How can I prevent my child from becoming resistant to learning?

Introduction: In fact, learning more often still depends on children's autonomy, sometimes even if parents do not supervise, as long as children are willing to learn, then there will always be good results. However, if the child has a resistance to learning, once the resistance appears, parents may not be able to improve their children's academic performance no matter how hard they try.

So how can we prevent children from becoming resistant to learning?

First of all, parents should do a good job in cultivating an environment, and don't regard learning as a very serious thing that requires children's continuous efforts. Some parents will instill in their children when they are not in school, "You must study hard, and if you don't learn well, you will be punished", and often tell their children that if they don't study well, they will not have a good life in the future. In fact, this is a one-sided understanding of learning, which leads to a biased understanding of children's cognition of learning.

In addition, children will become more and more stressed under the demands of their parents, so it is natural that they will be resistant to learning.

There will definitely be difficulties in learning, and no matter how smart a person is, he will fall behind in learning. For example, there are some math knowledge points, which are really difficult to understand, and some physics knowledge points, which really don't understand why they appear in textbooks. If parents can communicate with their children, let them understand these knowledge points, and let children understand how to solve difficulties when they encounter them.

Children will have a way, as long as they can overcome and gain self-confidence, then they will not be resistant to learning

When children grow and progress, parents should not be reluctant to give their children even a word of praise. You must know that children get such results are not blown by the wind, but also by their own efforts step by step, to encourage children more, children have self-confidence, naturally love to learn.

First of all, if you want to eliminate your child's rejection of learning, you must know the reasons for your child's rejection of learning. If it's physiological, help your child eliminate the influence. If it is caused by psychological factors, more psychological counseling should be carried out.

In the process of learning, you should pay attention to the child's emotional changes, and parents also need to be there at this time, and then help him solve the problem.

It should be that children should not be forced to study, and they can be appropriately guided to learn, so that children should not have this kind of resistance.

First of all, we must pay attention to the teaching method, teaching foundation, help children find a more efficient learning method, and learn to respect and encourage children in the learning process, and we must learn to respect children's hobbies.

In life, children should feel the joy of learning, and they should also have some time to relax. so that there will be some resistance.

Many parents are very confused about how to overcome their children's resistance to learning, because we want their children to learn better. First of all, parents need to pay attention to their children often, rather than focusing all their attention on learning.

First of all, we need to tell our children about the importance of learning, and we also need to tell our parents that you don't have to force you to study. If you feel a little tired, your parents will reduce your study pressure, but we must not give up studying, and we must not have the psychology of boredom in learning. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will not be able to find a good job in the future, and you will regret it very much in the future.

Have a good talk with your child so that your parents don't put too much pressure on them anymore, so that your child won't have some resistance.

For example, the attitude of school teachers towards children and the attitudes of classmates towards children are likely to become the reasons for children's resistance to learning. Therefore, I hope that parents can pay attention to the fact that sometimes it may not be because the child himself does not like to learn, but because he feels very uncomfortable in the process of learning. The learning environment is very important, and if your child is in a learning environment that you don't like, it is also very likely that your child's academic performance will become very poor.

As parents, we should know that children are resistant to learning, which may be because of external reasons, not because of the children themselves, so parents should not be too strict with their children, and it is more useful to care about their children than anything else.

First of all, parents must arouse their children's interest in learning, must tell their children that learning is the best, let children be interested in learning, pay attention to cultivating children's learning interests and hobbies, and must create a learning atmosphere at home, parents can study with their children, so that they can overcome their children's resistance to learning and let children fall in love with learning.

There is a good learning atmosphere, do not let the child have too much pressure, nor can the child be very painful, parents should properly enlighten the child.

We must create a good environment for children to grow up, and we must encourage children to learn and cultivate good study habits.

Spend more time with your classmates and teachers in your life and try to solve some interesting problems.

Everyone should have a child's resistance to learning, but some children are more serious. Nowadays, there is a lot of pressure on learning, children are struggling to learn, and the learning task is heavy, and this emotion comes. Let the children relax, take them out for a walk, relax, have fun, say hello to them, and after having fun, they should study hard and concentrate on learning, most children can do it.

It is necessary to overcome the resistance to learning, first of all, to be interested in learning, and to find joy in learning, so as to overcome the resistance to learning.

You have to think more about the benefits of learning, and plan for your future, so that you can yearn for learning and not resist.

In fact, resistance to learning may be due to family or teacher reasons, we can try to communicate with parents and teachers, learning is actually a very good thing.

Think of a goal first, and then force yourself to say that it is impossible to achieve it without learning that goal.

At this time, you have to carry forward the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation, and if you beat your child to a scared person, he will not resist.

Parents should take the lead in learning and should take their children to see the world, so that they can stimulate their children's motivation to learn.

Parents can not put too much pressure on their children, let them learn some interesting things, read some interesting books, and slowly cultivate their children's interest in reading.

Then parents should reflect on why their children have a resistance to learning, so as to prescribe the right medicine.

Children are in the learning stage, can not waste this good time, so to study seriously, some children have a resistance to students, parents, to pay attention to the child's psychology in time, have patience to enlighten the child, help the child relieve all kinds of pressure, so that they have a state of serious study.

