Is it difficult to marry a wife in the countryside? The number of singles is rising, and our count

It is more difficult to marry a wife in rural areas, because the current imbalance in the ratio of men to women has resulted in more than twice as many boys as girls, and the average distribution among each person is insufficient. It is useless for our country to intervene, because most people's marriage is not for love but because it is suitable, and it is definitely necessary to talk about the bride price and related material conditions, even if the state intervenes, it is difficult to have a good effect on the current era of free love.

The ratio of Chinese men and women in rural areas is out of balance, and it is difficult for rural areas to marry wives. China's "intervention" can change the status quo of "male superiority and inferiority of women" and solve the problem of bride price.

It is very difficult to marry a wife in rural areas in the face of the problem of bride price, in view of the "sky-high wedding" this kind of folk chaos, ** began to solve it, and the relevant departments have already reminded that the "sky-high bride price" is equal to a bad social atmosphere, and the bad social atmosphere such as bad habits of marriage and funeral, sky-high bride price, filial piety decline, and no support for the old is governed. "For the problem of sky-high bride price in rural areas, cadres stationed in the village will be sent to investigate every year, and once the "sky-high bride price" is found, they will face legal sanctions, and this problem is being solved.

It didn't work. The main reason for singles is not completely lack of money, but that there are other problems in addition to lack of money, such as mom bao, slamming the door, etc.

Is it difficult to marry a wife in the countryside? The number of "singles" is rising, and our country has "intervened", is it useful? Nowadays, more attention is paid to "balanced" growth and development in China, and the countryside has become the key to China's development.

In recent years, the countryside in many places has changed greatly, and the level of development is no worse than that of big cities. At present, in the countryside of our country, it is not the same as before, and everyone is no longer worried about lack of food, and the standard of living is getting higher and higher. Even many rural families have more property than urban people.

Although the countryside has become richer, it is facing another difficulty, which is that the number of bachelors in the countryside has increased. In today's rural areas, the total number of 30-year-old "older leftover men" is constantly increasing, especially in recent years, showing a trend of increasing parallelism. This can make the parents in the countryside worried, and they don't know what to do.

In fact, this kind of situation exists all over the country, but compared with the city, the situation of "older leftover men" in the countryside is more serious. It's not that country men are worse than big city men, country men are also very hardworking, and their facial features are correct. The main factor for them to "not be able to marry a wife" may be the proportion of Chinese men and women in China's rural areas.

Secondly, the standard of finding a partner for women in China has been improved, and many women in the countryside are more looking forward to marrying into the city than in the countryside. In addition, the "unhealthy concept" in the countryside is the "culprit" that has led to this situation. In order to distort the situation of "difficulty in marrying a wife" in rural areas, relevant policies have been promulgated in order to reduce the number of bachelors in rural areas.

Changed the status quo of "male superiority and female inferiority".

Nowadays, many people in our country no longer have such a concept, but there are still some rural areas where the concept of "men are superior to women" still exists. There are even some elderly people in rural areas who "look down on their daughters-in-law", which has led to an endless stream of divorces in rural areas. Now the state has also improved the learning and training of young men and women in rural areas on the concept of marriage and love, in order to reduce the divorce rate in rural China.

That, on the other hand, lowered the total number of "bachelors" in the countryside. Reducing the concept of "male superiority and inferiority of women" in the village is also conducive to balancing the gender ratio in the village. From the "root cause", solve the difficulty.

Solve the "** bride price."

The bride price is a key "stage" when everyone gets married. Many lovers have gone to the last step, but because of the bride price problem, they did not negotiate in the end, causing two people to "go their separate ways". In daily life, there are many such cases.

In some villages, the type of bride price has long changed, and the current situation of the bride price in rural areas is varied. and even developed a psychological state of blind comparison, depending on which family marries a daughter with more bride price, then the more their own "face", the more rural bride price is definitely an increase in the pressure of men, not only to have a car, a house, but also a "huge amount of money". Under this premise, many men are afraid of marrying and do not want to marry anymore.

At present, all provinces in China are making every effort to eliminate the "rural bride price". Various rural units are still supervising to prevent the occurrence of "rural bride price". It is the "direction" of our country to make it easier for rural "bachelors" to marry daughters-in-law.

Now there are more and more singles, and many people can't marry a daughter-in-law, mainly due to these reasons.

More and more rural singles are unable to marry wives and daughters-in-law, which will lead to many social problems, the most important of which is the increase in the crime rate in some places, and the second is the problem of insufficient productivity in the rural areas, because there is no one to replace them.

The most serious is the demographic imbalance, the aging is even more serious, and the other is the loss of a lot of rural labor, and it is not good for social security, and there will be a lot of moral degradation that we do not want to see.

This is the era of Dalang, Dalang's nerves, isn't there still Pan Jinlian.

Go out more, go out for a walk, see the outside world, don't always bend to the village, learn more knowledge and skills, improve your charm, and find a matchmaker to arrange a blind date for yourself.

Help them solve the work first. When you can't support yourself, it's a bit exaggerated to talk about marrying a wife.

Blind date platform. You can set up a rural blind date platform, put the information of single young people on the dating platform, and find a partner by yourself.

The problem of marrying a wife has intensified, and the singles crisis has intensified, what suggestions do experts put forward? Can it be solved? In most rural areas, the difficulty of finding a wife is one of the common problems.

