Does growth make us stronger and braver, or does it teach us hypocrisy and indifference?

Growing up means that the buildings around you are gradually getting smaller, it means that you have to slowly and carefully experience the aging of your parents, and growing up means that you have more and more things to bear, and it also means that your worries will gradually increase like palm prints.

gradually grew up, gradually understood that you can no longer be willful, and gradually understood that no matter how bitter it is, it should be a calm appearance; As I grew up, I gradually understood the weight of the word responsibility, and gradually understood that not all times we have to be understood, and not all times we need to be explained.

gradually understand that distant care is also a kind of love, and giving up is also a way to complete the relationship; I gradually understand that my feelings are not cherished every time, and what I want is not always available.

Grow up, sharpen, mature, and know how to be for others.

Growing up means responsibility.

Be responsible for yourself.

Be accountable to others.

Although growing up is a burden.

But everyone inevitably has to grow up.

This is also the law of nature.

You don't have to worry about it.

Both sides! Hehe! 、

But! No matter what!

Please keep your original innocence!

I'm also struggling with this question!

What to do? Because I must also want to become the same as the adult door, referring to some bad nature!

Hehe! But that doesn't seem possible?

People can have many faces.

Don't you know?

You can optionally put on your own face.

Use your most authentic self to your loved ones.

Use the most enthusiastic self for friends.

Use the most sincere self to outsiders.

Use the most indifferent self to the enemy.

Use the most hypocritical self to the bad guys.

Growth makes people mature, let people learn to understand the world, let people learn to face life, growth is indispensable on the road of life, growth changes life.

As the saying goes, a newborn calf is not afraid of a tiger. At first, we didn't know anything, we didn't know how cruel and realistic society was.

We are very brave to say that we are not afraid, we have our own dreams, we can move forward without fear.

When we have been in society for a few years, we will feel how naïve and ignorant our previous sees were.

When we are brave, we feel that anything can happen. When we are cowardly, we dare not think about what happens to us.

Young people may have nothing, but youth is their best asset, because they have infinite possibilities for bad omen.

And middle-aged people have no sharpness in them, and they don't have so many extravagant dreams. They are bent on living in peace. Although they have a family, a wife and children, a savings, a house and a car, this is all the good things they have, but the good things of hunger and rent have also become their shackles.

They don't want to lose what they've got. If you want to keep the beauty in front of you, you have to endure some unfair treatment.

They don't dare to lose their jobs, they don't dare to leave. When something happens, you can only swallow your anger and stay. Because they have a family to support, they can't live without money. They don't have a life of their own, and all their goals are looking at money.

They don't have extra time for themselves, they try to spend all their time for their careers, for their families, for their wives and children, the more they have, the more labels they have, the more labels they have, and these labels are proof that they have everything, but the less they have themselves.

When you know the cruelty of society, admit the reality. The former "boy" is gone. You will no longer be the brave teenager, teenager is not a biological age marker.

It's still a state of life, and it's an attitude that belongs only to teenagers.

When we were teenagers, we took little responsibility, we would do things recklessly, and sometimes we would even go on a rampage, and when we knew that we had to bear the consequences, the sense of youth was far away from us.

Whether you want to believe it or not, juvenile feeling is an irreversible thing. When you mature, you may be impulsive about someone or something. But after being impulsive, you must definitely apologize for the way. Keep this to a minimum.

When we grow up, we know how helpless we are, and we understand how precious we are when we are young.