Does such a teacher have obsessive compulsive disorder? I m a teacher, but I have obsessive compulsi

It's not obsessive-compulsive.

Depending on the situation, it cannot be generalized.

1. If it is a normal class for 45 minutes during the day, such a teacher is really irresponsible, very incompetent, and not suitable to be a teacher.

2. If it's another type of class (such as sports, etc.), it's okay to go down a little earlier. When I was in school, I wanted my teacher to leave early.

3. If it's at night or on a day off, the ghost is willing to go to the class. (Who doesn't want to have a good rest when they have time off?) ）

The young teacher deliberately dressed very old-fashioned, probably because he wanted to blend in with the group, and if he was too individual, he would not be commensurate with his surroundings. As a teacher, it is better to dress moderately, not too earthy, not too avant-garde.

LZ If only the situation had been made clearer.

Absolutely not, if this is obsessive-compulsive disorder, obsessive-compulsive people all over the world will go crazy with joy.

It's not obsessive-compulsive, it's irresponsible. Nowadays, many young people have no career plan and no requirements for work. That's why it's like this. It has nothing to do with obsessive-compulsive disorder.

This is not obsessive-compulsive disorder, it can only be said that he has a problem with his personality, low emotional intelligence, and it is likely to have something to do with IQ, I really don't know how such a person became a teacher, lz, I sympathize with you.

There is no mentally perfect person, in a certain period of time, everyone has more or less this or that problem, maybe after this period of time, some are personal problems in everyone's opinion, of course, the extreme problem has to see a doctor.

Don't take the problem seriously, first, don't take your anxiety too seriously: in today's society, anxiety plagues many people, which is very common. Don't put too much pressure on yourself such as "obsessive-compulsive disorder" unless it affects your life or you want to talk to a counselor.

The second is not to take students' grades too seriously: grades cannot determine the fate of children, and they cannot determine whether children will be happy in the future. Personality, character, concepts, etc. are far more important than grades, and it may be more important to help children understand themselves and society.

Your child's grades are not something you can decide, and if you can decide your child's grades for the rest of your life, it's worth being a little anxious. The truth is that we can't control the fate of others, at most we can pull him. Since we are not so important, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, we are all ordinary people, doing ordinary things, we can do better within our ability, look up to the sky, bow down to the ground, you can feel at ease.

Children grow up day by day, become sensible day by day, watch them grow up, watch them achieve results, and watch them encounter setbacks, which is a gratifying thing. With a happy mood, giving them a relaxed environment, so that they can grow up happily and healthily, is really a huge reward.

Teacher, you are conscientious, and the reason why you think this way is because you care too much about your students. It's the so-called "too much"! Too much fear of failure is not good, whether the teacher teaches well depends on the teacher's teaching, but also depends on the student's cooperation, and the student's fault for not cooperating well.

Now that the student has done well, you don't have to worry too much.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is a pathological psychology, but it can be overcome. You should be optimistic, sometimes too pessimistic can turn comedy into tragedy, and optimism can turn danger into danger. This test looks like I want to be on my body, the teacher is sick, can the student be?

In another way, even if the student does not do well in the exam, he should think that he will do well in the exam next time, as long as I do my best, I have no regrets, because I already love the student like a son, and there are too many results and things in the world that we cannot predict and decide. The ancients said: "Success lies in people, and things are planned in heaven", and how to abide by the laws of nature as a result, things must be reversed.

Students are optimistic and happy, and it is natural to be happy; I didn't do well in the exam, but I also had optimism.

If your parents knew that you loved your child like a child, they would be considerate of you, and it would not be so serious as to kill your parents.

Be optimistic and don't say no.

There are very few good teachers like this, and I really envy your students because they have such responsible and good teachers!

You don't have to be too nervous, in fact, obsessive-compulsive disorder is to put it bluntly is perfectionism + accidental experience + wrong coping.

But if you just say you're worried, it's not obsessive-compulsive. This is why you aim too high and cause your anxiety and compulsion.

I think you lower your goals a little bit, and then focus your attention on where you need to focus, and you shouldn't always focus on "not being happy even if you get a high score". It will naturally improve over time.

We must act, action changes psychology, action establishes new reflections, and only focusing on how to adjust is equivalent to talking on paper!

