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Two lovers have been together for a period of passionate love, and the rest is the run-in period, and the run-in period is that two people have been together for a long time, and the quarrels are all for the trivial things in daily life, what oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, sesame seeds, mung beans, and even more so many times, just because of each other's words, one behavior, you will be angry for a long time, depressed for a long time.

In fact, it is inevitable for two people to quarrel together No one says that they will never quarrel when they are together Then I can only say that it is just that your quarrel has not yet come When it comes, it is definitely a big ** It is easier to divide than the usual noisy and noisy I and my wife are a small quarrel for two days and a big quarrel for three days But get used to it It's okay if you have a quarrel Sometimes a quarrel is also a way to increase the relationship between you.

I think the most important thing for two people to be together is mutual trust, and then there are certain words and behaviors that touch your bottom line, and everyone has their own limits of tolerance, beyond this limit, then I advise you to end it early and find a new beginning.

Sometimes time isn't everything).

It's easy to have a love, but it's hard to run one.

Two people may love each other very much, but it can be difficult to live together. I don't know what your so-called hurt limit is, but since you still want to live with each other, it means that you still care about each other. Otherwise, there shouldn't be such a bother.

If you really said a lot of things that were too much during the quarrel, and now you both want the two of you to have a future, I don't think it's about time, but about you need to talk to each other very seriously. It is recommended to find a relaxed and romantic place to talk. And don't reveal each other's scars when communicating.

Think about how you should adjust the mode of getting along, you need to accommodate each other, and tolerate so that life can last for a long time.

If you feel that each other is deeply hurt, then ask yourself first, if you reconcile, do you have the confidence to live with each other for the rest of your life? If you don't even have confidence in yourself, then any effort made by others or your husband will be in vain.

I just saw your supplementary question, I think it may be because your current economy is completely dependent on your husband, so his attitude towards you is also lukewarm, probably because he understands that you can't leave him.

That being the case, you are already studying, and I am sure you should also be able to be independent. The first thing you have to do is to be financially independent, if your husband is really not good to you, at least you can live a good life on your own.

In addition, it is recommended that you have a good talk with your husband to understand his thoughts, because based on your description of your husband, I think he should not really want to continue to live with you, or there may be other girls outside.

Actually, I want to know the answer.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and are almost talking about getting married.

But there are more and more problems.

Torture each other, toss each other, hurt each other.

But there are still certain feelings in them.

are still reluctant to let go of so many years of feelings.

Still together.

But sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad.

I also wonder if this relationship lasts long.

He said, "We're going to get divorced even if we're married." Tired.

To give you a simple and realistic answer, are you dependent on each other? Do you still want to be with the other person after the injury? If the answer is yes, then you can correct some of each other's shortcomings in life, be more tolerant and understanding, and over time, I believe that your problems will be slowly reconciled.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Every family has a difficult scripture, and there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, I think you should go out and fight for money by yourself and spend a little better Be more tolerant' understanding and tolerance, and communicate with your husband more Men sometimes say angry words, and it will be fine after the angry words I wish you happiness!

If it hurts to the extreme, there is no point.

Although I know that it is better to demolish ten temples than to break a marriage. But. First of all, you have to learn to be independent. When there is a certain economic foundation. Get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible. Divorce is your only way out