Is it good to find a partner and get married?

I think everything must have a degree, if you are very honest, it is easy to lose some opportunities that you should be able to win in life or work, and it is not easy to succeed.

Hello, I think it's good whether it's a boyfriend or a husband who is honest and down-to-earth, but if it's cowardly and not responsible, it's not good.

Well, that's for your own needs. What kind of person do you want your object to be, there is a saying that radish and cabbage have their own love, and honest people have some people who like it, and some people don't like it.

Be clear about yourself before you know if it's good or not.

Of course, there will be good and bad places when people are honest.,It has nothing to do with whether you find a partner and get married.。。

There are pros and cons, in the case of not encountering strong winds and waves in life, honest people are indeed a good choice, although they are not rich and expensive, but they are very secure.

Certainly the best. But encountering and identifying depends on chance and wisdom.

Take advantage of the good and choose an honest person.

Choose someone who suits your heart, honesty and shrewdness are relative, if you are a shrewd person, then choose an honest husband will be depressed to death; If you are an honest person, then choosing a husband who is a shrewd person will be very insecure. Therefore, the marriage partner should be chosen according to your own situation, and the reasons are as follows:

1. Whether you are honest or shrewd, as long as you have no problem with your character, you can do it.

The most important thing to find a marriage partner is to look at the other party's character and whether they are responsible, as for whether they are honest or shrewd, it depends on their own preferences. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and as long as the core strengths of this person can meet their own requirements, then it is a good partner. When looking for an object, you should focus on the big and let go of the small, and it is easier to find a satisfactory object.

Second, when looking for a marriage partner, it depends on whether you have feelings for each other.

Marriage is not compromised at all, and a marriage without feelings is like two hedgehogs living together, often hurting each other. In marriage, there are too many things to compromise, and if both parties have no feelings, they will think of themselves when they encounter anything. Such a person, whether honest or shrewd, will not be able to get by.

3. When looking for a husband, you must find someone who is self-motivated.

Some men are honest, but down-to-earth and do things step by step, such men are reliable and can be married. If a man is very shrewd, but thinks about being opportunistic, clever, and doesn't care about doing things every day, it is better not to choose such a man, otherwise he will always be poor in the future.

Therefore, it is still shrewd to find an honest marriage partner, depending on your own situation, as well as the character of the other party, and look at the lowest point of human nature. Everyone wants to find the best person within their means. A woman hopes that the husband she marries is handsome, golden, motivated, and humorous.

But striking iron still needs to be hard, and you have to be worthy of such a man, otherwise it's just a dream. Find someone with good economic conditions and feelings for yourself, this kind of person is the best marriage partner.

It doesn't matter whether you choose an honest person or a shrewd person to choose a marriage partner, what you want to choose is what is good for yourself and generous enough. Honest people are honest to others, and they are not honest to themselves, so they can't choose. A shrewd person, shrewd to others, not shrewd to himself, and a caring person, can also choose.

It's better to choose an honest one, it will be more down-to-earth to be with an honest person, and it will make you feel very tired when you are with a shrewd person.

It is better to marry an honest person, because it is more realistic, and it is easier to solve conflicts if there are contradictions. Savvy people, on the other hand, are more calculating, and if two people have unequal IQs, they are easy to be used as a snack by each other.

Personally, I think that you don't need to be particularly honest and shrewd when choosing a marriage partner, you should choose the kind of person who does your duty and is ordinary, because this kind of person is the most suitable for talking about friends.

Older leftover women single aristocrats can choose honest people to marry, because honest people are reliable and credible, honest people are more honest and trustworthy, honest people don't smoke, don't drink, big shrewd people are not enough to be unreliable, older leftover women to marry or choose older leftover men single nobles Honest people are better.

Personally, I think it would be better to choose an honest person when choosing a marriage partner, which will give you a lot of security.

Asking this question is estimated to go out without a brain, what is an honest person? Isn't it enough to be educated by honest people? The so-called honest person is just a character performance, do you really think it's not enough IQ?

This answer asks yourself.

If you are shrewd, you will find an honest one.

Be honest with yourself, then find someone who is smart.

Be honest with me and shrewd with the shrewd.

To use an analogy, the food in the restaurant is delicious, can you eat it every day? Although the light meal at home is not as good as in the restaurant, but you are full of food, which one do you think is better?

