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Such a person no longer has a conscience, no sense of morality, and his so-called happiness and so-called non-breaking are all his own subjective opinions. At least I don't agree. No conscience, no filial piety, if you know this, you are embarrassed to say, then you are really "happy".
It's all like this, and I still care about what others have done, and what is the point of asking what's wrong.
Everybody has this idea about you, how can we still live in this society, don't you think it's selfish to think like this? You are not breaking the law now, you have always thought like this, for your own happiness, people are greedy animals, your size will become wider and wider with your greed, and it is difficult to guarantee that you will not go astray in the future.
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Nothing bad.
As long as you feel good, everything is good.
But when you do, be prepared to rebel and leave!
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You lack the human touch, how would you feel if your family was like you. If you have contributed, how can you object to the concern of others? You have to reflect on yourself, happiness is not like that.
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That's not happiness, that's heartless people!
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If it were your son, I'm afraid you wouldn't think so!
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May I ask the landlord how many brothers and sisters does your husband have, if it is himself, you don't have to be sad, you as his wife should understand him, it is natural for a son to be filial to his parents, and it is not necessarily a bad thing to get along with his in-laws when he looks at things, why make trouble in his heart! My husband is too filial doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or don't love this family, this is putting pressure on him, as a man, I am most afraid that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not compatible, and you should also think about whether you have any opinion of your mother-in-law! Can you put yourself in the shoes of your mother, do you still have so much accounting?
After all, it is a family that has raised their parents for so many years, how can they be so clear about accounting! My husband doesn't discuss with you, it's because he's too macho, it's not right for him, maybe it's because I'm afraid that you won't agree, so I won't go through your consent, so as not to have any more contradictions because of these, so that your mother-in-law knows and thinks you're not good! Husband, yes, you are not wrong, think about each other in everything, talk more about your heart Isn't it very good for a family to be happy Some things are too careful, and the result will be very bad.
Hopefully, it will help you to open your heart, that's your husband's mother, and your mother, who loves him and loves him all.
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Hehe, I think you need to have a good communication with your husband and talk to him about your thoughts and dissatisfactions. In fact, you are a very sympathetic daughter-in-law. But it's not like love is anything between husband and wife, it doesn't matter, it's like the whole world is just the two of you.
After marriage, it is a real day of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and stumbling is always inevitable, and marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the union of two families. Communication, understanding is very important. There is also the most taboo in marriage, saying divorce at every turn.
It will affect the relationship between two people very much. It's really not easy to get married and have children, cherish it. If you think you can tolerate something, turn a blind eye, and if you can't tolerate it, communicate with your husband well, I believe it will be possible.
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I should communicate with him well, I think there are very few people who have filial piety now. He just made his own decision without consulting you, you can ask him to discuss it with you before doing it, after all, you are husband and wife! The days to come will be long, and if you encounter a little unsatisfactory, you will ignore him and stop talking, which will affect your relationship between husband and wife.
Think more from his standpoint, tell him what you think, the child has to be raised, the mortgage has to be repaid, and some money has to be prepared for the child (education**) Of course, the elderly also have to take care of it, just look at the best way to do it, and achieve a balance between you and him. Wishing a harmonious family! Happiness forever!
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Divorce, you can't do it, a filial man will not be bad for you or your children!
Have a good talk with him about how much you have to earn every month, how much you have fixed expenses, how much you need to spend on mobility, how much you need to repay your loan, and how much you need to save for your child's education. How many are left at the end?! How much do you expect to give to his parents each month? How much to give to your parents?
There are many men who don't know how to settle accounts, they only look in front of them, and they are more likely to use money impulsively.
After settling the account, if there is a plan to give money to his parents, then you will be generous and give it to you, so that you will win the reputation of a filial daughter-in-law, and you will not be angry and awkward about this matter.
Work hard to make money, and you won't be interested in these small money!
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I empathize, but my husband is not as excessive as your husband!
Once my husband didn't go behind my back to give his father 1000 yuan, I was brutal at the time, and then I didn't say anything, now I think the money should be returned to us, that is our joint income after marriage, how can he carry me behind my back to his father, he was the first to play, hate this kind of behavior!
I think such a person is ignorant, why do you want to get married if you can, don't think about others!
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If you ask him for money to buy things for your children, you will say that you are filial to your parents because of your money!
Let him also be filial to your parents, otherwise what's the matter if you are only filial to your own parents!
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Try to talk to him about what you think about his approach, and your opinion.
If you can't get divorced, don't get divorced.
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People who are not filial to their parents are generally unhappy. If you think about it, he is not even filial to his parents, let alone treating his friends when he marries, who still plays with him. People who don't even have friends to marry don't know what love is. How can family affection be happy?
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It depends on what the person thinks ... It is up to him to be happy or not ...
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Of course not. If they don't have their parents in their hearts, then they will be taken care of in life, and they will be unhappy because of them.
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Is this ... There are many, but in fact, all people should honor their parents.
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All human beings should honor those who give their lives.
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You can only say that you are not looking for the right person. There are many good women. It's your money that's in love with her.
You may be fooled by her appearance. Life experience is more valuable than money. When the money is gone, you can earn it again.
If you are looking for a woman in the future, you must keep your eyes open. Don't think about what is on the surface. If there is a woman who is willing to go through this difficult time with you now, then marry her.
Love her for the rest of your life.
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The society itself is very realistic.
But my boyfriend also owes money.
I'll help him, but I'm not going to leave because of this.
Even if they are separated, they will definitely not be for this reason.
But know that the world itself is very realistic.
It's good not to leave you, and don't complain if you leave.
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Either she was for your money at the beginning, or you violated any taboos after marriage, if it is the former, you don't care about her, and she is not the only woman in the world.
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Normal, you can't even figure out this truth, no wonder you will lose money!
All she values is your money, why don't she leave if you don't have money? Raise you?
Those who benefit fellowship will benefit from all the benefits.
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Not every woman is like her, it's just that you don't meet, don't overturn a boatload of people with one shot.
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Focus on earning your house and BMW back, and think less about other things!
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I don't know people, don't blame society.
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Three houses and one carriage! Still so attentive!
It's rare
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The main thing is to maintain a healthy mindset to look at everything around you, in fact, they are bright and warm.
You can choose what you like to do and what makes you happy according to your interests.
In addition, it is important to keep your mind clean and not to be disturbed by negative factors from the outside world.
Happy to you.
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Do what you love, good deeds! Let yourself be satisfied and be happy!!
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The key is to get rid of your worries, travel can change a lot, your mood will be much better, the landlord will go out to play more, you will be much better, watch comedy, you will get some happiness, smile more.
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Listen to songs. Watch comedy. Memories of good things. Spend time with your family.
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Help others, make others happy, and be happier yourself.
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Eat, drink and be merry as long as you're happy.
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