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What I want to say is that there are many men in the world who are 1.6 meters tall, and there are a lot of them who are not handsome. Even if it is good-looking, it will only attract people for a while, and what can really make you quickly integrate into the collective is not your appearance but your personality and self-cultivation.
Low self-esteem, it should be a lack of self-confidence, read more books and magazines, more ink in the stomach, the outlook on life and values will be more mature, and at that time, there will be no introverted problem.
As for not being good at socializing with others, this is not a problem. Some people are born to mingle with others in 3 minutes, while others take several times as long. This is due to personality, and the second is that each of us measures our friends differently, and the degree of acceptance is different.
In terms of courage, as long as you dare to take the first step and say the first sentence to someone, you will have a head, and people will pick it up, and you will talk about it, unless the interests are completely different, otherwise there is always something in common.
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You think of yourself more than anything else, so if you think you can't do it, you really can't do it, you can't do it, if you think you can do it, you really can't do it, you can't do it. Open your mind to embrace this wonderful world, don't be afraid, you are unique in the world, short is not a problem, not handsome is not a problem, a person's real strength is not in these, but in the inner strength, remember: your evaluation of yourself is greater than everything!
I wish you to regain your self-confidence soon!
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Change yourself, starting from little by little. Start with the things around you. Learn to handle your work well and gain confidence in your business.
Slowly, you can experience fun and creativity in your work, and gradually you will become cheerful. As long as you can continue to enrich yourself and improve yourself, I believe that the knowledge and cultivation you have accumulated can help you gradually open up in interpersonal communication.
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From these words of yours, it can be seen that you have low self-esteem. Friend, have you ever heard of the saying that no one is perfect? You say you're not as tall and handsome as anyone else.
But when you have these, you will become loved by everyone, and flowers will bloom?! Being handsome doesn't have to be ...... good characterGod is fair, and it gives you something to have and something to lose at the same time, so look out for your back!
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In fact, it is good that you have this idea, which means that you still have some courage, after all, it is also a kind of courage to change your own thoughts. You need to interact with people more, start with the people around you, talk to them more and gradually change your communication skills. Then it is to practice your courage, participate in more activities, have the courage to express yourself, and be good at promoting your strengths and avoiding weaknesses.
Everyone has their own shining points, and you have to discover your own strengths and work hard to develop them. At the same time, you can associate with some extroverts, and over time, you will definitely change.
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I think you should take the initiative to contact the other party, first, it can show that what you ask him to do is still quite urgent for you, if you are not in a hurry, will he be in a hurry; Second, if he hasn't come yet and will do it for you, he will also give him a reminder by the way, don't forget that it's time to start doing it; The third is that you are definitely not too familiar with the ** number you leave for him, and it is also a politeness to take the initiative. Just a little personal suggestion for you to refer to.