Do you think it s good to be an only child? Will you give birth to just one?

In fact, I think each has its own benefits, as a person, I just want to have one, after all, the cost of raising a baby is too high now.

We have two children in our family, I have an older sister, in fact, it is very good to have brothers and sisters, we help each other, we have things to confide in, we don't feel too difficult to take care of our parents and relatives, there are things at home that can be shared with each other, everything can be discussed, it is still very good. When I was a child, there would be no playmates, and when I was bullied, I could fight back in a group, and I had siblings who were bullied at school.

The probability is also relatively small, because if the age difference is not big, you will know each other's situation, and if the age difference is a little bigger, there are people to complain.

But in fact, the only child is also very good, the only child has enjoyed the love and care of his parents alone since he was a child, in the eyes of his parents is the only one, there will be no contrast, the so-called ten fingers have the length and shortness, not an only child, you have to face the different development between brothers and sisters, a bowl of water from parents is actually very difficult to do, sometimes you look at how obedient your ** is how good, such a comparison and comparison, or relatively hurtful. This is when the benefits of being an only child become apparent.

Now this society has opened up the two-child policy.

Many people will have two children and think that they can have a companion, but I will not have two, because I also deeply understand that it is difficult to treat children equally on the way to growth, because different personalities and different minds will produce more or less different emotions. What's more, the pressure on people's lives is indeed too great now, and it is no longer like before, as long as you can raise your children, you can pay attention to not losing at the starting line.

The cost of education is increasing, from the milk powder that children eat at birth, to the kindergarten they choose when they are three years old, the interest classes they enroll, and then to the various school choices and cram schools in primary and junior high schools.

It's all built on money and has a sufficient economic base.

only have the capital to have a second child.

I think there are good and bad, to look at it comprehensively, but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, if I have average material conditions in the future, I can't give the best to the child, then I will give birth to one.

I think it's good to be an only child, first of all, the love of parents can be given to this child, and better educational resources and financial support are given to this child, I feel that this child grows up without pressure. I will also have only one child because I want to give him more love and I don't want to have a second child to separate the love.

I feel that the only child is very good, parents and children are relaxed and stress-free, the love and property of parents are children, and there is no mess, my only child is nineteen years old and a soldier baby, and the family building has been bought in full, and now I am ready to buy another set for my future grandson, and we also have our own small yard, which is good anyway.

Personally, I don't think it's good to be an only child. If I say so, I will choose to have two, so that the children can be companions. But having one and having several has its own benefits.

An only child will have all the love of a family, although a family with two children may have some jealousy, but when I really grow up, I don't dare to do anything, I will feel that it is better to have a brother or sister, which is my personal feeling.

I don't think it's good, it's so lonely. I've experienced this feeling before, growing up being very lonely, with no one to play with, no one to worry about, etc. So I gave birth to two children, and I just hope that they can support each other and help each other in the future.

I don't think it's good to have an only child, and it will be very lonely, but because the current pace of life is very stressful, raising one child is difficult for many families to afford, so I want to have only one.

I don't give birth to one. But I love the feeling of being an only child. Brothers and sisters are competitors, heirs to your property, and existentialities that want your life, and I dare not make friends.

Parents can also give up on you if they have other options. You can also infringe on your interests because of the interests of other children, then you can no longer believe it.

I don't think it's good to be an only child. I won't give birth to just one, I will try to give birth to two, so that there can be a companionship between the children. Let the child grow better.

I don't think it's good to be an only child. He's going to be very lonely. And when I'm old, he may be tired of taking care of himself. I'm not going to give birth to just one.

I think it's very bad to be an only child, if it's yourself, you will have two children, so that the children can have a companion for each other, and they can help each other when they encounter anything.

I don't think it's good to have only one child, but I'll only have one. Because a child can be very stressful. But I'm afraid of pain, so I'll only give birth to one.

It's not good to be an only child, I will have two children. Although an only child can be slowly loved by his family, one day, I will go before him. If there are two children, even if I am gone, he will not be alone.

