As an only child, do you feel lonely?

You can feel lonely, and the loneliness is very intense. Nowadays, many places are open to three children, which may be a good thing for children, in the last century, because of the planned population, many families have one child, and only children are not a minority for families. Although the only child is anxious, millions of pampering in one, but accompanied by tens of millions of loneliness in one, although the child is the crystallization of the love of the parents, but this makes the child embark on a lonely road.

In today's developed society, I believe that many newborn families will not have only one child, especially the "only child" in the last century. These people will not let their children repeat the mistakes of the past, the days of being alone, the boundless loneliness.

Being an only child is a very bad experience. First of all, parents have to go to work, make money to support the family, often because of work can not take care of the children, if the children are young, they may also lock the children in the home, put the children in the endless loneliness, no one to play with, no one to talk to, no one can share, although there is good food, there is fun, no one will rob, but nevertheless, they are more of a person, no one can accompany them, can not let them experience the fun of getting along with people. An only child can't understand what it's like to have a brotherly relationship, and sometimes he even falls into the fact that others have older siblings, younger siblings, and resents that he is alone.

After the only child gets married, the pressure is still very great, they do not have brothers and sisters with other families to share the pressure, only they carry the family pressure of the old and the young, all the pressure of a family is carried on the shoulders of the only child, no one can share it with the only child, which is also a very uncomfortable thing. In today's society, although the country has opened the three-child policy, the social pressure is huge, and many strong people can't bear the pressure, and they don't want to get married at all, and even if they are married, they don't want children abound.

I think it's going to be lonely, because there's no one to play with. When my parents went out to work, they didn't have anyone to eat with them.

You will feel lonely, because after your parents go out of work, you will be the only one in the house, empty, only the mobile phone to accompany you, and it is not interesting to play with the mobile phone.

You don't feel lonely because an only child makes a lot of friends, has a lot of contact with relatives, and often communicates with her parents, so she doesn't feel lonely.

The current one-child wheel makes people really feel lonely in life because they don't have siblings. This loneliness is natural. With brothers and sisters, you can feel the warmth of the big family.

In the life of a person, we are always easy to lose ourselves and make wrong choices, but no matter how we make mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct them, it will not be too bad. Buddhism has clouds and bitter seas, no matter how much we go wrong, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out, people are not sages who can be without faults, and making mistakes is an essential part of life, life needs to make mistakes because there are mistakes will have self-confidence will have self-awakening, so as to better grasp the cautious potato and treat life well, do not because of a momentary mistake, to deny yourself, and do not because of a momentary mistake to deny the life of others, people live a lifetime. It is not because of a mistake that can be changed, don't be easily discouraged and compromised.

All the mistakes made today are an essential part of life, and for that more wonderful tomorrow. Life is always good and bad, right and wrong intersect, some things do not have to be upset, some roads go wrong do not need to panic, the journey of life is long, there will always be ups and downs, wrong regrets, we should be glad because on the way forward, every mistake is another growth in life, and we are constantly making mistakes, exploring in order to find our own, the right direction.

No. Because people are very lonely now, it has nothing to do with whether they are only children or not.

Hello! In a single-child family, because there is only one child and no siblings to accompany them, some people will think that the only child is lonely. Such a view is patently inaccurate.

The reason why Liang Yuanyi said this is because the only child can get the love of his parents, the care of his relatives, and the love of his friends, so the only child is not lonely.

1. An only child can receive the love of his parents, so he is not alone.

In a one-child family, the only child can receive all the love from his parents. This makes the only child feel more happy. ......In such a state, the only child will not only not feel lonely, but will feel very happy.

In fact, because they can have all the love of their parents, the living conditions of the only child will be more comfortable, and the corresponding will have more happiness. Therefore, an only child does not feel lonely in life.

2. Only children can also get the care of relatives, so they are not lonely at all.

Although the only child is not accompanied by siblings, the oak grandson is his own relatives will give them more care, which will make them feel very warm and their lives will be more fulfilling. ......An only child living in such an environment will not feel lonely, but will feel very comfortable and happy.

