don't turn yourself into a heavy pupil's girlfriend or his wife, so don't resent others just because you have no fate.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I can't understand this kind of thing, girls like boys, but they don't hate their sweethearts.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Feelings are possessive. The grace of saving lives will make people rely on this affection from the bottom of their hearts. But it really shouldn't meddle in other people's feelings.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This is a very normal kind of gratitude and heroic feelings for girls, and if they don't get it, they will be jealous, and then they will have hatred for men's sweethearts. It's human nature.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This is the plot of **. Such an amazing reality is also there. The girl hates because of love, and it is his sweetheart who he hates, and it is too much for his sweetheart to provoke whom.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It shows that this kind of girl is still more extreme, and it's too casual to like a person, there are some hero complexes, whoever saves her, she likes whomever she likes. But no matter what, you still have to repay your kindness, just like it silently, there is no need to hate other people's girlfriends, other people's girlfriends are innocent, and it's better to stay away from such girls.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This is because of love and hate, she was originally very grateful to this boy, and it turned into a kind of love, but it turned out that he had a sweetheart.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This kind of thinking is wrong, saving her does not mean that you will definitely like her, and don't be reluctant to embarrass her feelings.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This is the resentment in the heart of this Huaichun girl, I like you, but you don't like me, this is not scientific, and it shouldn't be!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    A girl is in danger and is rescued by a man, and the person a girl likes is this man, but this man also has an image person, so she shouldn't hate him.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Because the girl felt that there was nothing wrong with the person she liked, and everything that was wrong was someone else's, she hated the people around him......

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In this way, the woman is not doing it right, our family has a sweetheart, so don't bother others, just give up.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Girls generally like heroes very much, and if you are with him, she will treat you as a hero, and she will think that she has nothing to reciprocate, so she can only promise each other with her body.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Well, although this one is a bit like a ** plot, it can also happen in real life. It's really helpless, the boy may just save people out of the simple idea of saving people, but he was liked by the girl, and his girlfriend was still hated. I feel like if the boy found out, he might not have saved the girl.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Because the girl thinks that the man may be her hero. When he heard that the boy had it, his wife would definitely be sad.

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