Nowadays, it is generally appropriate to give a bride price for marriage

Gu Yu Data released the "2020 Chinese Bride Gift" on October 17.

According to the survey, the national average bride price in 2020 is 10,000 yuan. Among them, Zhejiang (10,000), Heilongjiang (10,000), Fujian (10,000), Jiangxi (10,000), Inner Mongolia (110,000), Shanxi (10,000), Liaoning (90,000), Guizhou (10,000), Yunnan (10,000), and Tianjin (10,000) ranked among the top 10 in the country and became the top 10 regions with the highest bride price.

The average bride price in Chongqing (10,000), Xinjiang (10,000), Jilin (10,000) and Hainan (10,000) is less than 30,000, which is known as the place with the lowest bride price in the country.

It is worth mentioning that in Beijing and Shanghai, which are the political and economic centers of the country, the bride price is 10,000 and 10,000 respectively, which is basically at the national average.

The auspicious number of the bride price money.

1. Thousands of purples and thousands of reds and greens.

It refers to 10,000 5 yuan bills, plus 1,000 100 yuan bills, and a 50 yuan bill. "Thousands of purples and thousands of reds" is 150,000 yuan"A piece of green"The groom can watch to give.

2. Three catties and three taels: refers to the hundred-yuan banknote of three catties and three taels.

This is equivalent to about 136,000 yuan.

3. Motionless: Motionless refers to the car, and motionless refers to the marriage room, and both things must be purchased in full payment.

4. Three gold and four silver: Three gold refers to gold necklaces and gold earrings.

gold rings; The four silvers refer to silver bowls, silver chopsticks, and silver hairpins.

Silver bracelets. 5. Palm pearl: refers to the bride price of 50,001 yuan.

6. The two families are issued together: the bride price is 21,800 yuan.

7. Three families issued together: It means that the bride price is 31,800 yuan.

8. Foolproof: It means that the bride price is 15,010 yuan.

9. Four flat and eight stable: refers to RMB 40,000.

10. One in 10,000 miles: refers to a bride price of 10,001 yuan.

11. Choosing a wife for thousands of miles: It means that the bride price is 10,007 yuan.

12. Two willingness: refers to a bride price of 20,000.

13. Fa Fa Fa Fa: refers to the bride price of 80,000 eight.

14. Perfect: refers to a bride price of 100,000 yuan.

Regarding the wedding bride price, it depends on the meaning of both parties, in fact, I think it doesn't matter if the bride price is more or less, the most important thing is that the two people are happy together. If you want a lot of bride price, then the man can't pay so much, which will lead to the repayment of the loan after marriage, which is particularly troublesome, but it is less, and the woman's family does not agree, so I think most of it can be discussed. Appropriate is fine.

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Most of the bride prices are 300 and 500, but depending on your relationship, if you feel better, you can give more.

We're giving a lot of 188,000.

Depending on the location, the amount of the wedding bride price is generally different.

1. Generally, when the engagement is made, when both parents are present, give it to the woman's parents. If you choose not to get engaged and get married, then just give a good spring before you get married, at a convenient time. As for the amount of bride price that the man's family gives to the woman's family, it depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the financial situation of the man's family.

2. How much is the appropriate bride price? In our country, depending on the region, there will be differences in the amount of the bride price. The general good socks area will be based on 10,000 and one, and there is no cap.

Because 10,000 and 1 means one in a million. Therefore, when we give the bride price, it should also depend on the situation. Because there is no fixed limit on the amount of money, we can also decide for ourselves.

However, it should not be lower than the minimum of local customs.

3. In fact, the bride price is just a form, and we can't measure the feelings between us because of its amount. Therefore, we can care about how much money is appropriate for the bride price, but don't care about how much the bride price is appropriate. In fact, the amount of the bride price is directly related to the daughter's parents and the man's parents.

Therefore, we have also seen many parents break up unhappily because of the sky-high asking price. In fact, the bride price is just a custom, don't think of it as a tool to make money.

Generally, it is almost the same as giving hundreds of thousands, and the meaning is going through the motions.

Depending on the local situation, there is also a discussion between the two families, those who are sincere, how much is not restricted, and those who are not sincere, how much is a matter.

The cost of the wedding bride price varies from region to region and is generally based on local customs. In China, the highest cost of the late round gift is in Fujian Province, while Chongqing is not popular in the bride price. According to the network survey statistics, the country is divided into 5 regions, namely the million yuan area, the 500,000 yuan area, the 100,000 yuan area, the 100,000 yuan area and the zero yuan area.

Generally speaking, the cost of the bride price should be determined by the requirements of the woman's family and the financial situation of the man's family. Therefore, there is no fixed amount of money for the cost of the wedding bride price, which can be determined on a case-by-case basis.

1. From my point of view, the bride price does reflect a man's attitude and the importance of a family. But it shouldn't be a condition.

In ancient times, the bride price was a custom of giving a bride price to each other when the marriage was initially reached. Here I would like to make it clear that it is a mutual gift, not a one-sided.

Moreover, it is not what the woman asks for, it is usually given by the man on his own initiative, nor is it compared with others, but reflects a kind of sincerity.

At the same time, after the woman receives the bride price, she will also add a dowry to her daughter on the basis of the bride price, which will slowly become the property jointly owned by the husband and wife.

2. Marriage is a matter of two people, and at the same time, it is also a matter of two families.

It is a pair of lovers who naturally enter the stage of marriage, one is willing to marry, the other is willing to marry, and form a new family.

Therefore, for the bride price, everyone should look at this matter calmly, and then analyze it objectively. I think it should be discussed together according to the man's family situation, rather than a mouthful of **, how much it must be.

