Are love and marriage really different, and is there a difference between love and marriage?

Love is beautiful, marriage is realistic, and marriage is managed.

Love is to see each other's strengths, and marriage is to see each other's shortcomings.

Love is short-lived, and marriage is a lifelong thing.

Love is illusory, marriage is real.

Love is a process in which two people get to know each other, and feelings increase day by day in the process of dating. Mutual respect, understanding, care, love, considerateness, give each other space, understand each other's character, family, living habits, behavior, values, etc., love is not clear, you must find someone you love, and at the same time find someone who loves yourself, otherwise you are trading with love and feelings, and the result will be sad in the end, just a matter of time sooner or later.

Calmly think about your real needs, make the right decision, see if the other party is the most suitable grape for yourself on the road of life, there are many grapes behind, think clearly, the relationship that is not suitable for it, end it early, and be good for yourself and each other!

I'm sure you'll take care of it!

Happy everyday!

If you want to get married, you must be realistic, and feelings can be cultivated, but people who don't have the ability to make money, even if they have feelings, the hardships of life in the future will hone the feelings of two people, and they will regret it. The most basic conditions must be there, and they must be remembered! ~

Older women marry to find something to rely on.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you have to face such a person for a lifetime, what kind of talent do you think you need to find it?

In short, it depends on yourself, whether you pursue material supremacy or emotional supremacy depends on how you find a balance.

It's realistic. Love is love, it's romantic, it doesn't need to think about life.

And marriage, it is closely linked to firewood, rice, oil and salt.

It is a reflection of life.

Can they be the same?

Marriage is just a continuation of love, the natural kind When the feeling of "love" invades the bottom of the heart, the pain has quietly followed In Being loved is happiness Loving others is sweet

It's like there's something delicious in front of you

Some people say it's delicious, some people say it's not delicious

But how, exactly? Hehe, if you don't taste it, how do you know if it's to your taste?

The same is true of love, as long as you have tried, you will know the bitterness and sweetness At least we have cried for love and laughed for love

What else is there to say? Let's take a moment to understand the mystery

The biggest difference between falling in love and getting married is that a person's life is not made up of two people, they are interdependent. Perhaps, everyone will feel that indescribable happiness after marrying their beloved.

I am no exception, I have a very good friend named Wang Xiaoli. She was very pretty, with a red face and big eyes, and she was a very good girl, with a round face, and she smiled very charmingly. Her parents cared about her very much, and her parents often took her out to play, and that's how she became a good friend of mine.

When we played with Yihong, we talked and laughed, and we were very happy. One day, I went to the park with her to play, we walked to the gate of the park, and saw a couple of newlyweds taking wedding photos, we couldn't help but stop, standing there and watching, when I saw that the couple was taking wedding photos, she had a sense of envy, so I asked her: "Xiaoli, do you envy this couple?"

She shook her head, and I knew that she was envious of the beauty of the couple, and she said, "Envy, envy, envy."

Love and marriage are not equal, love is not the same as marriage, and marriage is not the same as love. Because the two parties in love and the two parties in marriage are not only different in their feelings, but also in their relationships and psychology.

First of all, the two parties in love are not related by blood, that is, two strangers of the opposite sex are attracted to each other, so the love will be very warm. Both parties in love have never been in contact, and their hearts are mostly "curious", not only about their love life, but also about each other's personality and emotions.

Compared with love, marriage is to determine the blood relationship between the two. From two strangers to building a family, and then to reproducing, in fact, love has become family affection, which is an emotional progression, and it is also a kind of birth of a sense of marital responsibility.

Not only that, but the parties to the marriage have long been no longer curious, but support each other to live an ordinary life, less intense when in love, less impulsive in love. Being in a relationship is like tasting a cup of tea, it is very bitter when you first drink it, and you have to go through the tempering of life, but when you drink it again, it is very sweet, because it is sweet in the middle of love, and it is "light" in the end, and this "light" is a symbol of marriage.

What is the biggest difference between love and marriage? It is the change in the relationship between the two parties, as well as the change in the inner emotions. But in any case, this kind of change is an inevitability, and it is a classic mode of getting along with people.

If there is heat, there will naturally be cold, and if there is taste, there will naturally be light, which is a kind of life and the normal state of marriage.

Love comes naturally, and its roots are sexual attraction, which is a human instinct. When you are in love, do everything willingly, because you do everything for yourself to have each other.

But marriage is different, marriage is a social attribute, its purpose is not for itself, its fundamental purpose is to serve the society, in order to make the society more stable, and to provide a stable labor force - with marriage, there is a family, and with a family, there is a series of responsibilities.

Love is for yourself; Marriage is for the sake of society. It's okay to be selfish for yourself, but for the sake of society, you need noble qualities.

Therefore, in love, the most important thing is sexual attraction, and it is good to attract each other. And marriage, the most important thing is character. If two people in a marriage don't know how to dedicate and don't know how to think about each other, this marriage can be good, then it's really hell.

Marriage has nothing to do with love, and in the long history of human civilization for thousands of years, love and marriage have nothing to do with each other, both at home and abroad. "Married to love", many people fall in love, and one of the most asked questions is "do you really love me", as long as they love each other, people are worried that the other party will leave them, this uncertainty is maddening, but it is also the beauty of love.

But after getting married, people feel that they finally have security, and they are finally certain, and they don't have to be afraid or deliberately disguised. But as soon as it was fixed, the real problem came again.

It's like when you set up your own stall to do business, sometimes you earn 1000 a day, sometimes you earn 200 a day, it's unstable, you feel insecure. You think, hey, if any company could give me 20,000 yuan a month and sign a lifetime contract, how nice it would be.

When you really sign a lifetime contract, 20,000 yuan a month, and pay in advance, after working for a period of time, you don't want to do it.

Marriage is the continuation of love, and it is also the carrier of mutual trust and responsibility between two people.

Love: Two men and women who don't know each other, from the first acquaintance to the acquaintance and love, is a process of contact and understanding. Men and women in love, affected by the brain's turbulent chemical monoamine, have a feeling of dependence and love for the opposite sex, and are crazy.

Marriage: Two people who love each other come into contact at a certain time, both parties are attached to each other, hoping to build a family and have a world for two. Through marriage, one party shows the commitment and responsibility of one party to the other party.

Men and women in love care very much about their inner feelings. Called by love, I don't see you for a day, like every three autumns. In love, there will be gains and losses, because they don't fully own each other, there is a desire in their hearts to continue to work hard to perform, as long as they still love this person, his heart for her will never let go.

And married men and women, in addition to male and female love, have more sense of responsibility for the family. The life of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day is closer to the life of the two people, in order to live a more long-term and orderly life, the two must be careful to calculate, and the relationship between the two is slowly close to the plain, and the ordinary is the truth, which is the true meaning of marriage.

Men and women in love are in the process of getting to know each other. In this process, if one party loses the feeling of love for the other party, feels that the personality of both parties is not suitable, the door is not right, etc., they can freely decide to break up, there is no dispute in the economy, and there is no legal constraint.

With a paper marriage. The law restricts two people to be monogamous, and it is not allowed to renew bigamy when there is a husband and a wife. Morality also restricts the two people, loyalty to each other, from the beginning, and the economy also limits the common enjoyment when they are together, and they need to be shared together when they are not together.