Rural Singles Postscript 1 The dilemma of rural men

At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.

First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich. The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work.

The father and son can't save much money for a year of hard work, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine. Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and they couldn't say anything about this situation.

I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a willing girl, he may not be able to get such a high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.

Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.

There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person? There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, so when he has no money, he goes to find a factory to work, and when he has money in the last few months, he squanders it, and he doesn't report when he leaves his job, and suddenly he doesn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory near Bury Hanchun who dares to use him.

Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.

The main reason is that the rural economy is relatively backward, and there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and unwilling to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and those in the cities!

Although many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the rural living environment, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of noise and noise in the city are not conducive to life and residence.

But after all, the countryside is a rural area, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical resources and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to the old traditions and habits of Xunzhou in our rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

Suggestions for older male singles in rural areas: find a job, change your own image, change your psychology, take care of the village, and actively look for a partner.

1. Find a job.

Many older rural singles have a certain reason in it, and most of them are because they are not motivated, so these problems will occur, so finding a job is the first step to get rid of singles, so make yourself more positive.

2. Change your own image.

Another big problem for many older male singles is that their own image is not good, these are not born bad, but one of their own in the later life is not in place, it is obvious that they are very sloppy, so the rural older male singles urgently need to change is their own image problem.

3. Change your psychology.

Psychological problems, many older male singles still attach great importance to finding a partner to have children and get married, but later there will be a problem of mentality, and there will be a problem of broken jars, so this point still needs to be solved.

4. Take care of the village.

Many older men are still self-motivated, but they are actually just missing a way and an opportunity to show their strength, so at this time, if the village carries out a financial or manpower support, such help is still very important for them.

5. Actively look for a partner.

Actively looking for a partner is very important for older singles, and it is a very bad state of mind to give up on yourself and stare at it, so you must give yourself a confidence, so that you can become more likely to find a partner.

Then you must go out of the countryside, learn a skill, and have the ability to make money, so as not to be a single.

It is really difficult to solve this problem, and if you don't want to be a single, you must work hard to earn money and change your current living situation.

I think we can get these men out to work and make them rich, so that this problem can be solved.

How to solve the problem of a large number of male singles in rural areas? Do you have singles by your side? The reason for the increasing number of single people in rural areas is the unbalanced social development and the widening gap between urban and rural areas.

Many young people work in the city. After recognizing the limitations of rural areas through the internet and personal experiences, they all wish to settle in the city. Men who do not have a certain level of economic family in rural areas and have an average ability to work will be selected at marriageable age and eventually become single.

In the beautiful era, people with outstanding looks were able to find objects very quickly. They are dissatisfied with external conditions and economic income, and it is difficult to find a target with a lower educational background. Modern society advocates women's independence.

If they live well, there is no need to take the risks that come with family life.

In response to the growing number of singles in rural areas, the rural lads came up with three solutions. Work and live abroad. China has developed rapidly in recent years, and the requirements for materials have also increased.

However, development in many countries is not ideal. In foreign countries, it is common to meet the object of love and enter the marriage hall. In the era of economic globalization, the gap between countries is getting smaller and smaller, and marriages between countries have become especially common in recent years.

Try to dress up as much as possible. In a society where beauty reigns predominantly, high beauty is a way of empowering. Everyone loves beauty.

Many women also have high requirements for their partner's beauty when looking for a partner. After having a high appearance, you can modify your heart and knowledge to make people want to get close to your desires.

Finally, working in factories, many young rural men are likely to get divorced while working in factories. The men and women in the factory are very similar in terms of education level and family background, and the living and working environment is relatively closed, and the possibility of divorce is very high.

There are many people from poor families in rural areas. Why are some people single while others can easily get married? The reason is that they don't work hard.

They constantly complain about social injustice, the poverty of their families and the material life of women, but they do not take action and make efforts to change the status quo. They live up to time and lose opportunities time and time again. They don't know how to worry until they're old.

The number of singles in rural areas is increasing. Affected by many factors, independent women are also extremely cautious when choosing a marriage partner and will not marry blindly. Social pressure gradually increases, and two people can only overcome difficulties by supporting each other.

As men, they should carry the burdens of life so that women can see the hope of marriage in you before they get married.

The reason why there are so many male singles in rural areas is because they have no money and cannot provide living security for some women, so some women are unwilling to marry them, so if you want to solve these problems, on the one hand, we should improve the welfare and subsidies of rural farming, and help some farmers in rural areas increase their economic income, on the other hand, we should also provide more marriage introductions for rural areas, and help rural men to meet more women, which is conducive to them to find their other half; There are also singles around me, but they have a certain financial ability, and in their consciousness, they are very reluctant to get married, rather than a passive single.

It is suggested that men in rural areas should run outside more, and the more people they know, the more hope they can get married. At the same time, you can lower the criteria for choosing a mate or try a foreign-related marriage. Of course, in the final analysis, it is still necessary for some rural male singles to greatly improve the economic situation and income conditions through their own hard work, and only in this way can the problem of difficulty in marriage be easily solved.

There are also singles around.

There are two ways to solve the problem of a large number of male singles in rural areas: one is to go out to work and find a suitable marriage partner outside; The second is to solve the problem of high bride price and marriage room, so that marriage can become something that ordinary families can afford again.

I have a bachelor by my side, but he belongs to the person who doesn't want to get married, so he doesn't look for a partner, and this personal will cannot be interfered with by others.

These boys should be allowed to contact more high-quality women and participate in more group activities, and it can be solved; I don't have singles around me.

Men are born with this fate. This has been true since ancient times, and it will be the same in the future. Either strive to move upwards or pass away in silence.

First of all, these men must increase their income, and they must have stable funds**, and they can also be used as sons-in-law; There are ones around me.

There are a lot of singles around us, all of whom have no money, no house, no job, can you solve their problems?

Not a single one is a monk!

Isn't it blessed? A good thing.

Singles can build shelves.

Zhu Xiaowei is a young man living in the countryside, not only did he not fight a bachelor, but also found a beautiful woman as his wife.

I'm also from the countryside, and there are too many older men.

There are two options for solving the problem of a large number of male singles in rural areas: one is to leave the countryside and work in places with many women, so that you will have the opportunity to meet more women, and the other is to strive for money to make your own work stronger, and women will come to you.