From my personal point of view, I still prefer honest people because I think honest people are more reliable.

The person to marry must choose an honest person, even if an honest person does not have a shrewd person who will earn money and have brains.

The marriage partner is a person who wants to stay with each other for a lifetime, and if you are with someone who is too shrewd and calculating for a lifetime, it will be very tiring to get along after marriage. And honest people have a lot less problems, honest people will not worry too much about you, know how to be humble, and will not hide their hearts with you, one is one, two is two, and it will not be too much brains to get along.

Marriage is not like falling in love, and being humble can last a long time.

When you fall in love, you will always find someone who is on the same level as you, commonly known as like-minded. Two people get along like playing Tai Chi, you come and go, you cheat, you don't want to be the one who loses in this game, it consumes too much brain and energy.

After getting married, in the face of family pressure and life pressure, if it is still like when you are in love, one thing always has to come out of a game, then how tiring life should be.

It's like a girl asks a boy to go downstairs to buy a vinegar, and the boy has to find a reason to refuse, and he has to set up an argument for himself for this reason, the girl just wants the boy to run an errand, and the boy has so many excuses to prevaricate, so what can you expect from the boy in the future? Is it that in the future, when he lies on the operating table and waits for the boy to sign to protect the adult or the child, the boy will do the same? Is such a man still worth entrusting for life?

An honest person will not play tricks, and has an absolute self-position in the face of major rights and wrongs; In the trivial matters of life, of course, just turn a blind eye, humility does not mean that you can be bullied, humility is because of love, how can there be who is right and who is wrong between the two people, as long as you don't make a big mistake, who is the loser.

An honest man, wise and foolish.

Honest people, on the surface, are stupid and harmless, but in fact they are wise and foolish, and many honest people are late bloomers.

It's not that honest people can't make money, it's just that the money earned by honest people is hard money, and it's all real.

Marry an honest man, he will give you a stable family environment and will not let you worry about the stress of life.

Two people will not spend the night when they quarrel, because the honest man will surrender first, and the honest man knows that quarreling hurts feelings.

If you marry an honest person, you won't worry about having an extramarital affair, and if you marry an honest person, you will only be good to your wife wholeheartedly, and you won't be hypocritical.

Honest people have long love, and if you choose an honest person to get married, you will live a taste of life and experience a different life.

Why are more and more people getting married and looking for honest people now? The reason is also very simple, honest people don't have to worry about bringing you a green hat, you can be obedient, what you say is what, life is three points and one line, and plain is true.

Of course, I will find an honest person to live my life, but that's because I like a comfortable and leisurely life. What I want is to open a small bakery or café, raise a puppy with the person I like, go out to buy groceries every day after work, and go back to assign who cooks and who washes the dishes, this simple and warm life.

Some people are not suitable for this, they are born to love freedom. She likes to get out of work every night and have dinner with friends. Going out on weekends to buy all kinds of things, such a person is destined to be unhappy to find an honest person.

The worldview is different, how good it is to find a like-minded person, two people to hang out together, and compare when to live a life.

One of my brothers got married last year and has children this year, because of physical reasons, he got married at the age of 32, and found a sister-in-law who I personally don't like very much, my sister-in-law is divorced, and I can't talk about the waves, but I definitely don't live at home, but my brother just likes it, after getting married, it's my brother who cooks, it's my brother who earns money, and I have to help my aunt with a child. I don't do anything all day, and I hate this and that. Every time I go to his house, I get so angry.

I hope that those who hold the idea of finding honest people after the waves are over, consider the feelings of others, honesty is not wrong, they deserve better people, don't harm others, you are worthy of what you are.

As a result, the choice of the object is still to choose a more shrewd one: "honest" itself is a more general word, each person's understanding is different, most people feel that they don't like to talk or will not praise themselves, the character is not public, and the person who can endure and never take the initiative to conflict with others is an honest person, and most people's subconscious honest people are honest, kind, and responsible. In fact, everyone may have misunderstood honest people, we say that a person is honest just to see some things that a person is very good at, he doesn't like to talk may just be that he is not good at words (some even have social barriers, not a plus), he doesn't like to praise himself (may be inferior in his heart or originally had nothing extraordinary), as for the character is not public, does not cause trouble, and can endure (may be determined by their social status and conditions).

