Problems with classmates, contradictions between classmates

First, your problem is not with others, but with yourself, and everything is something that you actively strive for.

Second, if you want to change your introverted personality, you need to practice more gradually and don't always be afraid of people.

What's wrong with the living people The living people are also human beings.

Third, if you want to make close friends, you first have to be sincere to others, and you think that you are not sincere to others, and you can expect others to be as sincere to you.

Fourth, it is not an overnight time to mingle with the dormitory, sometimes you can't say the truth, but when you really say it, it's much better, find a few people to go out for a drink, and what you say when you drink is the truth, and you have to be heart-to-heart.

Fifth, we must grasp the proportion, do not go too far in what we do, and do not understate it, but take everyone and everything seriously.

Hope it helps.

Just let it be! Go out with your roommates, if they need your advice when buying something, you can say it boldly, you can also let your roommate come up with ideas, comment and comment on things, listen to it, agree or disagree, and say your opinion! If you have your own defects, you don't have to be angry when your roommate jokes about it, you can say that it's good, and you have to be happy to say that my roommate and my friend often laugh at my small eyes, and if you laugh at it, it's gone, and I'm happy to tell him that my eyes are small but you are all in my eyes!

Either hehe, hey smirk, of course, my temper is also very good, they have to help, I am also very active, often joking, a dormitory can be a heart-to-heart only one or two, you don't have to be so troubled, just go with the flow, you don't go to extremes! If only there were people who had the same interests as you, could you communicate more? If your roommates often joke about you, it means that they also care about you, they see you in their eyes, if they make you transparent, you should be even more uncomfortable, they say that there is no point in laughing and laughing, everything has two sides, think more about the good side, if you are unhappy, no matter how good things are, you will not think of good things, make yourself happy first, go home, if someone comes to the door, what should you shout and shout, give up your seat in the house, call your mother out to say hello, you will be fine, your parents will not count you down, In the past, my parents often counted me down, but now that I'm older, I won't talk about Luo, what should I shout when I come, anyway, I won't suffer!

First of all, I want to express my feelings: Please you are still shy as a boy? You're a sophomore in college and you still want a junior high school student like me to help you solve your problem?

Don't be angry just yet, how will you react when you get angry at their cancellation, they should think that your reaction will deliberately tease you, and if you laugh at yourself with them sometimes, you may blend in with them.

And did you say you're introverted? As long as you're not autistic, I think you don't talk to people very much, so you should talk to everyone!

I'm most afraid of running out of topic when talking, right? Let's start with compliments, which are the best way to communicate with people, and anyone will love to hear compliments.

If you want your interpersonal relationship to be good, you must first be sincere to others, of course, not 100% sincere, as long as 70 to 90%, because we don't know them completely, everyone has their own thoughts and secrets, if you meet a close friend, you can show all your sincerity.

If you want to mingle with others, it takes time, and of course you will encounter problems, such as what they are interested in, and you don't understand or are not interested, so don't express your opinion, listen quietly, and follow the crowd when it's your turn to express your opinion.

If you become a little more attractive, such as: 1. Love to sing and dance.

2. Be a little crazier.

3. Big grin (no way to use this again).

Summary. 1. Clarify the facts First of all, we must clarify the contradictions, and we must calm down and think about what happened. Don't argue or not give in to each other, this will not benefit either of you and will only make the problem worse and worse until it is not solved.

2. Control your emotions When you have a conflict with your friends, it is likely to cause disputes, so you must restrain your emotions and don't say some hurtful words in a moment of anger, which may lead to some irreparable or hurtful words about friendship, so that the friendship will end.

The teacher has already received your question, can you tell the teacher about the conflict between you?

1. Clarify the facts First of all, we must clarify the contradictions, and we must calm down and think about what happened. Don't just quarrel or have a non-yielding attitude, which will not benefit either of you, and will only make the problem more and more serious until it is not solved. 2. Control your emotions When you have a conflict with your friends, it is likely to cause disputes, so you must restrain your emotions and don't say some hurtful and fierce words in a moment of anger, which may lead to some irreparable or hurtful words about friendship, so that the friendship will end.

Hello teacher. Recently, my roommate scolded me as soon as I passed her. I'm a sophomore in high school now, and I didn't live at the school until I was in high school.

Because I'm fat, sweat easily, I like to flush and wash or something, I often occupy the toilet, and then sleep and snore, and wear the wrong clothes (and later bought another one for someone else), and I can't speak a little, but I have a lot of nonsense, so I may often offend people. It's been two or three months since school started, and for a while, everyone didn't show that they hated me very much. But lately, because of some things, this has been the case for me.

I'm also very annoyed, because of these shortcomings, I'm used to it, and I want to change, but now I can't stand them scolding me openly and secretly, I don't want to quarrel with them, what should I do?

It's good that the teacher has learned about you, and you've realized your problem, but your classmates have also done something bad, but the biggest reason why they discuss you behind your back is because they are prejudiced against you.

So the best thing to do is to eliminate their prejudice against you.

You can slowly change some bad habits, and the solution to not being able to speak is to think twice before saying every sentence, and analyze the consequences of saying this sentence.

So to ease their emotions after scolding me?

Even though I told myself that I would hate such a person when I met him, I was still absent-minded.

Kiss the teacher can understand you.

It's a very uncomfortable feeling.

But after all, you need to face this, and it takes a process to change their perception of you.