When there is a problem with pursuing a woman, how can a girl deal with the problem of the suitor?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe she likes someone else, maybe she likes you, it's just a matter of degree.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The so-called "My Fair Lady, Good Gentleman", for the more passive party in love, it is normal for girls to be pursued. But even so, when facing suitors, we still need to be rational and treat them correctly.

    First of all, we need to affirm that when we have suitors, that is, when we prove our personal charm, so don't be afraid and don't blindly run away, but treat it correctly and enjoy the process.

    I remember when I was studying, I would be embarrassed to receive love letters, secretly hide in my schoolbag and then go home and look at them secretly, at that time I felt that having suitors was a kind of motivation, because we knew that someone was paying attention to us, so we had to work harder to make ourselves better. This can be said to be a very positive energy.

    Another kind of pursuit is to give gifts, when you have a birthday, receive an anonymous gift, but you know in your heart who that person is, that feeling should be said to be quite wonderful. At this time, don't think too much, just accept the gift generously, after all, it is the other party's heart, and you must respect others.

    There is also a kind of pursuit will be a little annoying, they may chase after you, and even make you a little breathless, at this time, you don't feel too annoyed, if you have time, sit down with him, talk like a good friend, listen to him say what is in his heart, and then also say your thoughts, maybe this can completely solve his relentless pursuit, if you blindly show disgust or avoidance, then it may instead anger the other party, let him get worse, then it will be uncomfortable to touch you.

    There is another pursuit that will embarrass you, for example, a very good-looking boy waits for you downstairs in the dormitory every day, so that you will be pushed to the cusp, people may point fingers at you, and even acquiesce in your relationship, so you had better make it clear to him from the beginning, if you encounter a scoundrel who can't say clearly, then you must deal with it carefully, and it is best to smile tactfully and let the other party accept that you have another point of view in your heart, so that you can get out more easily.

    Finally, when facing suitors, you must treat them rationally, don't be fluttering because someone is chasing them, don't blindly be afraid and escape, follow your heart, handle the relationship correctly, and wish the world's lovers to eventually become married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't confess for the time being, be good to her, but don't deliberately, always care about her, and study hard You can interact with her more in the name of learning, which is also good for your learning, but don't delay other people's learning, and then talk about ...... when the time is ripe

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Keep chasing. It's best if you can catch it. If you can't catch it, you don't work hard enough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Brother take your time and be kind to her more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She is in the midst of consideration and trial, keep trying!

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