What do you think about finding a partner for marriage?

I think that this kind of thing of getting married and finding a partner must not be child's play, don't look for some more social women, and don't look for some women who are too beautiful, these are unreliable, it is better to find some stable housekeepers.

Get married, get married by friends around you, some are forced to marry by your parents, give an explanation to your parents, some are because they are not young, some are because the material conditions are good, some are because they have a good job, some are because they look good, and some are because they think they are good......It's getting less and less heard that ...... get married because of loveI want to say that love is so rare now? Anyway....I want you to marry because of love, not to choose for other external factors, to wronged yourself...The marriage partner is a lifelong ...... that not just one person can do

If it were me, I would like to find a good-looking one who can give me a beautiful baby in the future. I am willing to offer her like a fairy every day.

I think the object can not be handsome, but it must be good to yourself, so that you can live like a princess and live happily after marriage.

When you are young, you may value feelings, looks, love and non-love, and older people may value more suitability, this suitability is all-encompassing, different from person to person, only when it is suitable, love can end its life, only if it is suitable, even if it is not combined because of love, the ending will not be too bad, and it is rare to have a stable life.

Don't be in a hurry to find a partner, it depends on personal fate, meet the right person, two people can get married, don't get married for the sake of getting married, you will be miserable for the rest of your life.

We all want to settle for it, and it is the best choice to find what we like and belong to our own happiness.

Two people together should not care too much about whether the other party has a car and a house or how good the conditions are, but more about whether the other party has you in their hearts, and cares about you, because you can give a car, a house and other conditions, and others can give the same, this belongs to a replaceable thing, and if you want to give, you will give irreplaceable things, so that it is more stable.

It should be that you must look at the character when looking for a partner, if the character is not good, if you marry in the past, it is difficult to link your future life with happiness, so even if this person has no ability, as long as the character is good, it can still be worth entrusting for life. ‍

In this era of looking at faces, of course, the first choice is looks, you must find the girl you like to see, not necessarily particularly beautiful, but it must be what you like, only in this way will you be happier in the future, rather than getting married on impulse, so that in the end it will harm others and yourself.

I think that men and women must have both milk and bread to find a partner, otherwise the relationship will not be very strong. Because once married, these problems of firewood, rice, oil, and salt will defeat reality.

I pay more attention to whether this person has potential, what he doesn't have now, through hard work, he will slowly have it in the future, because he knows how to plan his career, and he has the ability to do his job, and he will find a way to do those challenging jobs, instead of complaining about work and complaining about others.

Marriage is not child's play" Don't make a sloppy choice, for the other half, find someone who suits you, whether it is in character or hobbies, the best marriage is the love that fits.

Avoid the combination of people with too big differences in values, everyone will have their own lifestyle habits, and will have their own set of survival guidelines, some people feel that it is better to have more things than less peace, and some people feel that they must be clear about the event to calculate fairness, it doesn't seem to be a problem, and when the time comes, there will be contradictions and disputes when they are really together, you think he is cowardly, he thinks you are troublesome.

Not only to be nice to me, but also to respect everything about me. The character should be good, and he will not lose his temper casually. The most important thing is that the three views are compatible and the habits are similar.

The details and time see the character, I hope that every girl can see this person clearly after a period of time before getting married, and then decide whether to spend the rest of her life together.

The conditions are good, the temper is good, the good-looking is good-looking, about 175, not fat or thin.

When looking for a marriage partner, how do you choose? Most women are appearance associations and like beautiful things, unless you yourself are beautiful enough to be good enough, so that you can permanently attract the other person. It is a good thing to have a good appearance, it may often add points to us in daily life, and it may make a good first impression, so it is also very important to be responsible for appearance.

But we also often say that handsome can be eaten as a meal? It's not for nothing. If you want to consider the future life of the marriage partner, what you face every day is some firewood, rice, oil and salt, and whether the three views are compatible or not is the most important, even if you are not the most dazzling one in the crowd, as long as both people like it, it is the most important thing.

Therefore, what suits you is the best.

They will have more choices before or after marriage, in this case they often do not cherish the current marriage and the current you, the cost of re-choosing a woman to marry again is very low, and the low cost means that the probability of action is large, so when he is slightly dissatisfied with you, the probability of divorce and change of woman is greater. Women looking for objects must like to find sunny and handsome men, men also like to find beautiful and beautiful women, everyone has a love for beauty, but now it is really difficult to find a sunny and handsome man in life, although some men are good-looking, but the character is really not good, lazy and lazy, and the ability to make money is also very poor, maybe such a man is also unfaithful to love, it is not practical to find a handsome man.

Falling in love is not the same as finding a marriage partner, some are only suitable for love, but often people who are not good at talking and don't understand romance will be a good husband, but this is the type that many girls don't like, I personally think that looking for a marriage partner, the three views are the same, the two parties will be very tired if they are not on the same channel, and they must be stable and responsible, which is the so-called responsibility, they must know how to tolerate and maintain each other, and their education and appearance are not ugly. Life is not about falling in love, you have to choose carefully, love is not possession, love is respect and giving. Based on the experience of an old aunt, I advise girls who have violent tendencies and possessiveness to stay away, no matter how good they are to you, how much you love him, and how to respect and appreciate each other.

When looking for a marriage partner, you must first see whether the marriage partner and your three views are compatible, but also see whether the marriage partner is good to you, and then see whether the marriage partner will respect you, and also see how the marriage partner's economic ability is, and whether he is not motivated.

When looking for a marriage partner, I usually choose a self-motivated man who can be responsible for the family as a marriage partner. Such a man can make me happier even more.

When looking for a marriage partner, you must first look at four eyes at first glance, and then you can get along. In the process of getting along, I will pay attention to his character. If he has a good character, I will communicate with him further. Feelings are worthy of us loving each other and joining hands in the marriage hall.