Parents can help their children analyze and do a good job, help children greatly improve their confidence, and their interest in learning will also increase; Analysis** If you don't do it well, you will encourage children to redouble their efforts, their desire to correct in time, and take the initiative to seek ways to improve. If learning is the mountain, short-term feedback is the step, helping the child to climb to the top of the mountain step by step and methodically. When they succeed, tell them it's the result of hard work; And when they fail, tell them it's because the effort wasn't enough.

Parents should calm their children's emotions at this time and actively encourage their children, so that children will be more interested in learning.

First of all, parents should communicate with the child well, ask why the child does not like to study, which subject is causing trouble to the child, and secondly, formulate a solution for the reason why the child does not want to learn, and it is best to let the child fall in love with learning again without forcing the child.

Children just don't want to learn, what should parents do?

A lot of them are still in school when they first go to school, in fact, they doThere is a certain resistance and reluctance to go to school, and even try to stay at home, so parents are actually very distressed in the face of such a situation. It can be said that at this stage, there are also many parentsProblems that need to be facedSome children are very well-behavedIf you even like to go to school, then this is naturally very good. But alsoThere is no shortage of children in the first grade, or even wait until the second or third gradeAt this time, what should parents do?

When we find that our children have a certain resistance to going to school, we canAsk your child first to understand if he is reluctant to go to schoolWhat exactly is the reason? There are children who areReluctance to leave home, and some children are reluctant to go to school because they don't have friends at school, and they will feel itVery sad and sad. The child's nature is very naughty, and if he doesn't have any friends to play with him at school, he will actually let the parentsComparative distress, will feel that he lacks a certain social ability, at this time, we canto help the child solve these problems

Most of the children after solving these problems toowill not be so resistant to going to schoolFinish.

When we found the problem,It's also a great way to get straight to the pointIn this way, it can also solve the problem more effectively, if the child is reluctant to leave the house, or feelsIf you can't adapt to school lifeThen at home, we can give the child some desensitization training, such as the school life mode, we also move to the homeLet your child get used to it in advance

Especially for:Kindergarten childrenWe canAdapt your child to school schedules as early as possibleIn this way, when he actually goes to school in the future, he will not resist so much, because he is used to these things. If he is thinking in schoolIf you can't make friends。We are in the everydayWhen you take a breakYou can take your children to more activities and gatheringsLet him get to know more of his peersThis is also an exercise in his social skills, which can also effectively help children solve these problems.

When it comes to helping children solve these problems,Don't rush it, some parents will feelIf you don't do it early,Or yesDon't schedule these times tightlywords, the child may be on these timesSpending too much, causing him to fall behind in his studies, but if we are in a hurry, we want to make the childIf you become very good overnightIt's also unlikely, so we have to help the childTake these steps slowly.

This will also allow the childAccept it from the heartAt the same time, we pay more attention to the child in our daily life, and pay attention to her emotions in the school, so that we can complement each otherLet the child accept it as soon as possible

Don't force your child to go to school, first promise your child's request, and then work with your child to understand why your child doesn't want to go to school, and punish this achievement.

When a child is resistant to school, parents must ask why the child resists school, if he does not like to study, he can cultivate his child's interest in learning, or often take him out to relieve stress.

Don't force your child to go to school, first agree to your child's request, and then communicate with your child to understand why your child doesn't want to go to school.

It is necessary for the child to have the right psychological counseling before going to school, and the child goes to experience the day with the child before being shortlisted.

Dear, it is relatively normal for children to have lax resistance in learning. Your attention to your child's psychology shows that you are a parent who loves your child very much! In terms of communication skills:

1. Be patient. Learn more about what causes your child to resist and relax. Is it because you haven't learned the knowledge points?

Or is there a problem with interpersonal relationships at school? Or is the teacher's teaching method a little unsuitable for the child? Or is there something wrong with your child's learning method?

As a parent, I am very worried about my child's learning, and I can understand it. If you add an equal and relaxed way of communication, you may be able to get twice the result with half the effort, children of different ages need different communication methods, how old are your children now? Is it a boy or a girl?

01. Yell at the child.

Every child is very naughty in their teenage years, and will always do things that challenge their parents' bottom lines and emotions. Therefore, most parents will yell once they see their children's repeated behavior, in fact, such an education method is wrong, and children who have grown up in a yelling environment for a long time will gradually become more tired, and they will have stronger resistance to their parents. 02. Ignoring values.

Many parents pay great attention to their children's talents and academic performance, but neglect the cultivation of children's values, in fact, such an educational method is upside down. Neglected values are the foundation of a child's life, and only by attaching importance to values can a child's growth be healthier. 03. Keep your distance.

In order to maintain their authoritative image in their children, many parents will deliberately keep a distance from their children, so that the originally very close parent-child relationship is covered with a pure layer of mystery, and the children want to get closer, but they are full of fear. They become insecure, and the older they get, the stronger they want to be separated from their parents.

04. The requirements are too high.

Most parents set a growth track for their children, hoping that according to the plan of the parents, they can shorten the distance between them and the successful hall, but too high requirements are also a big burden for the children. It can cause them to have a strong resistance to the things they are interested in, but parents who make high demands often do not know that their children have been hurt by their requests.