I don't think it's good, I won't just have one because it will reduce the pressure on my own children. So that he will not be alone.

I'm an only child, and so is my husband!

I didn't feel lonely, and I didn't feel lonely!

Who gave parents the confidence that an only child should be accompanied?

Giving birth to two is because parents want to give birth and want to add insurance coefficients to their pensions, don't say anything about giving a companion to their children and reducing the burden of their children!

I'll give birth to one, and give her all my love! She's going to have an accident, and I'm not going to live, it doesn't matter!

It's not good, the only child is not good for the child's growth, although the parents can reduce the burden, but the child is easy to be lonely in the process of growing up, and when he grows up, he will have to bear the responsibility of raising several old people.

If I have at least 2 births, otherwise I won't give birth. If you want to be my woman, you must promise to give me at least two, or you will not want to marry me. If I die alone because of this request, I am willing.

It's not good, because only children will feel very lonely and have no one to accompany them when they grow up, so I will choose to have two children if I have children in the future.

I don't think it's good that the child doesn't have a partner to play with. I won't, I'll have two, so that I can take care of them later.

I am an only child, I say that the happiest thing is to be an only child, childhood is very happy, your little friends can't play with you? Can't be accompanied? Who is rare to have multiple siblings!

Counted as an only child.

An only childThe only child born to a couple, in other words, without a single sibling. An only child has the same physical and mental development as a non-only child. However, sibling relationships play a role in the child's socialization.

In addition to the parent-child relationship, the only child has no sibling relationship, so its socialization has its own characteristics, but both the only child and the non-only child can learn to make friends. The one-child policy is a policy implemented in response to the call of the state to control the rapid growth of the population.

The definition of an only child is the only child born to a couple. If you have only one child, then your child is considered an only child, and whether you are considered an only child depends on whether you are the only child in the family.

There is no such thing as an only child.

I have only one son, and my son is not an only child.

So what does two children count?

In recent years, after the opening of the two-child policy, some families also have the idea of having a second child, and some want to be a companion for their children and have a second child. But will families that are too old to have a second child, or who have only one child for other reasons, be too lonely for their only child? Of course, everyone has their own views on this issue, after all, everyone thinks about the problem differently.

It is true that only children are sometimes lonely when they grow up, but only children also have several advantages that others cannot envy, and the following is a brief analysis:

01.There is no parental partiality for an only child.

Generally, a family of two children, whether it is a boy or a girl, as a parent, it is difficult to achieve a bowl of water, after all, there will be a certain deviation in each child's personality, learning ability and other aspects, as a parent will definitely like sensible and self-motivated children, especially when the child is in adolescence, it is the period of formation of personality and other aspects, and the slightest carelessness will deviate. But the only child is different, it can basically meet some of the needs of the child's normal life, and there is no comparison.

02.About children's school and future life.

The only child will also have a certain advantage in going to school, for ordinary families, supporting a child to study and supporting two children to study is completely different, because a child reading, first of all, to save money, if the child studies well, parents will wholeheartedly provide a child to study, which will reduce the burden of parents and improve the child's learning efficiency. Unlike the average family with 2 children, it may be a bit difficult. Therefore, if an only child has a good education, he will definitely be self-reliant when he goes to society in the future.

03.The burden of parental pension will not be too heavy.

Some people may say, how can it be too heavy for one person to raise two elderly people? That's because when the child is young, after all, it is to support a child, and the living expenses must be less than that of a family with two children, so the parents will not spend too much money, plus the parents each have their own pensions, etc., and the children also have the income to be self-reliant, it is obvious that pension is not a problem at all.

In fact, in life, whether it is an only child or a two-child family, it can only be said that there are pros and cons. After the opening of the second child, whether each family wants a second child or not is still decided according to the reality of their own family, and I wish every family happiness and health.

Of course, an only child does not have any advantages, and it is necessary to bear the burden of two families of the elderly.

The advantage of being an only child is still relatively large, and they can be loved and carefully taken care of by their parents.

I think the main advantage of being an only child is that you can enjoy the family's resources very well and don't have to share family resources.