At the age of 25, there is a lot of pressure to marry!

Updated on society 2024-07-20
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I'm in the same situation as you now, I feel like I'm still very young, but my parents are worried that I can't get married all day long, and the people around me also think that you have a high vision, oh my God, it's just wrong.4, there's no way, and I don't want to force myself, I have to meet someone who wants to marry, I will tell my family what I think, if they want me to get married immediately, I will do what they want, but then I will be very unhappy in the future, if I get divorced, they don't blame me, but they don't urge me now, So communication is the most important thing, say what you really think, and they will understand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I'm just like you, but I'm still not going to be casual, after all, I'm going to face each other for a lifetime. Give yourself a way out, if you are still single at the age of 28, you can change your city life. You can start again at any time with a different environment and a different mood. In short, love is not something that comes by improvisation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't worry, after so many years, you must find someone you love and someone who loves you, otherwise you will regret it, this kind of thing must not be hasty.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can't just deal with personal lifelong events because of family pressure, find someone you like to marry, otherwise you will suffer for a lifetime, be cautious, friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Marriage depends on fate, and my husband and I are good examples. Two people with completely different personalities, my relatives and friends are not optimistic about us, but now that we are about to get married, I feel very happy.

    I wish you the best of luck in finding someone you really love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To be liberated from stress, stay away from home if you have the opportunity, and lifelong happiness should not be hasty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you get it casually, you can get it, and no matter how you live, you will live a lifetime! After all, there are only a few people who can truly love each other and get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your mood is unstable, don't ask too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, I can tell you the answer, and I can solve this problem, but I don't know how to say God have mercy on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find a good friend who has no interest or kinship with you, and it will be more comfortable to say it.

    The teacher's doing this may have something to do with your previous bad impressions.

    Work hard to achieve something, and others will make a difference in you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be afraid, one failure is not the same as a lifetime failure. Lessons learned, hard work leads to hope.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    We must endure humiliation, find our own learning methods, and learn science well, so as to win the praise of teachers and classmates!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Negative emotions need to be vented, and when they are piled up, they are prone to problems.

    It's best to talk to someone close to you.

    If you can't find someone to talk to, you can come to me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Academic performance and your future career in society are two different things. I have a lot of classmates who don't get good grades, and they mix very well. Those with good grades are not as mixed as those with bad grades. That's the reality.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Analysis: Hello, too much stress, if not relieved in time, it will affect people's mental health in the long run.

    Suggestions: You should maintain an optimistic attitude, do what you think is right, reduce pressure, don't think about unpleasant things, as long as you work hard, there is nothing to be sad about, and saying the unhappiness of the mind is a way to vent. Don't think about it anymore.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In a normal heart, the road must be taken step by step, and there must be a process.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Actually, I think it's a bit of a problem not to be in the same city, but the problem is whether you love each other enough, you don't care about his conditions, and he still doesn't mention marriage to you, I think you should force him. can't make him feel that you have to look at your face if you stick it upside down, a woman can't not love herself, she doesn't even love herself, how can you expect him to respect you and love you.

    For marriage, you must be cautious, because when you get married, you must think about it clearly, and the emotional things are like the day of June, maybe the two are inseparable just now, because they don't talk or even make a lot of noise because of a little thing. It's not a big deal, love is love. If you don't love, you don't love, and you can't go wrong with your feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Marriage is not about finding the right person.

    It's about being the right person.

    Don't complain, whether it's love or marriage, it's a matter of two people, cherish what is in front of you!

    Feelings are to be active.

    Just passively accepting, where does happiness come from?

    If you don't like it, don't force it, it's not fair to that boy.

    Either way, I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In real life, there is always a lot of pay and little return, the landlord's day mourning in the face of the landlord's current situation, you can consider working hard to put into the work, because the landlord's unit has been the landlord "transferred to the field to work and study for three years", if it is not the company's optimistic employees, it will not make this kind of investment in training.

    But just working is also boring, the landlord can consider whether there are friends and girlfriends who are still in contact, and making an appointment to get together is also a good way to relieve stress. Specific ways can try to eat, sing, and go to the amusement park, which are all good.

    Finally, I wish the landlord good luck.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do what you love! Divert attention.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After reading it, you can't say that you fully understand your feelings, but you can only say that you understand!

    I don't dare say what you should do, because that's what you have to think about, it's too important to you, I can't be arbitrary!

    All I can say is what I would have done if this happened to me! I would choose to give up this relationship because I can't tolerate 7 years of **, how many 7 years are there in a person's life? And it's the person I love the most who is lying to me, it's even more unbearable for me, the deeper I love, the deeper the hatred, at this time I only hate her!

    Even if she does repent, I can only say that it is too late! It's been 7 years, how many can there be in life? And these 7 years are still the most meaningful 7 years of life!

    Tricked like this? Will she be able to make up for it? She is not qualified to face me at all, and she is not qualified to have my love anymore!

    I don't think she has that qualifications anymore! Just imagine, if her cousin hadn't broken up with her, would she have lied to you for the rest of her life? The answer is yes!

    People have different personalities, and I'm just going to say what I think, because that's how I am!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm a girl who hasn't experienced marriage, I think it depends on how big your belly is, on the one hand, the child's problem, do you think the child is not as painful as the mother or is it sad to know that your mother is so dirty? The problem of children's education, personality education, can she do it? On the other hand, will her cousin disappear into your lives?

    They've been around for 5 years, as long as you've been married, what is their relationship like? How much do you know?

    The reason why she is like this now, in addition to really feeling that she is wrong, does it mean that you are her last straw?