When looking for a marriage partner, I will choose a person who likes me, if the other party really likes me, I believe that we will be happy together, after all, he will tolerate everything from me.

When looking for a marriage partner, of course, you must choose a person with good character. Good popularity. There are brains. Shrewd, clever, capable and can dare to take responsibility for everything. For such people, whether they are boys or girls, I think they are all suitable for marriage.

Equivalent family background and lifestyle. Different lifestyles show that both parties have different eating habits. The union between the north and the south, the man likes to eat rice, and the woman likes to eat noodles, and there will be different differences due to eating.

Looking for a partner to marry, of course I will choose the person I love, only by marrying the person I love will I get real happiness, in the future, even if I encounter some tedious things or difficulties, we will be side by side.

Generally speaking, if you are looking for a marriage partner, you will choose those who are more responsible and responsible, and be your marriage partner, so that your future life will be better.

If you are looking for a marriage partner, you must find a marriage partner that is pleasing to the eye and pleasant to touch, so that the two have a chance to come together.

When choosing a marriage partner, you must see whether the other party is responsible, whether he has quality, and what his character is, so that he can choose.

I won't choose a particularly good condition, because my condition is medium, so I can also find a medium one.

When looking for a marriage partner, I will choose a kind person, so many people have a conscience, filial piety, and be able to take responsibility.

You must find one that suits you, this is very crucial, two people living together, must have the same three views.

My favorite time is that everybody will choose, and it must be that you have to die, that you have the ability, that you can start a business, that you can get married.

Find a more reliable one, put yourself on the tip of your heart, and respect your elders. People who love their families.

No matter who is looking for a partner or marriage partner, what they pay more attention to is nothing more than character, family, personality, etc.

Don't judge others casually.

I often hear some people on the road, in the toilet, in the bathroom and other places to evaluate someone's shortcomings, in my opinion this is impolite, we can talk about other people's advantages in front of others, and what happened to him, instead of casually evaluating other people's character, and criticizing other people's behavior, in my opinion, I have not experienced other people's lives or consider other people's situations are not qualified to make evaluations, which is not only to lose their own value, but also to disrespect others.

Simple private life.

Some people like to have an affair with other members of the opposite sex even if they have a partner, and some people even maintain an improper relationship with several members of the opposite sex at the same time. If you are looking for a marriage partner, you definitely don't want the other party to be in such a state, and a good private life is more conducive to promoting the development of the relationship between the two people.

Good family background.

If you don't want to influence the next generation, if you want to be with each other, it's best to understand the family background in advance. It's not that I'm discriminating, there's really a lot of things that you can only understand if you've encountered them. At the same time, I am also more supportive of the right family, not only the family economy, but also the family's ideology and concepts.

Be empathetic. We're looking for a partner or a partner to marry, not a rival who has to win or lose everything. Whether it is a straight man or an unreasonable girl, in most cases, they want to be the victorious Party B, but over time, the other party will feel bored and feel that you are hopeless, which will eventually lead to a breakup.

Imagine if you are tired after a long day of work, and you complain, and the people around you tell you that this is what you should do, what will you think, since I have already told you, I must want to be comforted by you. As shown in the picture, when you complain about someone, do you prefer the person who complains with you or the person who has been giving you routine analysis? But if you want stable love, you still have to choose an empathetic opposite sex, which will make many things happy and simple.

I think maybe it's my parents' request, or maybe I think I should find a partner, so I want to find a marriage partner.

I remember an example that the university teacher said was very impressive, when a girl sends you a "good guy card", it means that you are out of play.

At that time, many classmates laughed, indeed, we all dreamed of a romantic love affair with the tall and handsome Prince Charming.

However, a few years after we graduated, some of our classmates got married, some had children with students, some of our classmates divorced, and some of our classmates were afraid of getting married.

The standard of marriage is no longer the standard of love at the beginning, and it is no longer so brainless for handsome guys, and it is no longer so rejective for good people, but it is a multi-faceted investigation to choose the best plan as much as possible! So how to choose a perfect marriage partner? Try to look at these three points.

1. Look at his relationship with you.

Some men spend a lot of money for girls, and some men make promises. I have always thought that finding a partner is still based on emotion, and if there is no emotion, a marriage with only money will only bring emptiness to life. But if the man will only blindly kneel and lick you, this kind of person is also unacceptable.

He and you should have an equal relationship, just like Shu Tingzhi Oak said:

I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of a tree.

2. Look at his relationship with him.

His relationship with him is actually his social relationship, his interpersonal relationship. When I chatted with a cousin before, we talked about whether you should not only look at whether he is good to you, but also whether he is good or disrespectful to others. How is his life?

See if he is sincere with his friends and helps each other.

Not only that, but it also depends on how he is with people who are weaker than him, such as the cleaner he sees on the street, the waiter he meets in a restaurant, or even the beggar on the side of the road, to see if his views and attitudes are sufficiently cultivated, tolerant, and empathetic.

3. Look at his relationship with money.

Looking at the relationship between him and money, it is to see whether he has the ability to earn money, compared to whether the family has money, it is also important to value that the other party has the ability to earn money, if it is actively struggling and working hard to live a life, even if there is no money now, it can also be considered.

It also depends on the other party's consumption view, if the consumption concept of the two is not very consistent, the man said to save a little, dozens of yuan can be worn, and the woman said I buy a dress for 1,000 yuan, and go out to have face, such a relationship is difficult to last.

There is also the concept of financial management, financial management reflects a person's overall grasp of the future, not to say that there is money to manage money, but to have money or not to have financial thinking, to be the master of money.

In any case, the above is all about considering each other, but more importantly, becoming a better self, paying attention to yourself, constantly growing, and constantly learning, is the most reliable!