What should I do with my husband Jia Baoyu, who is Jia Baoyu married to?

Why can't you treat your husband's friends of the opposite sex as your own? There are no more than two kinds of people in this world, men and women. But that woman is still your husband's first love.

Yes, I admit that all women already hate that woman just by virtue of that, but you have to know that if a man wants to spend his heart wherever he wants, even if he is not on a business trip, he can achieve his goals.

So, are you convinced of your love? Or is it a fear of trust between husband and wife?

And you didn't find anything out of their way.

And he also suggested that the two of you go out for dinner, which does not mean that who is more important than whom. You think too much and don't say that here. Suffice it to say that you don't trust your husband.

You should communicate more. Being married doesn't mean you're just living your life, and you're continuing to fall in love.

If you think about it, he can also go to dinner with the two of them without you. Why do I insist on taking you with me? Think better about everything, after all, you are husband and wife.

Look at your situation, compare your husband with Jia Baoyu is really wronged Baoyu, Baoyu has never been in a mess, there has always been only Daiyu in his heart, after Daiyu died, he married Baochai, and he was also very good to Baochai, when did he still mess around!

I see that your husband hasn't grown up at all, and he's still a fun-loving child! When you get married, you think you're in love! It is recommended that you talk to him and make him clear about his sense of family responsibility!

You want your true feelings to be impressed, don't be in a hurry to whine in front of him, know your place in his heart, and impress her with your love.

What puzzles me the most is Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu, the two are made in heaven, it stands to reason that they should be childhood sweethearts to grow old together, but there is a Lin Daiyu inserted between the two, although the two got married in the end, but they are also separated.

If the author doesn't want Jia Xue and the two to tie the knot, why do you need to say that there is a good relationship between gold and jade, and why let Lin Daiyu stick in a bar, it seems that Lin Daiyu is the touchstone to test the love between the two, but in fact it is a sharp blade that pierces the feelings in the hearts of the two.

Jinyu Liangyuan describes the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai, the two grew up together, and they are the right people, one is born with jade, and one person holds a golden lock.

Cao Xueqin laid the foreshadowing of the relationship between the two in the previous book, according to the normal route, even if the two go through a certain ordeal, they will end up with hardships, but they didn't expect the final result to be that Jia Baoyu became a monk, and Xue Baochai stayed alone in the empty house for the rest of his life.

Lin Daiyu's morbid beauty is vividly written in the book, and it is quite compatible with Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu's appearance caused a gap between Jia Xue and the two, and this gap gradually expanded, so that Jia Baoyu had no love for Xue Baochai, and the two became a pair of fairy couples. It's a pity that they are not destined to have no result, and the opposition of the elders forced them to let go, and Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai also got married under their forced poke.

After the two got married, they couldn't see that it was a godsend, the hearts of the two people were not together at all, they had different dreams in the same bed, and in the end, the Jia family was weakened, and Jia Baoyu was forced to participate in the imperial examination in order to revive the Jia family, but Jia Baoyu finally became a monk, and neither could he live with Xue Baochai and fly scum, nor could he bring the Jia family to wealth.

There should be three, namely Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai and Shi Xiangyun.

Nominally, there is only one, in fact quite a few.

First of all, I think that Jia Baoyu should be a rebellious character, who doesn't like to read, especially hates Baguwen, and does not pursue progress, that is, a strange and vulgar character. A poem in "Dream of Red Mansions" describes Jia Baoyu as follows:

Looking for sorrow and hatred for no reason, sometimes it seems stupid and crazy. Even if he was born with a good skin, he was reckless in his abdomen. I don't understand the affairs of the world, and I am stupid and afraid to read articles. If you behave in a remote and perverse manner, you will be slandered by the world!

Wealth does not know happiness, and poverty is unbearable and desolate. Pity and live up to the good Shaoguang, and there is no hope for the country and the family. The world's incompetence is the first, and the ancient and modern are unparalleled. Messages and ointments: don't follow the shape here!

