What kind of pattern is what adults should have?

I think adults must have a sense of the overall situation, and then try to look at the problem as long-term as possible.

Maintain a normal heart, no matter when you encounter something, you must not forget your original intention, and have the principle of doing things yourself, this is the pattern that every adult should have.

Kindness is like water, keep a normal heart. Fearlessness and the ability to resist setbacks.

Don't be angry, I feel like this is the way it should be.

A person's external performance comes from the depth and height of his inner world cultivation. The sky is speechless and becomes its height, and the earth is speechless and becomes its thickness. The sea is inclusive, the still water flows deeply, and most of the meaningful stories do not have flowery rhetoric, and the truly wise masters do not often reveal their inner desires.

Mount Tai collapsed in front of him and his body was not chaotic, and his chest was thunderous and his face was like a peaceful lake, because he was a man and did things confidently, so he was not impatient or impatient, and he was able to maintain a calm psychology and look at and deal with problems objectively.

Pattern generally refers to a person's vision, mind, courage and other related factors. Vision determines the height of life. If a person looks into the distance from a tall building, he can only see a radius of several miles at best.

And if a person is condescending on the plane, then the huge earth can also be seen. Only by standing tall can we see far, and only by seeing far can we go far, how can a person without foresight and short-sightedness go far.

Mind determines the breadth of life. You can be a person who is not smart or sociable, but you must have a big bearing. Not only should you be tolerant of others, but you must also be tolerant of yourself (setbacks and failures).

If you are calculating and repaying your baht, a little little thing will make you unable to let go; If you are afraid of giving, suffering from gains and losses, and a little frustration will make you give up on the future. How can such a person succeed? The sea is tolerant of all rivers, and tolerance is great; The wall is thousands of feet, and there is no desire to be rigid.

As wide as the heart is, the stage is as big as it is." Only when a person is unruly and broad-minded can he achieve great success.

The pattern is not something that you want to have, but a pattern that is slowly cultivated by the education that a person has received since childhood. Doing things requires IQ, being a person requires emotional intelligence, and success requires pattern. The pattern is a slow experience, not a day or two can be explored.

A person's pattern and mind are very important, and a person's life depends on how big the pattern you are! Where is your goal in life? Some people get trees instead of woods in their lives.

Or even failure rather than success. The pattern is a kind of spiritual concentration, the form is scattered but the spirit is not dispersed. Mind is a kind of flexibility, and I can use all things for my use.

Isn't it true that spirit and ability are the most important things for a person to settle down in life? How important is pattern and mind to a person, you say?

People should have a "pattern" means that they must have a sense of self-life planning, including the direction of development they choose and the scope of their friends.

The pattern is very important to people, and only by enlarging your own pattern can you make progress!

First of all, we have to understand that the difference between people with a large pattern and a small pattern is in **, when encountering bad things, people with a small pattern will think, why is it me who is unlucky, I am unwilling, I can't think of it, I hate, I am wronged, you all owe me. People with a big pattern first find the reasons from themselves, and then clearly know that our generation is going to encounter such a thing, this is the process of history, and what we need to do is to minimize the loss in this situation.

Similarly, when encountering good things, people with a small pattern will think that everything is the result of their own efforts, and they are the greatest people in the ages. And people with a big pattern will reflect deeply on themselves, and then silently prepare for the next big fall.

Therefore, many years later, we will find that people with a big pattern are always working very steadily, not arrogant, not impatient, not impatient, not impatient, and then better and better year by year, and stronger from generation to generation. On the other hand, people with a small pattern, no matter how high the starting point is, are up and down, sometimes sad and happy to go down, get less and complain constantly, get more is still insufficient, no matter the gains and losses, there is no openness and calm.

Therefore, a person with a big picture is able to understand himself, others and the current situation, and have the ability to control the overall situation. Know what is important, secondary, have grace, and action, be able to deal with problems with your own reason, and infect others with your sensibility.

But people with a smaller pattern should not be disappointed, in fact, the pattern can become bigger through their own efforts, the bigger the pattern, the bigger the career and love, that is, the more you adapt to this society, the more you adapt to the environment, it means that your pattern is big. As long as you say that you have a good mentality, a broad mind, a learning mentality, and a broad mindset, you can naturally become a person with a big picture.