I found myself not selfish enough! 20

Parents raised you to 18 years old has fulfilled their responsibilities, will not support you for a lifetime, Buddhism often says, "blessed people live in blessed land, blessed land and blessed people", a blessed person, no matter where he is, ** is good feng shui; A person who has no good fortune, no matter how good the feng shui treasure is, it is also a futile effort. Because, good fortune is not to be sought, let alone robbed, good fortune is self-cultivation, only after accumulating enough kindness and merit, good luck will come often.

In the view of Buddhism, there is a way to increase blessing and eliminate karma the fastest. This way is to be filial to your parents. Filial piety to one's parents is the greatest blessing in the world, and it is better to serve one's parents at home than to burn utilitarian incense far away.

The Buddha said that in this world, the greatest good will not be greater than filial piety; The greatest evil will not be greater than unfilial piety. A person who is not filial to his parents has an unkind heart that runs counter to the Buddha's heart, so no matter how much Buddha he worships and burns incense, it is difficult to get blessings.

In Buddhism, it is often said that life is a process of fate, and the so-called no fate, no gathering, no debt, no come, which can also be understood as the cause and effect we often say. Whether we are parents or children, the fate of parents and children is either to repay debts or to ask for debts, and they owe each other, so they meet in this life and become parents and children. The Buddha said:

If there is no Buddha, serve your parents well, and to serve your parents is to serve the Buddha, and your parents are the greatest victorious blessings in the Three Realms.

Therefore, no matter whether our parents have given us a surplus life, whether we have food and clothing without worry, we should be grateful to our parents in this life, grateful to our parents for their hard work in giving birth to us, and grateful to our parents for their hard work in raising and teaching. As written in the song "Cause and Effect of the Three Worlds", "What is the cause of deafness and dumbness in this life? In his previous life, he scolded his parents viciously", "If there is no sense of cause and effect, why should he save his mother".

Then someone said that my parents did not give me good living conditions since I was a child, made me suffer a lot, nor did they give me a happy childhood, and even often violently faced me, and my current achievements are all my own efforts, and have nothing to do with my parents. Therefore, I feel that my parents have not been very kind to me, and there is no need for me to repay them. This could not be more wrong.

As the old saying goes, "filial piety comes first", even if our parents are wrong in their words and deeds, we should not blame them, our parents gave birth to us is our greatest kindness. As for whether oneself will be blessed or suffered, isn't it one's own karma? If you want to know the cause of the past life, the recipient of this life is; If you want to know the fruits of the afterlife, this life is.

Regardless of whether our parents are right or wrong, we should not be disgusted, but should know them with reason, move them with affection, and warm them with filial piety.

It is the responsibility of children to be good and honor their parents!

Your family's selfishness is their problem, you just do what you have to do, why should you learn a shortcoming.

Know more about those who are particularly selfish, the so-called close to Zhu is red, and close to ink is black.

Wouldn't you be selfish?

Look at the question you asked, don't you already know what answer you want to see? Then I'll give you a push.