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Hold on. A friend of mine, who talked about it in high school, didn't go to college together, but now they work together, and they have been together for seven or eight years, and the relationship is still very good.
Don't let her down.
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Let go of the point, but the mentality is not good, and you must always remember one sentence: it doesn't matter what others think of me, I just know how good I am... You still have a lot of time, a lot of future, and this age is not the time to think about this, you should do it vigorously, to love, or you will regret it like me!
Grasp it, simple love in college is very beautiful!
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Then the long pain is better than the short pain, if you love her, you have to give her happiness, if you can't give it, let it go, the pain of the moment can be exchanged for the happiness of her life, it's worth it, brother, I'll top you.
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Since you are already in love, you must believe in each other, so that this is true love.
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I'm the same as you, but I've already talked about it, and I've found that the status and family background really have to be the right one, and most of the girls in the city are very difficult to get along with
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If it's not a joke, it's a tentative confession to you.
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Maybe it's a crush on you? Or hint at you, but be careful not to be amorous when you're not sure.
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I hate you very much, don't think about it.
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I like you, if you're also interesting, don't chase it.
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First of all, she has to plan, explain that she longs to have a future with you, but there are too many changes in the future, especially once a girl falls in love, she will be fully engaged, and she is more likely to be hurt and deceived than a boy, and she is insecure about your future in her heart.
Girls have to plan, mainly to see your attitude, if you really love her, you should think about the future, so her main purpose is not how perfect the plan itself is, but that she is very important in your heart, and you are also eager to develop with her until the future.
In fact, the girl fully understands that who can predict the future, the plan often can't catch up with the changes, but she still has to plan for the future, that is, to have a sense of security, according to your current situation, you can give her a simple plan of yours, and then the two of you communicate to refine the plan.
Secondly, the level of detail and importance of the plan depends on your current situation. If you are still a freshman or sophomore, the plan is indeed early, but if you are about to graduate and start working, or already working, then you really need to have a plan, you can simply enjoy love on campus, once you work, have a career, then the family is about to be established, if you don't think about what to do with the two of you in the future, this is serious, because it is related to your place of work, your marriage arrangement, and even future children and other practical problems that you have to face, This is a manifestation of a boy's sense of responsibility, if you haven't thought about it at all, it's too immature, and a little selfish, a girl's youth is just a few years, fleeting, you can't give the future, don't tie up and delay her, she will be very disappointed, very hurt.
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Because of the breakup, from now on, I greet you, only in the tone of friends, or a little stronger; I shake your hand for a ceremonial time, or a little longer.
If I can't give happiness to the person I love, I won't marry for the rest of my life, I will give her happiness for the rest of my life, if I can't give it, I won't marry her, I will let someone else, better than me, marry her. I'll give you a lifetime of happiness, trust me!
If you shed tears, my heart will be wet first.
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Then think about it, it's really a mystery.
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True love must be, if you play with the mentality casually, forget it.
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A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, and that is:
Codependent
Counterdependent
Independent
Interdependent
The time it takes to transition between phases is not necessarily and varies from person to person.
Phase 1: Coexistence.
This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.
Phase 2: Anti-dependency.
When the relationship is stable, at least one party will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want to do, and then the other.
Fang will feel left out.
The third stage: independence.
The fourth stage: symbiosis.
At this time, a new way of getting along with each other has taken shape, and your other person (her) has become your closest person. Together, you support each other.
Together, create your own life. Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other. However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up. A lot of things as long as they are.
It's okay to communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, that's it.
The timing of the second and third phases.
will be shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily. The two got together because of fate.
Knowing each other is because of heart, you really have to cherish this blessing, don't say that breaking up is not for no reason.
I hope to see the above four stages, which can really give you some enlightenment and understanding. We will gradually become what we are.
Loved ones. You and him have nothing in common, they don't look alike in appearance, and their personalities are also very different.
For a long time, you will be amazed that your eyes are a bit like his eyes, and his smile is also a little like yours. The pace at which you walk.
It's also a bit similar, and the tone of speech is getting more and more similar. He has a mole on his neck, and one day, you find yourself on the neck.
There is also an extra mole on it, and it turns out that we will become our loved ones. You would have liked people who are down-to-earth, and he has always been.
It's frivolous, but if you fall in love, he will unknowingly become an honest man, and this change will not even be him.
Ever perceived. He originally liked lively girls, but he fell in love with you who were restrained. These days, you are so lively that you almost don't recognize yourself. We will gradually become the ideal person of the other party, and this change is definitely not deliberate. Two.
The longer the individual loves, the more similar the temperament becomes. You used to think he wasn't the type you dreamed of. However.
One day, you're amazed to find that he's become the type you like, and you don't have to look around anymore, he is.
The person you're looking for.
When you love someone deeply, you will really lose yourself little by little, why do you still feel it.
To be happy? Probably because when you lost, you also earned, and you earned back his temperament and his smile.
Happiness is very simple, so it is easy to obtain it for people who want to be very simple.
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You're not married! What about divorce!?Hehe.
Look at it from a distance and you'll know her many features that appeal to you!
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It's really easy to do this like you, in fact, if she loves you, she won't be like this, but to understand you, help you, and work together to achieve a better life, and she doesn't think like this at all, she can't do without you, because no man can stand her temper like you, she will only ruin herself like this. But no matter what we say, it ultimately depends on what you think.
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I've finished reading you, laziness is not a girl's nature, when I am with my boyfriend, I treat him well, I can do things by myself, I don't bother my boyfriend, once during dinner, he stained his clothes, and I helped him wash it when I came back, my boyfriend also said that doing housework is a matter of two people, so sometimes he doesn't bother me, I use money is also very powerful, but the money I use is my own, I don't use his money, he doesn't use my money, I say so much meaning, Your girlfriend treats you badly, now you don't have children, and when you have children, you have to take care of her, take care of children, and work, you can't be busy. If you think about divorce at that time, is it too late, the child is a single-parent family, it will definitely affect his growth. And your family background is not very good, for people like her who don't think about money, you will have a lot of pressure in your life in the future.
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No future, this kind of woman is not suitable for being a wife, only suitable for being a junior, if you don't believe it, even if you marry her, she can't settle down, she always has to go out of the wall, I have dealt with a few of this kind of woman, if you want to have fun, it is the right person If you want to get married, you should go away as soon as possible
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I think you should have a good talk, after all, we've been together for so long.
You've written so much, I've read it all, and I think you're still a responsible boy.
It's really time for you to talk about the house, and it's useless to run away now. Rationally say you should minimize the damage.
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Let's see if she still has you in her heart, and if she still loves you...
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It doesn't feel like it, does she love you, do you think she cares about you, why do you do it if she cares, I really don't understand, and do you love her, is it sincere, do you think you can hold on like this, how old are you, can you tell me.
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What kind of love is this? Has she ever thought about your feelings? Pretty can disguise everything? Who does she think she is? Is it okay to perfunctory yourself like this?
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I think you should think about the future, it's a bit inappropriate.
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If you love her, you will love her everything....It's hard to find a lover....
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It's amazing that you have written so much, I can't stand it, so I'm sorry.
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There's no need to get too tired, just let it go.
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Love is for two people to manage!!
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