3. An only child can also be loved by his friends, so not only is he not lonely, but he is very happy.

The reason why some people think that an only child feels lonely is that they believe that an only child has no siblings and lacks the company of their peers. ......But in fact, the only child has many friends, and these friends are his peers, that is, his siblings ......With them, you can get more love, and the only child will feel fulfilled and warm because of it, and their life will not be lonely, but full of sunshine. ......For these reasons, an only child does not feel lonely because he or she has no siblings.

On the contrary, the life of an only child is very happy and fulfilling.

Whether or not an only child really feels lonely in life because of not having siblings is my answer is that it varies from person to person. If you can have good communication skills in life and get sincere friendships, then you will not feel lonely. On the contrary, you may feel lonely because you don't have any brothers and sisters.

However, there are exceptions to everything, and it cannot be generalized.

I am a post-80s generation, and since my generation of post-80s, most of us are only children. Growing up, even though we didn't have siblings and were just hail on our own, I never felt lonely. Because in my daily life and study, I have many classmates and friends who can accompany us to grow together.

Therefore, I don't think there is any such thing as whether you feel lonely in your life if you don't have siblings.

Of course, parents who want to have a second or third child now, for them, they want to choose to have another child, not because their child is an only child and feels lonely in life. In fact, I personally think that this is just one of the factors they consider, and perhaps the most important thing is that many parents think that having one more child is more reliable than a one-child family. After all, if you pin your hopes for the elderly in the future on one child, then the pressure on this child will definitely be great.

If you want one or two more children, you can share the pressure of this child very well. But I don't think it's directly related to loneliness and being an only child, the most important thing is that it depends on the child's ability to live.

Although many parents nowadays choose to have a second child because they feel that if the child they give birth to is an only child, they will feel lonely in life because they have no siblings, but I personally do not agree with this point of view.

I am not alone at all, all the love of my parents has been given to me, and because I have only one child and a small family burden, most of my material needs can be met from childhood to adulthood, and it will also allow me to make more trial and error, and will support me to follow the path I want to take.

I didn't seem lonely when I was a child, I was young, I had friends, I had classmates, I had colleagues, I loved others, and I didn't feel lonely when I grew up all the way. There is an old saying that there are many people who have a lot of right and wrong, and this sentence is also suitable for the family, anyway, when I was a child, I saw and heard that my brothers were fighting against each other because of a house. So at least in my opinion, an only child is not alone.

There is also the love of the father, the only child can also enjoy the love of the father and mother alone, and it is very common for the child to have an uneven bowl of water, and it will not feel lonely at all.

When my grandmother was hospitalized, my uncle, aunt, and my mother took turns to stay at the bedside for four months, 24 hours a day. Although there was no prevarication, everyone had a mortgage, they had to raise their children, and if they didn't go to work for a day, they wouldn't have a life, and in just four months, everyone was exhausted and miserable! Alas, it is really too difficult to think that now that the only child needs to take care of four elderly people in the future......What if one day we lose the love of our parents and do not have our brothers and sisters to share our pains?

As a matter of fact, the matter of providing for one's parents in the old age cannot be solved entirely by money, and having more children may not necessarily lead to better support. As for the loneliness of the only child, why don't you ask the two of them how they feel about having a second child and a third child? Now that there are a few children who have become children and don't need their parents' help to start a business, why don't you want to think about how your only child grows up?

Don't always use your child's loneliness as an excuse, first weigh whether you can afford your money and ability.

There is no one of my peers in the family, there is not even a person to talk to, some words can only be held in my heart, and I can only carry things alone, and the love given by brothers and sisters and parents is completely different. "All the people who persuaded me to have a second child used this reason, and the difference between the first child and the second child is more than ten years old, so I am not alone. Loneliness or not loneliness It doesn't matter if you have a few brothers and sisters, but if you have more children, you won't be alone?

no one looks down on them if they are not angry, and brothers and sisters who are uneven in wealth are even more chicken feathers! The key is education, and without education, no matter if one or a few are in vain.

No, because I already have a child.