Isn t a 4 year relationship as good as 7 days?

Feelings can't be forced.

She does this to say that she really doesn't love you anymore.

Once the feelings change, it is in vain to say or do anything.

If you can't let go of it for the time being, you feel heartache, so put your feelings in your mind and let yourself go.

Love until you're tired, you're tired, you don't want to think about it, and you'll eventually sort it out.

When she doesn't love you, don't bother you when you're unhappy or hesitating. She's definitely not where you should be at the moment.

When she doesn't love you, your love is a burden to her. Please don't count your efforts, don't expect anything in return. Loving someone who doesn't love you is in itself unreciprocated.

Don't care about right and wrong. It's going to be happier. Remember, the love between you and her is one-sided, you put your heart into it, and she has no heart.

So, don't blame her either.

There is really no one in the world who cannot live without it.

It's just a matter of time.

She's already like that.

Really stop having illusions, stop making a fool of yourself.

Live your life well.

It would be better to believe in yourself.

You will eventually meet the woman who really understands you, really loves you, and will not leave.

At that point, be sure to hold on tightly.

I wish you happiness.

Be Nicholas Tse.

It's a real man.

Sometimes feelings just can't withstand the wind and rain.

If you want to open a little, maybe he is not the one who will accompany you for the rest of your life.

He doesn't love you is his loss.

After 4 years of relationship, he ended it easily.

Do you think he loves you? I believe that one day happiness will come.

Maybe she's just a moment of freshness, and there are examples of this around me, but in the end it's still with the long time, so it's up to you, if you want to wait, wait.

Maybe! Love for a long time doesn't necessarily mean it's still love! Maybe it's just getting used to it! Thought it was love! A few months of love is also love!

Love is not measured by time, I've heard of love at first sight

I can only say 2 points:

1.Men are more awesome and more ruthless (you slap each other!). But, in the end, I still have to regret it. It's as if the other party won't let you go to MLM.

2.If you want to regret it. It is necessary to think carefully about how to go in the future--- if it is still so detached from reality, and value material enjoyment.

Then it is better to --- the long pain as soon as possible, and it is better to .. the short painIf there is still sincerity to live together, then first talk about the direction .. move forward in the futureOnly when you have a direction can you have the momentum to work hard!

Friends, it's over when it's over, the twisted melon is not sweet. Don't be too sad and don't be too sad, it's hard to get back what you've lost, face the reality, summarize and adjust yourself, and keep the happy memories in your heart for the love experience between you and her! I'm sure you'll come across better!

Abandon!!! I feel sorry for you!

Love humbles people. Give up, love is based on equality, without ego, all you can redeem is to let yourself continue to struggle in this and that worry and humility. I'm sure you'll find the half that loves you more.

Hehe, Seon is not blessed.

My 3 years of disinterest will be in vain in a minute, you are destined to be darker for life Since that man is that kind of person, they will not get married, if you love, just wait.

I don't love it. Out of the shadows, from looking for one, people say that the seven-year itch, you are almost four years, you can't be carried together for four years, how can you live for life in the future.

Sad, I understand, it's a must.

But bear with it,,, it's not happy, it's not happy, it's crazy, and one day, you'll be happy.

Such a world is so wonderful, and other people's lives are a poignant story.

His own life was a bleak accident

What do you do? Once a woman has changed her mind, she is more ruthless than a man, although it is not very certain whether the woman you are talking about here has changed her mind or not, but to be honest, this is already in the past, this kind of thing is happening every moment every day in China now, you can't get her heart back, time will heal your wounds, you have to think like this, the old feelings are gone, the new feelings are coming, can you say that the future feelings are not as good as the present? Let's just say that woman, if she can be happy, you will have a place to eat in the future, how nice.

Bless you!

You think that your four-year-old girlfriend has been sentenced to you and has seriously hurt you, and you want to beat up her current boyfriend and play hard!Or is it that I can't live in pain, I use wine to drown my sorrows, and I get drunk and crazy, is that so?What will you do next?

Rich to stone her ass to death!If you don't have any money, let's be a bastard for a while!

Don't measure feelings by time, it's very stupid, it's a long time, but it's been very dull, do you think you can keep her.

It's not her that you can't let go, it's four years of dedication.

It can't be said that it is impossible, and no one can say for sure about emotional matters.

It's up to you to deal with your relationship.

Maybe you are not familiar with each other in all aspects of the 7-day relationship, and it seems that this is indeed a bit ethereal in the eyes of others, but if you really like him (her), all you can do now is to slowly get to know each other step by step, because just because the 7-day relationship cannot maintain a lifetime of ......Also, persistence is victory, positive thoughts are important, come on!

It's all about how the two of you can maintain your relationship, if you guess correctly, it only took seven days for LZ and the object to live together, and it feels like the relationship is not strong!As long as the two tolerate and understand each other, they can live for a lifetime. Remember that the relationship is not in the length of time, and some of the people who have been talking for several years are not also scattered

I won't say anything nice, and I don't have much knowledge, so I'll send you a message: If you love, please love deeply;If you give up, please be thorough!My love is also earned by my own efforts.

It's normal for you to feel this way, which shows that your love for him is indeed very deep, so you are afraid of losing him, in fact, love belongs to two people, you say that you love him more than he loves you, so after so much time together, don't you know anything about him?Did he betray you during your time together?Did I snub you?

Does it give you comfort when you're at your saddest?Do you usually know how to care about you?You have to pay attention to these, sometimes you don't have to be so demanding for love, and you don't necessarily have to be equal to two people, as long as he has you in his heart, you have him in your heart, that love can still be slowly sublimated, don't be afraid to pay more, because only pay is rewarded, even if he doesn't love you, you only know after paying, because if you don't love a person, you won't accept the other party's pay, if you don't pay, how do you know that he will reject you?