I hope you can be happy with your students so that they can reach their full potential, because they think, "Isn't it the greatest joy to be able to be friends with your teachers and learn together?" Because I'm a student too

I'm always worried that they will fail in the exam, what does this mean? Obsessive-compulsive disorder?

In fact, this is not the case, teachers care about students' grades, it is a manifestation of deep love, responsibility, and responsibility for the work, it is not your problem, but you magnify your ideas, and only see the "forced" side...

You are also misguided, after all, their grades are good, so don't blame yourself...Think about what it was like to teach students in the past, but now that you have experience, you are overwhelmed...

You can see that you are a good teacher who is responsible, introspective, and thinks.

You can prescribe a small stove for them. Change your clothes.

If the obsessive-compulsive disorder is too severe, I take medication while doing psychological counseling. Medication: You tell the doctor to prescribe some low-dose antipsychotics, and the effect is good.

I read everything you wrote, including the reply. I can feel that you are thinking a lot, working hard, and at the same time eager to solve the problem.

However, it is useless to encounter a hurry, you must also calm down and face it seriously.

First, do you have such problems when talking to your mother? Are you afraid that your mother will look at you?

Second, you must have made a lot of efforts to change your situation, so, after all this effort, has your situation improved or worsened?

Third, although it feels scary to talk to people, have you realized that these excessive reactions are actually unnecessary, or even funny?

1. Communication barriers, subconscious resistance and rejection of communication, such as if you want to look at someone, and a certain thought in your mind forces you to shift your gaze with a sense of "discomfort", it is the subconscious.

2. Why does the subconscious mind reject communication? Because the desire of the self is strongly suppressed by the self, because the self has been infiltrated by the self-discipline or social customs, habits, morals, laws and other norms after certain experiences, it has entered the unconscious or even subconscious level. You look at a beautiful woman of the same age and you feel discomfort, you look at a 3-year-old girl who doesn't feel uncomfortable.

3. Obviously, it is very difficult to change your subconscious, even if you find your heart knot, it is difficult to solve it, not to mention that you can't figure out where the heart knot is.

4. A method that can be tried is "break everything to rebuild", of course, this is a long story, in which self-hypnosis is a method.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is a mental illness, the best way is psychological** and drug**, almost all OCD friends have a large history of psychology and drugs, and many people have lost confidence in **. In fact, as long as you persist, OCD can be completely adjusted. You should know:

The past is not equal to the future, the previous **unsuccessful does not mean that the future ** is also invalid, the following question channel psychological network to share some obsessive-compulsive self** methods, of course, there will be certain difficulties in their own operation, this can only rely on your friends' own determination, willpower and comprehension.

First of all, let's understand the two stages of OCD formation.

Stage 1: When an idea, idea, thing, or situation appears at the same time as one's own anxiety, pain, or fear, these thoughts, ideas, things, or situations are associated with one's own anxiety, pain, or fear, and through conditioning, these thoughts, ideas, things, or situations have the ability to cause anxiety, pain, or fear. Obsessive-compulsive thoughts are formed when these thoughts, concepts, things, or situations are intrusive, unpredictable, uncontrollable, and uncontrollable into our brains.

Phase II. Avoidance and avoidance behaviors arise to alleviate this anxiety, distress, or fear, and if the avoidance and avoidance behaviors are successful in alleviating this anxiety, distress, and fear, these behaviors are reinforced and maintained. As mentioned above, obsessive-compulsive thoughts tend to be intrusive in nature, so many situations that trigger obsessive-compulsive thoughts are difficult to really avoid, and more proactive ways, such as ritual behaviors, are used to relieve anxiety, pain, or fear, and these ritual behaviors persist because they temporarily relieve anxiety, pain, or fear, and we think that these ritual behaviors are the only effective way to relieve anxiety, pain, or fear. Eventually, compulsive behaviors are formed.

Although anxiety, pain, or fear is temporarily relieved after the compulsive behavior is committed, we immediately regret and blame ourselves, which increases the anxiety, pain, or fear again. Because of regret and self-blame, we try our best to control and stop the compulsive behavior before the next time we want to do it, but in the end, we fail to implement the compulsive behavior, and we fall into a vicious circle of regret and self-blame again. This intense inner conflict is the greatest pain for OCD friends**.