    Maybe I was mean enough, but I really don't think she deserves sympathy. If I were a child, I would be disgusted with such a mother. I feel like I can't lift my head.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Wow, that's too long, it's too long

    Mom, I'd better go, um, I'm going to go lightly, and I gently click "submit."

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I believe that your wife is right, she knows that she is wrong, so give her a chance

    I really hope you can forgive her, I am her must be in pain now, don't torture her, and let yourself go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I also have a true story to tell you, and the process is very bumpy, and I will briefly describe it: they are my cousins and aunts. Ten years ago, with the consent of their parents, they got married.

    After a year, I had a baby, a cute little boy. When the baby was five months old, the aunt had a relationship with another man at some point and was discovered by the uncle. Although the uncle is very kind, he can't accept this fact, but for the sake of the poor baby, the uncle did not file for divorce.

    A few days later, the aunt ran away from home with the man. The uncle's family filed for divorce. There was a grandmother to raise the baby, so they divorced.

    After two months, my aunt regretted it and wanted to remarry. The uncle did not agree, and a few years passed, because he had a child, the uncle was not married, and the aunt was not married, because the aunt loved the uncle. The baby went to school without the care of his mother, and the baby's desire shook the uncle's heart, and he accepted the aunt at the time, and they remarried.

    Life is good now.

    The key is whether you can remove that shadow in your heart and start over with your wife. Forget the previous unpleasantness, in fact, in 7 years, you have become not only husband and wife, but also relatives. They are all used to having each other's lives.

    Please consider carefully, the decision is in your hands. I know you love her too, try to give her one last chance. I sincerely wish you all happiness!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's been five years, and it's been a long time. You have to solve this problem with the truest thoughts in your heart, understanding what you want? Don't be blinded by hate. She's unworthy of forgiveness, but can you be sure you're not wrong?

    Have you ever wondered what caused him to have an extramarital affair? Have you ever wondered what he really needs? You haven't known it for five years, can you say that you care about him very much? Do you dare to say that you love him very much? You might say he covered it up well!

    Although I am not married, I know that a woman needs not you to feed and clothe him. He needs a warm embrace when he is lonely, and an arm to lean on when he is sad. Care more about the people you love, and then you will be happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As far as children are concerned, children are right, now most families are because of children and maintain the status quo do not divorce, and China has a saying since ancient times that persuasion and non-persuasion, if you still love your wife, then don't divorce, time can dilute everything, if you don't love your wife anymore, then you also have to think about the child.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's really strange ,,, why do these things,。。 Ay... I think it's better for you to give up,,, there will be shadows when we get together in the future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Forget it, there's nothing strange about this society like this now, if you want to open a little, for your children.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Be sincere to your children.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The relationship is too much of a headache, and I really don't want to grow up to face it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's too long, I'm in the mirror like you now.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you think about it, you will continue, and if you don't think about it, you will think about divorce.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give him a period of time to change, it's good that he hasn't been in contact with others, he still has feelings for that woman (to be honest, don't be sad), it's not so easy to forget the person in your heart after all, just like a person in love will be sad when they break up suddenly, and they will be sad for a while, unless they are distracted or not serious, be patient.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello! When it comes to marriage, I think it's important to be "honest", and of course I'm not talking about mutual honesty in the traditional sense, because we don't have the right to ask others what they do. It's your own honesty about your feelings, "What do you really want", can this relationship be parted?

    100 words, not enough to write!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If being together is a kind of pain, it is better not to be together, and the long pain is not as good as the short pain!! In fact, he doesn't love you anymore, do you still have a reason and a need to love him??? Learn to let go !!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    People don't have you in their hearts, why bother wronging yourself, the days ahead are still very long, and a better life is ahead. Put it down to pick up a new one. There is no hurdle that cannot be crossed, believe in yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Excuse me: Do you have any children???

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can try to communicate with him, after all, the relationship between you is still there, but there is a lack of communication now. In addition, you have to reflect on yourself, why did he become like this, I am a man, I understand that feeling, men are tired from working outside, what they need after returning home is a person's care and care rather than others, the family is harmonious and warm, I think no matter how men and women will have other ideas, I hope it can help you!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Lack of communication, since you're married to him, there must be a place to approve of him, and I think you still lack communication.

    Friction is unavoidable, there is no identical leaf in the world, if you can communicate with each other, it is a good phenomenon, and it is also a way to understand each other, this is the basis of marriage, otherwise it is better to break up.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Two words divorce.

    Good morning break. Otherwise, there will be more times of depression in the future.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't want to think about it.,There must be a time when the two of them have a quarrel.。。 Go to bed early.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Too sensitive, maybe his heart of love for you is in his belly, and sweet words are not necessarily true love.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Communicate-communicate-communicate again. Be considerate - be considerate - be considerate again. Finished.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable. But it has a limit, blindly forbearance will make you very painful, if you feel that you can accept it, accept it, after all, no one is perfect. If you can't accept it, just separate and calm down for a while and think about it.

    Don't wait until you have children to think about whether you should live on.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Indeed, this kind of crash course study is just a normal test for most people. You don't have to go to your heart. The main reason may come from the coach, whose impatient, discouraged, or even abusive way will undoubtedly bring a lot of pressure and fear to the students.

    Therefore, the remaining four training sessions should be grasped, relaxed, memorized the key points, especially the most basic ones, and completed as much as possible without mistakes, and confidence will naturally be there. The rest of the one, perhaps, will be simple.

    I'm also in my early twenties, and I took the book last year, and the exam went well. Don't put too much pressure on yourself now, when we're over, who does he love. Imagine that our life has just begun, and we don't know how many difficulties and dangers will be waiting for us in the future.

    It's just a workout for yourself. So relax your mind and memorize the main points, no problem.

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