Under the influence of malicious comparisons and sky-high bride prices, finding a wife in the countryside seems to be more and more like a transaction, and it has become a chasm that is difficult for school-age men to cross. It can be said that the number of bachelors in rural areas is increasing, and it seems that it is precisely because of the problem of marriage that there is a trend of "single crisis". I think the three pieces of advice made by the experts are very feasible and can solve the problem of singleness to a certain extent.

I also hope that the state will pay attention to this issue, implement good policies, and help peasant families marry daughters-in-law.

Now that there are more and more older young men, the singles crisis has erupted. This can make rural people worried, but don't worry, in order to solve the problem of the proliferation of singles in rural areas, experts have come up with three ways to help farmers get rid of singles:

First: cancel the sky-high bride price.

The reason why the peasants are single is also the sky-high bride price of women. Nowadays, the trend of bride price comparison is becoming more and more intense. Not only the bride price, but also the man's "two throws, three sides and four wheels".

In fact, some men's family conditions are okay. They had a house and a car, but they were beaten by the woman's sky-high bride price. Decorating a house, buying a car, and preparing for a wedding are all huge expenses, and they also have to give the woman a huge expense.

No one can stand it. Many rural men are single because they cannot afford a bride price. If the state can take action to stop the sky-high bride price and reduce the cost of marriage, the single crisis can be resolved.

Second, to attract girls to rural employment and entrepreneurship.

China is making great efforts to develop education, and well-educated girls choose to work and live in cities and towns. Girls with higher and higher vision naturally do not look down on rural areas. The loss of rural women has reduced opportunities for men and women to come into contact.

The state should increase employment in rural areas, vigorously support young women in starting businesses in rural areas, and attract more girls to return to rural areas. It can not only achieve the revitalization of rural areas, but also create opportunities for rural youth to come and go freely. Isn't that on the bill.

Third: improve yourself.

Many men are single not only because of the objective reasons of the imbalance between men and women, but also because they lack the charm to attract women. Rural people are largely discouraged in the public mind. Imagine what girl would want to be with a sloppy and useless man.

Young men in rural areas need to improve themselves, give themselves more opportunities to exercise, learn to deal with people, pay attention to dressing up and image, constantly improve themselves, and create their own unique personality charm. In this way, if they do not actively seek love, love will come.

First, we should not have the idea of passing on the ancestry, balance the proportion of male and female birth rates, and improve personal ability and quality, make more friends, and participate in more blind dates, which still have some effect.

To improve the core competitiveness of men, learn more skills, and make more money, in order to solve this problem.

Eliminating the bride price and allowing many older young women to return to their hometowns from first-tier cities does not solve the real problem.

According to the population data of 2019, China's total population is 100 million, with 100 million men and 100 million women, of which 30 million are singles. According to the ratio of male and female birth rate: 1, our singles problem will be more prominent and serious in 2020, and the number of singles has approached 33 million!

Most of these 33 million singles are from rural areas. Their marital problems are a big problem in Chinese society.

Is it really possible that these bachelors will not be able to marry a daughter-in-law?

Some successful men have three wives and four concubines, but rural youths cannot find even a daughter-in-law. This is not alarmism. Is it really so difficult for a rural bachelor to marry a daughter-in-law?

1. There is a serious imbalance between men and women, and rural girls prefer to stay in the city!

Nowadays, there are more men and fewer women, and the competition is extremely fierce, and the average income in the rural areas is relatively low, and the living environment is relatively not so good. Nowadays, many girls are reluctant to choose some young people from rural areas when it comes to choosing a mate. Some girls with relatively good appearance conditions want to run to the city, hoping to find a city man in the city and take root in the city in the future; Girls are also not worried about getting married.

If given a choice, the girl would rather marry a divorced man in the city than a first-married man in the countryside.

2. The heavy bride price discourages rural families.

In recent years, the concept of bride price has gradually faded out of the city. On the contrary, the bride price in rural areas is increasing year by year. The bride price of 200,000 to 300,000 yuan will come as soon as you open your mouth.

In the face of the loess with their backs to the sky, how can the poor peasant families bear it? As a result, many rural families can only live in debt for the sake of their children, and the debts are paid off by the old couple, and life is becoming more and more difficult.

There is a general reverence for money in society, which makes it painful for singles. With the development of society, people's living standards have improved, and people's concepts have also changed. In the past, mate selection may have been more about the character of the other person, but now it is more about the other person's savings.

Girls, if you can choose a rich man, then who wants to marry a poor man? Girls in the city yearn for luxury cars and villas, while girls in the countryside compete for bride price and gold, and these things are indeed a great burden for families with average living standards.

Of course, this is not to say that others should be criticized. After all, in modern society, we can't do anything without money. But a child's education costs hundreds of thousands. Who wouldn't want to live a rich and happy married life?

Many rural girls do not want to live those poor days anymore, and most of them leave their hometowns to work in the cities. Then they also got used to the hustle and bustle of the city, and they were not willing to return to the small village ditch.

In fact, most of the rural boys are also very self-reliant. In order to change their lives and start a family as soon as possible, many boys also go out to work hard.

But work life is busy and tiring, ** have time to meet the right person? Originally, it was to make money for marriage, but it changed to work and had no time to fall in love.

Nowadays, even during the New Year's holidays in rural areas, girls are rarely seen, and boys are in and out, and one in every four boys has not yet started a family. There is a serious imbalance between men and women, and most men are in their thirties, and they are still alone.

Now the phenomenon of singles in the countryside is very serious, there are several people in our village who are in their thirties and have not yet married a wife, and their parents are anxious to match them every day, but no girl is willing to marry them.