If you only have one daughter in the city, will you let someone else s son take advantage?

I don't think so, my daughter will always be my own, even if I get married in the future, I will still take care of my mother's family, and generally my son-in-law will listen to my daughter's words, you will have one more son when you get married, and your daughter will come back with her son-in-law during the New Year's holidays, so there is no need to be taken advantage of by other people's sons.

The daughter will always be her own, even if she gets married in the future, she will still take care of her mother's family, and generally the son-in-law will listen to her daughter, you will have one more son when you get married, and the daughter will bring her son-in-law back during the New Year's holidays, so there is no other people's sons taking advantage of them.

This kind of thinking is subjective and partial, whether it is a daughter or a son, there is the same problem, especially the single-child family is facing such a problem, it is all a child, and both men and women have to marry, so there is no situation where anyone takes advantage and who suffers.

Now most of the families are one child, there are only one more children, if the girl's family is in the city and the family conditions are better, of course, after finding a boyfriend to get married, the family property is for the girl, so of course the man will take a lot of advantage.

If you have this kind of thought, then there is no way to do it, in fact, the person you gave birth to a son will also think of me, and if you give birth to a son, will you go to your mother-in-law's house to be a son? In fact, there is no need to worry, if you have this kind of thought, it means that you have taken your children for yourself, and they should have their own lives, whether they are male or female? In the future, they will all take on the responsibilities of a family.

I'm glad about your question, it's hard to say, if girls are very self-respecting and self-loving, they won't let others stand cheap.

The times are different, many people only want a child, and there are many people who are doing the Dink family, but they don't want children, and they don't understand today's young people!

It's hard to say.

Not necessarily, it could also be that this daughter took advantage of the rural man. People in the city are not necessarily richer than people in the countryside, and they are not necessarily of good character.

Rural men can never take advantage of urban women! Don't be delusional......

If you don't like it, you won't be together, why slander men, you're a princess in your family, but if you go out and get married, you're nothing.

I heard a phrase a long time ago, "For you little girl."

No, because the rural phoenix man is still a phoenix no matter what, he has a strong ability to work and live, and most of them can contribute to his family.

What age is it that there can still be such a thing as extinction.

What age is it, you still exist in your mind and are still out of stock.

Since the post-80s, there are so many only children in the city, and those who give birth to daughters are all out of the house in your eyes?! In 2013, it is expected that the number of families who have lost their independence will reach 10 million in the future.

Modify it and don't get excited. You're a daughter. You do what you can, and that's it. I gave my son money, but I don't believe that my son doesn't even take care of the elderly. So everybody has a share.

Daughter. Because it's not just a matter of morality, it's a matter of legal provisions.

Now many daughters come to support their parents, and sons are not birds for two reasons: the wife does not let them, and the other is that the daughter is still filial.

You should be a girl, you should support yourself when you are old, don't care about your children, they must also have money, lend them if they don't have money, plus interest Pay you back a piece If you join and can't even guarantee this, let them fend for themselves The country, society, and family don't need this kind of stupidity I suggest you: If they don't support you, you don't raise them Otherwise, wait to go to the street to ask for food, look at people's faces...

Don't mind if you talk straight It's just that the white-eyed wolves in society are angry when they think about it now.

So what's the loss, although you only give birth to a boy, but you also enjoy life more time, people who have two girls, they pay more for the family and raise one more girl, the hard work they pay, the same pension, you pay the same at work, why give you more.

If you feel that you have suffered a loss, you can have two daughters. The pension has nothing to do with the birth of a boy or a girl. Only girls born in rural areas are compensated when they are old.

There are also disadvantages and disadvantages in giving birth to children? If the economic conditions allow, no one will care about you if you give birth to two, and now the country has canceled the one-child policy and encourages the birth of a second child, if you think that you have suffered a loss, then you will not violate the national policy by having another one.

There is no such thing as a loss or a loss when having a child. Every child is an angel, if you want to give birth and you can afford to raise yourself, no conditions can bind you. What's more, having a child can't be measured by a pension, so let's be calm.

The division of children is decided according to one's own situation. It is not determined by whether you suffer or not.

Don't suffer, we have to put our minds at ease! What do you want, what you like.

If you have the money to raise children, you can have more children It's funny that there is a lot of pension Or is it expensive to have children and raise children Speechless If you are really rich, you won't care about this pension.

No matter how many dropout payments you have, what does this have to do with having more students and having fewer students?

It can be reflected, but it has no effect. Accept your fate! This is the policy that favors the weak.

Standing and talking does not hurt your back. You give birth to two daughters.

What kind of problem are you talking about, I can't understand it, I can't understand it, it's just a mess if I can't understand it.

I don't understand what you're talking about.

Whether you want a boy or a girl, this is a question that couples often encounter, and many couples want to have daughters, why do people nowadays prefer to have daughters instead of sons?

First, the burden of the daughter is light.

This is what many people think, boys need to take on more, and this is the responsibility that this society gives to boys. The man's family needs to provide financial support, house, and car when facing marriage, so the pressure to have a son is even greater, and many young people nowadays rely on their parents to enter marriage, and they cannot face marriage on their own. It is indeed less stressful to have a daughter, which is obvious to all, so having a daughter has become the idea of many young couples nowadays.

Second, my daughter is more intimate.