True love is hard to find, I wish you happiness.

Since you cherish it, you have to fight for it, and the problem is not with the man. It's a question of you and your girlfriend, seven years, how many seven years there are in your life, if you still cherish each other, make an appointment to tell everything!

Don't be afraid, this kind of thing men should stand up and say, "If you have any problems, tell me, and I'll solve them!" ”

You haven't survived the seven-year itch after all, what's yours is yours, don't force it.

In fact, the age of your relationship is an illusionary age, so you don't think about whether this person is suitable for each other, you will only believe in each other's feelings, this is the impulse of youth, and I also had this impulse at that age. This is normal, but there are really few people like you who can maintain the love at that age to this day, but this can only show that you used to really love each other, relied on each other, felt inseparable from each other, and felt that the other party was the only one in your life, so you lived together, and it may have been very sweet when you first lived together, but after a long time, there were many trivial things. The contradiction is also coming, in fact, love is often tired of being together and it will also fade, it can't stand the wear and tear of time, I also have a boyfriend who has been talking for four years, there was no day when I lived together before, but now I moved out and it seems to feel the same when I first fell in love, so two people have been together for a long time or have to separate cold feelings, as the saying goes, it is not unreasonable for a little biebetter to get married, at least he will think of your good in the days when you are away, in fact, people who have experienced a long-distance love run have a feelingIn fact, I don't feel anything about this relationship, but I'm used to this mode of life, and I'm dependent on each other, just like an old husband and wife, in fact, the relationship at this time is like chicken ribs, and I can't give up on it, in fact, I feel that you really have to observe him well, if he really has this situation, if you still love him very much, then you can make it clear to him, I hope he can change, and then you have to give each other a cooling-off period, Think about how much love you have left in the past four years.

Is there a lot of family affection or is it still love, because all love will be transformed into family affection in the end, if he still refuses to change, then divide it, don't be nostalgic, your age is just the age of looking for a good goal, I wish you happiness! (If I don't listen to what I say, you shouldn't have seen it, it's just my summary of so many years and so many times of love experience.) FYI).

1) Women are perfectionists, but smart women know how to regulate their moods. After all, life is not perfect.

2) I absolutely believe that you care about each other. However, he does not understand the heart of a woman, and he does not know how to prove his love with his actions. Love requires action, not just words.

3) You're all too young. There is little social experience and emotional experience, and the mind will change in the future.

4) If two people have been together for a long time, they will inevitably not see each other's goodness. It's common sense. People don't always cherish what is too easy to obtain.

5) If you want to separate temporarily, it's still too late. When you're older, it's not easy to break up. Waiting for a man to change takes time and a price.

Good luck!

You're only 19 years old now, you should be the same age as a flower, but you look at you, what are you like, if you plan to live forever, you are like this at 19 years old, think about what you will be like in a few years, decades from now. Everyone hates an unchanging life, you hate it, he hates it; He's only 23 now, he's under pressure, he's old. So he wants to rebel, to rebel against life, and he wants to express his dissatisfaction with life.

Now you are used to each other, he has feelings for you, you need to be calm, you need to be apart for a while to appreciate the importance of each other, don't let rebellion, stress wear out the feelings between you. Calm down with each other, remember; Don't do things that you regret.

This situation exists to varying degrees in many couples, and the key is that there is not enough communication and mutual understanding, especially women do not care enough about men (women must be delicate and gentle in order to have a good marriage).

It should be said that you already have a deep foundation of family affection, try to communicate more, after all, the re-selection of the object is indefinite and who knows that the next union will be beautiful?

Good luck!

Do you believe his explanations???

I'm going to divide this feeling. Because at the end of the day, I found out that he had lied to me. It's similar to you. It's just that we have a shorter time than you, and I'm older than you.

Now I am very comfortable, I will not think about him all day long, I will live a good life for myself, read, study, and exercise every day, and my goal now is to be a delicate woman. Quietly waiting for a man who will hurt people and will make me believe in happiness to love me...

A relationship took n years to earn, haven't you thought of a remedy? It takes two to tango? My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, although others say that it is a seven-year itch, but I am not worried at all, so to be a smart woman, why don't you go and influence him first, is it possible that he is a stone?

If the really intentional effort is useless, then you won't regret it when you are talking about breaking up.

It's easy to love someone, but it depends on what kind of love it is. I've never been in a relationship, but I also have a lot of suitors, and I don't believe they really love me at all, maybe it's just to take a beautiful girlfriend out to save face, maybe it's a spur of the moment, or maybe it's blind obedience, maybe it's a bet. I never feel sincere, alas, what I'm afraid of is getting hurt.

Since he kept you, it means that he still cares about you, you can give him another chance, you can go out on a date at the top of the time, put down a little body, and obey him a little If he is like that, since you are afraid of hurt, don't love the pain with him.

If you can think of him as carelessness in getting involved with other women, then you can forgive and understand him!

4 years, starting at the age of 18, he is only 22 years old now The 22-year-old man's mind is not yet mature, maybe he still doesn't know what love is and what responsibility is. Or maybe he's indulging in his fun.

What about you? Do you want to get married? Whether he is shown to be married.

If you don't have one, then don't be so melancholy, because neither of you is yet mature. However, if you really show him that he is not married, you have to pay attention. Be sure to consider whether this man is the most desirable and suitable person for you to marry.

No, just let it go. Which is more important, 4 years of relationship or a lifetime of happiness? It's up to you to measure it yourself!