I hate my boyfriend s brother and sister in law

Obediently, I'll tell you, don't worry, don't worry about situations like yours, which are very common in today's material society In view of your current situation, I think you can listen to my opinion

1: You and your boyfriend are not married yet, you are temporarily living in their house, which is more or less uncomfortable for your boyfriend's parents After all, you are still an "outsider" to them now; It's a problem of your and his parents' common mentality!

2: You know, my boyfriend's brother and sister-in-law don't clean up the housework, they both have their own careers to be busy, this is one of the reasons! Of course, there is another reason, "Since you were in charge of the housework from the beginning, how could they take the initiative to take on it?"

Who doesn't want to be lazy in their spare time? In other words, you, who were in charge of the housework in the first place, were completely voluntary! You don't have to worry about anything!

Diligence can make up for clumsiness: Don't blindly envy others, that is, your boyfriend's sister-in-law! You know, she is the one who has become a family.

When you are jealous of her, you think that you are actually quite happy, because you still have the care of your boyfriend, you have your own job, and you use all those boring jealousies at work! Just think of it as venting, don't keep it in your heart.

4: Have you communicated these issues with your boyfriend? Have you ever tried to tell your boyfriend about these thoughts?

You're always talking to yourself alone! I asked myself: Can I solve the difficult things of getting along with my mother-in-law's family when I am sulking in life?

Will that trouble in my heart be lifted? Talk to your boyfriend, and maybe you can get a different comfort from him

5: What does it mean to be unfair? What is fairness?

Have you ever understood it in depth? Let me tell you, there is no unfairness in this world, people's hearts are like a pole to weigh, and it is up to you to put it in which position it is called, so the mentality determines everything! Your current mindset matters!

As long as you choose it yourself, as long as you are willing, then stick to it! If you really can't hold on, then do that! Think of yourself as you say, just ask for comfort and OK!

7 Hard work! Don't take this negative emotion to work. You want to be stable! Make more money

6: Last but not least: don't just say the word "break up" to your boyfriend, if you still have this kind of thought, I advise you to dispel it quickly!

Actually, think about it, you don't have any anger, it's still the same sentence, mentality - don't be jealous and calculate! It can be seen that you love your boyfriend very much, and the word breakup is worth your consideration!

Obediently, I will send you two sentences at the end:

If you have a small heart, you will have more troubles! The heart is vast, and the wisdom is abundant!

A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less!

His brother and sister-in-law may be the eldest on the one hand, and his brother and sister-in-law may be the ones who have to go to work every day. Naturally, the housework will not be shared with you. Moth thinks that if you want to marry your boyfriend in the future, you should have a good relationship with his parents now, and find a way to be deeply pampered by his parents.

Then, on the one hand, I also went out to find a job. After all, if you stay in his house and don't have a job, his brother and sister-in-law will definitely show how amazing it is in front of you. So it's better for you to go out and get a job.

It's a blessing to suffer.

It's nothing, I'm still young, and I won't lose anything more.

That's the power of money! Let's make money!

Looking for a new job?? Hehe, how about doing business, right? Is there any money'？？

1, find your brother, let him take care of it, it's best to make trouble for them, and leave 2, communicate well with your mother, analyze the pros and cons, even if you get married, you are still their daughter, don't ruin your own happiness, let yourself hate them for the rest of your life.

3, tell your boyfriend, you can do it here at your house, if he loves you, you can support you behind your back 4, after persuading your mother, let your boyfriend come to the house to apologize, he can be angry, and he will come to the house to make trouble before he gets married.

5. Solve it with your heart, and everything will be fine.

6. Welcome to ask! Welcome to it!

Learn to respect your family, I don't support your boyfriend's attitude, the family is not right, do you follow suit.

You think too much and too far, don't look at things too complicated, your parents and relatives want you to live happily, as long as you think that you really love each other, and he can give you happiness, you will be with him, after a long time, your parents and relatives will see that you are happy, see his good, and will slowly accept it.

Do you love him very much, if not, let it go.