It is said that the daughter is the lover of the father's last life, and it is also the intimate little padded jacket of the parents, and the daughter is more able to understand the difficulty of her parents, which is determined by the character of the girl, and the girl is more emotional and pays more attention to feelings. Most boys have a rebellious period, and boys at this time tend to have-for-tat confrontations with their parents, and sometimes even have arguments. The education of boys is more difficult for parents, and boys do not think about their parents, they are blindly taking, parents will feel that boys are not intimate enough, and they do not know how to reciprocate themselves, so they are more willing to have daughters.

3. Girls will be grateful.

Parents are always selfless in their efforts, and they don't want their efforts to be reciprocated, and girls can see everything their parents have paid for themselves, they see it in their eyes, and they will use their actions to thank their parents, and thank their parents for giving them everything. And boys are not necessarily, of course, not all boys are so ruthless, most boys feel that their parents' efforts are taken for granted, girls feel that their parents' efforts are gifts, the two have different views, girls' views can be favored by their parents, so they can get the affirmation of their parents, so they are happier to have daughters.

Grandpa Mao is not liked by everyone, so why can't anyone like his son and not his daughter?

1. Those who have serious traditional patriarchal thinking.

This kind of thinking is more common in backward villages or among the older generation. I don't know if their family has tens of millions of assets waiting to be inherited or what, they want a son, as if only a son is worthy of inheriting his bloodline. Daughter.

I'm sorry, my daughter will marry in the future, she is a foreign family, and only a son can be counted as her own child.

2. The first child is a daughter, and she is ready to have a second child.

Many of these people are hoping for a second child. I once met a couple, Dabao is a daughter, his wife gave birth to a daughter for the second child, and her husband was slumped when he got a birth certificate in the hospital. Revealing a deep sense of disappointment and unhappiness.

In fact, it is understandable that having two children is the wish of having both children. But children are the most beautiful angels, and they are the most suitable gifts for you at the moment, regardless of men and women, and accept them gladly.

Looking at my friends, I slowly found that my daughter is even better than my son. The son was raised with a handful of and urine, and ran away with other mushrooms, honoring other people's mothers. The daughter has been thinking about her mother all her life, although the daughter has grown up and married and given birth to her own children, but she will always have a mother in her heart, and she will not be less caring for her mother.

Most of the sons are shy to express, and the relationship with their parents is relatively estranged, and they are not as happy as their daughters in their daily lives, especially when their sons grow up.

The most uncomfortable thing about giving birth to a daughter may be the moment when you marry your daughter, but you will be happy all your life; Giving birth to a son doesn't have to worry much in his life, and the day he marries his daughter-in-law may be the happiest.

There are three main reasons why I like to have a son and not like a daughter.

The first point is limited to the traditional concept of incense transmission. Although China has achieved socio-economic development and a great improvement in the level of education, there are still many areas where families believe that only boys can carry on the family lineage. The poorer and more traffic-constrained the area, the more severe this gender discrimination is.

The second point is that boys are the only ones who can support their families and improve their families' finances. This is also a very serious misconception, and the social division of labor in China has undergone great changes. In the past, girls did not receive education from an early age, and when they grew up, they were responsible for laundry and cooking at home, and took care of the whole family with children.

Now that China has entered the stage of compulsory education, girls have the same educational opportunities as boys. In the workplace, women also have a lot of work stages to display their abilities, as long as they are willing to pay, their income is not lower than that of men.

The third point is the issue of personal pure personality preferences. Some people don't have the above two traditional prejudices, but simply like the sunny and brave character of boys. Some mothers prefer their sons because they are attracted to each other, or they hope that their sons can protect themselves when they grow up!

In fact, in the area where I live, most families prefer to have daughters rather than sons. Because the cost of having a boy is too high now! Giving birth to a boy not only has to give him good material living conditions and educational resources, but also parents have to save money for their son from a young age to get married and buy a house.

Now that housing prices are so high, the average price of houses in many second- and third-tier cities has exceeded 10,000 yuan, and the houses in urban areas are going to be millions at every turn, how many families can afford their income? Families with two sons are under tremendous financial pressure. The daughter is different, the daughter is China Merchants Bank.

Because everyone feels that the burden of having a son is relatively large, and they will have to buy a house in the future, marry a daughter-in-law, and have money for the bride price, so the pressure is particularly great, but daughters are different, in fact, men and women are the same, they are all their own, the main thing is to educate well, everything can rely on the children to work hard, and parents don't need to worry too much.

The cost of giving birth to a son is too high, and in the future, when you get married, buy a house and buy a car, you will need money no matter what point it is, and the daughter is not only a caring little padded jacket, but also thinks about it herself.

Because raising a son will be a little more stressful than raising a daughter. When the son grows up and marries a wife, on the other hand, the daughter grows up and marries her husband, one is to pay money, and the other is to get money. In the case of daughters, the pressure on parents will be much less.

You can go to kindergarten or school and see the ratio of boys to girls, 1:7, which means how many boys will rob their heads in the future.

That's good, besides, whoever said that they would give the country they laid down to others, don't look down on women, women can still hold up a piece of the sky.

Men and women: Aren't they the same? It's good if it's your own flesh and blood, so what's the foreign surname.

Well, the ideological concepts are different, for example, women used to obey men, but now,

At first glance, he is a person who has a deep idea of inheritance.