Nowadays, more and more people are suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder, which brings a lot of unnecessary troubles to their daily life. And if people don't pay attention to the cause of OCD in time, it may make it easy for the disorder to haunt you. Therefore, everyone should understand the causes of OCD in advance in order to prevent the emergence of this disease in time.

If you don't feel pain if you don't do it, then it's not an obsessive-compulsive disorder but just a habit. In fact, many times normal people also have compulsive behaviors, but if these normal compulsive behaviors do not affect their lives, there is no problem, and these behaviors will gradually disappear over time. But sometimes, if these behaviors are linked to certain beliefs that make you feel very distressed if you don't do so, then it is likely to be an obsessive-compulsive disorder that needs your attention.

You think too much, you don't have to force yourself to look into other people's eyes, give yourself a little time to get used to it. You're right, but there's no point in not being able to do it yourself. Practice slowly, just look at it for a while at first, and slowly prolong it. You can try to start with a mirror.

Really, I'm also an obsessive thinker, and I know what it feels like, don't push yourself!

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is a heart disease, and heart disease should be treated with Buddhism. The Dharma is okay, but all the sorrows and sufferings in the world, birth, old age, sickness and death.

Objectively accept all the symptoms you are present and do what you have to do with these problems, the symptoms themselves are not the problem, the problem is that we think they are bad, why is this happening? Because we have been indoctrinated with all kinds of value judgments, all kinds of creed systems since we were young, we will say that those are unnecessary, they are meaningless, we can't be like this, how can we be like this? But we suddenly fall into the state that life can only be in the present, or there is no life outside the present, because we can only live in the present, so the ** forced station is to honestly accept your state at this moment, without any requirements, take all this for granted, purpose, blessing!

Landlord: Hello! It's very common to be like you In today's society, due to the pressure of all aspects, many people will have some psychological problems to a greater or lesser extent, and they should not have too much psychological burden.

It is recommended that you exercise more, participate in meaningful group activities, communicate more with others, discuss and share stories, and maintain a healthy and happy mood every day to help regulate and improve your situation.

Forcing ** on anxiety and building up the inner defense system, it's good.

In fact, everyone has more or less similar experiences, take me for a while, I have been thinking about these not in a state, sometimes I feel that I am in a good mood to figure it out, but after a while, I am addicted again, and I am also confused about what to do. Based on my experience, my advice is to set goals and make plans, be very detailed, and then strictly implement them. I also want to expand my reading as much as possible, cultivate some hobbies, and distract myself to cultivate my sentiments.

The more you learn, the less likely you are to be limited by yourself.

As for the obsessive-compulsive disorder you mentioned, I personally don't recommend making such preconceived judgments. The diagnosis of obsessive-compulsive disorder requires a lot of physiological data. Looking at your situation, I don't think it's far from being sick, don't feel confused and anxious about your situation is sick.

But it is undeniable that your emotions do cause trouble in your life, but have you noticed that most of the anxiety you say about you actually comes from the outside world, other people's evaluation of you, the influence of others on you, and the concern about test scores can also be classified as other people's opinions about you. Confusion and anxiety because of these should not be a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder, I prefer to call it the distress of adolescence. Everyone must have had some degree of success, not daring to look at others, and being timid in front of the opposite sex.

My advice is also very simple, build self-confidence, or to put it bluntly, know yourself correctly. You know what I mean. Don't expect too much from yourself, let alone self-loathing.

Don't worry about anything else, figure out what you want. When you figure it out and fight for it, self-confidence comes naturally.

As for the discomfort of looking at people, it is definitely not surprising that most people will have, and my advice is to get used to it slowly, and if you can't look directly into other people's eyes, you can look at other people's noses and talk, so that it will not seem rude or uncomfortable. As for the generation of this discomfort, I personally think that it is a role of a psychological defense mechanism of people, so I will not repeat it here. As for eye dodging, it will indeed give people a sense of unwillingness and affect others' good impression of you.

Listen to me, don't try to communicate with others in the "most perfect" posture, it will only backfire. The most important thing in communication is nature, even if you don't perform it perfectly. In the final analysis, I am still not confident, only after a complete understanding of myself, I will know what I want, what I should value and grasp, and shape and hone myself in a down-to-earth manner, each of us still has a long way to go.