Many girls with better economic conditions, since childhood, do not care much about the economic conditions of their marriage partners, just want to find an honest person, thinking that honest people will do their duty and will not disappoint them, but later they have been slapped in the face by reality, those honest people will not be pampered by you because you do not dislike, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law he is more likely to favor his own mother (because he wants to be a filial son), and he can't figure out the relationship between relatives and friends (you can't figure out whether he is your husband or someone else's small worker), He can't figure it out with his work colleagues.,Which day it's really good to become a possibility, you don't know (the result of long-term depression.,It's easy to find a junior)....Of course, if you marry a shrewd person, his IQ and EQ don't need to be doubted, he can do a good job in his interpersonal relationships and work, and he has thought it out to marry you, since he chose you, he knows in his heart what you mean to him. At least the shrewd man is transparent, and it will be much easier for you to marry him.

I think that to be an honest and shrewd person, you can't become without being shrewd. Shrewd people, good at planning, often brainy, mouth is also smart, can speak, people before and after the white, want to take the lead in everything, so as to take advantage, why let me suffer? is the mantra of this type of person.

Playing smart, engaging in small actions, and playing right and wrong are the specialties of this kind of person. Savvy people are often talented, sharp, aggressive, and moody.

They generally feel good about themselves, sometimes have talents, have the impulse to meet talents, are prone to gains and losses, and have great mood swings. This type of person can be found almost everywhere, and they are an active group in life.

Typical representatives, such as the noisy and clever Mr. Bajie on the road to learn scriptures, and Ms. Sister Feng who has exhausted all the tricks in the Dream of Red Mansions and is out of the limelight. Smart people are mostly talented and introverted; Good at the size of the power, the long-term, the big profit, do not fight for the first time, the length of the short;

Good at controlling and regulating oneself, far-sighted, and self-confident; Have the ability and personality charm; Strong sense of community, generally good interpersonal relationships. Smart people are always in the minority, the backbone of the crowd, even the core molecule. Zhao Yun of the Three Kingdoms, both wise and brave, but there is no Guan Yu and Zhang Fei who are so forced. Lu Xun of Eastern Wu, a weak scholar, is not well-known, but he is a handsome talent, he was ordered in danger, and he succeeded in the first battle. Understand that there are fewer people.

This kind of person is often wise and foolish, good at hiding clumsy, returning to the basics, and reciting real people without showing their faces. Understand that people can be good at themselves, understand everything, have an open-minded personality, be indifferent and ambitious, advance and retreat freely, honor and disgrace are not shocked, life and death are calm, and the heart is as calm as water. Jia Baoyu in the later period saw through the red dust and knew that he had come from ** to **, and he knew the fate of the twelve sisters. For everything that happens on the other side, he is calm, regards fame and fortune as dung, does not flow with the world, and in the turbid and chaotic Grand View Garden, the only one who is sober is only a treasure jade. (Lu Xun) retired after success, the only one who did not go to Fang La, Mr. Gongsun Sheng, nicknamed Yunlong, is actually a dragon among people, the first person in Liangshan. Savvy people are generally born with an aura that is naturally revealed. Sister Feng has not been to school for a day, she can't read two big characters, and she has had 10,000 hearts and eyes active in Jiafu since she was a child. Most of the smart people are related to the acquired learning and cultivation, which is the result of genius and hard work. Understand that people often go through vicissitudes, read the world, and understand life. Fulklandlin said he was governed by will at the age of 20, by wit at the age of 30, and by judgment at the age of 40.

There is an innate element of will, and wit is of course a manifestation of intelligence, and being good at judging what is not wise can not be done.

Lao Tzu said that those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear. Understanding is the highest state of life, and many heroes and geniuses are difficult to achieve in their lifetimes. Zhiduoxing Wu Yong, clever and intelligent, Shenggongsun, Sai Zhuge is in the main army, but he is still one step away from understanding people. There is a distinction between smart people and shrewdness. And understanding that people and smart people are not mainly divided in talent, but in taste.

Estimating that people need to have understanding and need fate. It's like some people have no relationship with the Buddha, no matter how smart and diligent they are, it's all in vain.