What's the point of having such a marriage go on? Some people may contradict me, what do you get married if you don't have money, and you should be single if you don't have money. Yes, if you don't have money, you should be single, but shouldn't marriage be a matter of two people?

It is impossible for God to shout that Sui is one-sided, which makes me feel that it is a feeling of being willing to marry and a feeling of not wanting to marry.

Here, I would like to reaffirm my point of view that I support the bride price given by the married man. But this kind of giving is not a "clear price" divination, but varies from person to person, depending on each person's family background.

3. Of course, when a man gets married, he is not even willing to pay the bride price, which means that you are not so important in his mind. Especially those with good family conditions can get this money, but they are unwilling to give it.

Let's think about how much energy and effort it takes for the parents of a woman to raise a daughter. And you only think about your own contributions, not about other people's parents. That can only show that the person is very selfish.

On the other hand, the process of a woman getting pregnant and giving birth to a child is quite dangerous, even if medicine is so developed now, there is still a certain risk for a woman to give birth to a child.

Then, as long as the woman is not shouting the sky-high bride price, it is completely within the scope of your family economy, and the man should not care about those bride price.

The bride price is a part of the traditional Chinese wedding, and the parents of both parties agree before the marriage that the man's family should give the woman's family gifts and decorations to the woman's family as a "meeting gift" for the marriage. In today's society, it is not certain whether or not to obey the opinions of parents about the bride price.

1.Respecting the opinions of parents is a traditional etiquette. In traditional Chinese culture, it is very important to respect the opinions of elders and traditional etiquette, and many families will make important decisions about family matters based on this tradition.

In such cases, it may be a common choice to follow the advice of your parents.

2.Regarding the bride price, the husband and wife should fully communicate and make a reasonable plan. Both parties should discuss the family's financial situation together and work out a bride price plan that is in line with the family's financial strength.

The bride price should be reasonable, do not overspend, and you can consider other ways to express your heart, such as the wedding brother cherry blossom late ceremony**, wedding dance, etc.

3.In today's society, many couples do not want a cumbersome bride price ceremony, they may prefer to marry frugally, and focus on the celebration of the wedding and the development of the family business. In this case, the couple can make their own choice about the bride price and tell their parents about their considerations.

On the whole, there is no fixed answer to the question of bride price, but it needs to be considered according to the situation of each family, which should respect traditions, but also pay attention to reasonableness, economy and practicality, and the husband and wife need to communicate and negotiate, and the parents of both sides also need to be considerate and supportive.

As for how much bride price is more suitable for marriage, it is more appropriate to decide according to the economic conditions of your family, such as giving 68,000 to express your heart, which is more appropriate.

How much color to give for marriage has to be based on local customs, depending on the local customs of your place, each place is different, and this scattered bride price can also be decided according to the discussion between the two families.

Throughout the past ten years, affected by many factors, except for a very few areas, the bride price throughout the country is not only widespread, but also the bride price and even the sky-high bride price continues to appear, the bride price money is more and more, especially in some rural areas has become a typical "hard-hit area", has really affected the marriage of young men and women. Not to mention anything else, just the more than 30 million singles in the country, the vast majority of which are in rural areas, is the best proof, and the bride price is undoubtedly one of the most important reasons.

Judging from the latest ranking of China's wedding bride price, it has to be said that the bride price affects the marriage. Jiangxi, which ranks first, has a bride price of 380,000 yuan, and a house and a car, even if it is a relatively good family in the countryside, its burden is conceivable and self-evident. The second place Fujian is 300,000, and the third place Zhejiang is also 250,000.

The key is that in the economically underdeveloped areas of China's northwest, Gansu's bride price has also reached 130,000, plus a house and a car. Shaanxi also needs 120,000 yuan, plus a down payment for the house and expensive jewelry. For the more backward areas, it is not easy to make money, and it should be a relatively heavy burden.

Looking at all parts of the country, especially in rural areas, the reason why there are so many singles should be said to have a very important direct relationship with the bride price. In order to provide for their own old age, many elderly people in rural areas take the opportunity of marrying their daughters to ask men for high bride price, and some of them are even as high as hundreds of thousands of yuan, so that many young men in rural areas sigh because they do not have so much money, or they cannot afford to marry a daughter-in-law at all. Bride price, it is this ** and sky-high bride price, so that rural young men who do not have economic conditions become leftover men and singles, and at the same time, many young women who want to marry delay their marriage because of money, and it is difficult for many lovers to become dependents in the end.

In recent years, the Ministry of Civil Affairs of the People's Republic of China has successively carried out a nationwide pilot reform of marriage customs, and put forward specific guiding opinions on disturbing Feng, vigorously advocating changing customs, advocating "zero bride price", and frugal marriage. And many areas have indeed implemented it very well, and have truly achieved "zero bride price" and "low bride price". It is said that in Chongqing and other places, most women not only do not want a penny of bride price, but also pay for the dowry for their daughter's marriage.

It should be said that according to the local folk customs, it is reasonable for the man to give the woman an appropriate dowry to express his gratitude to the woman for raising her daughter. However, if you want to open your mouth, you will ask for hundreds of thousands, and you must have a house and a car, won't such a marriage become sour? Therefore, as long as the man does not have enough money, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law.

To sum up, in addition to other factors, the bride price should really be an important reason that directly affects the marriage of men and women. Therefore, the author calls on the whole society to actively pay attention to the reform of marriage customs, implement the relevant regulations of the state, advocate "zero bride price", resist "** bride price" and "sky-high bride price", and support marrying love and oppose marrying money for the happiness of young people.