The main characteristic that constitutes his character is rebellion, he has lived in an aristocratic family since he was a child, but he does not like to read serious books such as "Eight Shares" that Jia Zheng and his private school teacher require him to forcibly study, because he despises and resists the so-called fame and fortune from the heart, but he likes to compose poems and lyrics, and established a "Begonia Society", and secretly loves "The Peony Pavilion" and "The Legend of the West Chamber", therefore, I think Jia Baoyu was a rebel in the society at that time, and his behavior in that society was considered "remote and perverse".

In addition, another character trait of Jia Baoyu is to respect women, love women, worship women, and sympathize with women. He once said that "daughters are flesh and bones made of water, and men are flesh and bones made of mud", and later, he said this thought: "The beauty of the mountains, rivers, sun and moon is only favored by daughters, and men with eyebrows are just some scum and turbidity."

Jia Baoyu only wants to live a free life and listen to nature, that is, to fight grass hairpins, sing quietly and freely in the daughter country of Daguanyuan. He is affectionate to many girls, likes Lin Daiyu, secretly admires Xue Baochai, admires Shi Xiangyun, respects Raider, Qingwen, Zijuan, and Musk Yue, and sympathizes with Ping'er, Xiangling, and Mandarin Duck.

Jia Baoyu grew up in a group of young girls, and his love is not just the love of men and women, but the love of the unfortunate around him in a broader sense. The so-called "love Bo" or "broad love".

Jia Baoyu denied the feudal social order, but ideologically did not reach the height of denying the monarchy and clan power, that is, the feudal ruling power. On the one hand, he gradually developed his own rebellious thoughts, completely inclined towards the oppressed and supporting them; He insisted on his love with Lin Daiyu and urgently demanded marital autonomy; In fact, all this came about by virtue of the privileges granted to him by the feudal forces, and it was impossible for him to deny the rule of feudalism. What he hates, he trusts; What he opposes is what he relies on.

He could not make a complete break with feudal rule, nor could he give up his democratic ideological demands. Therefore, his way out does not exist in reality, and in the end he can only go to the ethereal surreal world.

I always thought Jia Baoyu was a woman

Is it a woman who grows in a pile of women, thoughtful? Sort of.

Jia Baoyu's wife:

Xue Baochai Xue Baochai is one of the heroines in Cao Xueqin's long chapter "Dream of Red Mansions", and is listed as the first of the twelve hairpins in Jinling, the crown of the group, and Jia Baoyu's aunt and wife. She is beautiful, elegant, erudite, and enlightened. His father died early, and he had a mother (Aunt Xue) and a brother (Xue Pan). After Baochai entered Beijing, he lived with his mother Aunt Xue and brother Xue Pan in Lixiangyuan in Jiafu, and later moved to a quiet house in the northeast.

When she was young, the monk gave an auspicious saying, "Do not leave and never give up, and the age will be eternal", which is engraved on the gold vessel. The Xue family created a golden lock engraved with the words given by the monk, which was a pair with the Tongling Baoyu statue engraved with "Don't forget it, Xianshou Hengchang" carried by Jia Baoyu, implying a good relationship between gold and jade. The Dream of Red Mansions was lost after eighty times, and it is speculated that after Lin Daiyu died of illness, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai got married, but in the end they did not grow old with them, and Jia Baoyu did not take long to see through the red dust and become a monk.

Forty times after the book was continued, Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu became relatives on the day of Lin Daiyu's death.

Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochai as his wife, and later ran away from home.

Xue Baochai. Lin Daiyu died. He became a monk.

Jia Baoyu's favorite is Sister Lin's sister Daiyu, and she thought she was marrying Lin Daiyu, but who knew that it was a mistake in the end, but in the end it was Xue Baochai.

Wife: Mrs. Wang.

Concubines: Aunt Zhao, Aunt Zhou.

Mrs. Wang, and two concubines, Aunt Zhao and Aunt Zhou. 3 in total.