Let s talk about it, what is the sentence that your favorite hurts you the most?

I don't know what the cause of the last conflict was, I only remember what he said when they parted, he said that he was sincere to Wang Huanhuan, and he didn't look back and walked away after speaking. That sentence stuck like a thorn in my heart to this day.

I watched a movie with her, and I confessed a year late in the evening, but she didn't agree, nor did she refuse, and I was always taking the initiative to chat with her, and in the next chat, I looked for her, and she said a word of neurosis, so I never looked for her again.

I only earn 5,000 a month, what do you want you to do? This is what a girl said to me when she just graduated from college, her salary was only 2,500 and my 5,000, but she said this to me: "I only earn 5,000 a month, what do you want you to do?" ”

The person I used to love the most said to me that he was sincere about the other girl. I still don't know why he hurt me so much. Fifteen years later, it's still in my ears.

Life is inevitably bumpy and bumpy, as long as his heart is still with you, nothing can be said of anything. Because it's for the sake of living, and it's forced for the sake of living! If it's time for each to break up, it's the saddest words that come out at that time.

Some people say that as long as you have love in your heart, you can overcome all difficulties. But Anthony said: The face that should be in love, the most powerful person can't escape. Love is not perfect, it is beautiful and fragile, and it needs to be carefully cared for and maintained by two people.

Loving you is nothing but a lie I told when I was lonely. - This is a quote from someone I love that hurts me very much. It turns out that I have been a spare tire for so long.

People who truly love each other will not hurt each other, people's lives are very short, don't waste your life on meaningless disputes, love each other to cherish each other, why bother to torture each other. If you can get someone to truly love each other in your life, you will be very happy in this life, how can you be careful, suffer from gains and losses. It's not easy to fall in love, and it's even harder to stay together.

The most hurtful words are usually concise and to the point, and I think the saddest words are probably when she sat down with her rival that day to negotiate, what she said was: I still choose him!

Say "divorce" when arguing. In fact, everyone has a tacit understanding, knowing that these two words hurt feelings and are not easy to mention. But sometimes when I quarreled, I was so angry that I didn't know how to vent, and I was angry with the other party, so I said these two words. He said it, and I said it.

There are many things in our lives that need our attention. And each of us has different values, so the way we treat people is also different. Attentive people may find that we often say the harshest things to the people we love the most, so why is that?

For many people, feelings are very important. And the way of speaking is also very important, we usually treat strangers outside with courtesy, this is because of our character and upbringing, so we will pay great attention to politeness. But when we're in a bad mood or want to lose our temper.

I often say cruel things to the people closest to me, as the saying goes, bad words hurt people in June, which is a very unfair practice for those close to us, and the words spoken are like water spilled out, and like a sharp knife.

inserted in the other party's heart. It will make us very remorseful afterwards, but what has been said cannot be taken back. Therefore, the reason why we will say the most cruel words to the person we love the most is because it is more relaxed to get along with the person we love the most, so we often say something without thinking, and such words are actually very hurtful.

In fact, in our lives, we should not only be polite to strangers, but also pay more attention to those close to us. Before speaking, we must consider the consequences, and at the same time, we must also consider whether this sentence should be said, which is the consciousness that an adult should have. And it's better not to say cruel words, because after all, such words will only hurt others.

Therefore, the reason why we say the most cruel words to the person we love the most is actually because we know the other party very well, so we know how to speak to make the other party sad. And what we say when we are angry is also easy to offend others, so we will always say the most cruel things to the people we love the most.

To sum up, the reason why we say the most ruthless words to the person we love the most is because we know each other too well, and the two people are too familiar, so we often forget to think when we speak. We should all change it if we have it, and encourage it if we don't, because what we say cannot be taken back, so we must be careful in our words and deeds.

Because we always leave the best temper to outsiders, because the relationship between outsiders and us is not particularly close, so we can't hurt each other, but relatives are the best for us, so we always leave the bad temper to our dearest people.

It's because we feel that the person we love the most can withstand our most ruthless words, and the most ruthless words are generally not said to others because of politeness.

It's because we all know that the person we love the most will never leave us, so when we are emotional, we can't control ourselves and will say the most cruel words to hurt each other.

Why do I say the worst things to someone I love the most? Because people often feel that the people closest to them will not leave them even if they do too much, they have such a sense of security.

So they often ignore each other's feelings and can't control their emotions, so it's easy for them to say something nasty. This will only hurt the people you love the most. They will think how can you bear to do this to me?

So, we have to try to control ourselves and not hurt the people we love the most. Even if they do too much.

The other is that they expect too much from the person they love the most and hope that the other person will be able to achieve it. Many times, when the other person does not meet their expectations, they will be a little disappointed, even a little angry, and may say ugly things. In fact, they don't mean it, they just hope that the other person will do better next time, but the person who speaks has no intention and may listen with their hearts, so pay more attention.

This is also a case. Although he said it very hard to hear, he still felt sorry for the other party in his heart, but his expression was a little cruel.

In fact, no matter what the reason, we should cherish each other. If it's just for the sake of quick talking, it's not worth it. After all, it's not easy to fall in love.

A little more understanding and tolerance, the relationship will get better and better. Finally, I wish everyone a sweet relationship with their other half. Endless struggles and catharsis seem to be the way we relate to each other.

In contrast to anger, we feel self-blame and sadness when we return calmly. Why do we always say the harshest things to the people we love? Venting anger on a goal of seeking comfort is the most common emotional trap.

When we are overcome with negative emotions.

Hijacking, feeling angry, and hurting, we tend to subconsciously choose offensive words to defend ourselves.

And this kind of "harsh words" with strong emotional colors will make the connection between the two sides more and more serious. In the process of catharsis, because emotions are not dealt with in time, the more catharsis, the faster the wheel of emotions turns, which will bring us secondary damage. In the aftermath of a storm, we tend to feel out of control and exhausted, which in turn falls into infinite remorse and self-blame.

Because of the peace of mind, we feel that the person we love the most will not leave us when we say such things.

Because the more intimate people are, the more likely we are to lack patience, and the less polite and tolerant we are. It may be that in the face of people close to us, we do not disguise ourselves.

It's because sometimes you can't control your temper, so you will say some cruel words to hurt the other party.

Because we often feel that our lover is the closest person, even if he has done too many bad things, he will not leave him and can understand himself. When there is such a sense of security, they often ignore each other's feelings, and when they can't control their emotions, it's easy to say the most ruthless things. Therefore, we must try our best to control our emotions and not easily hurt the people we love the most.

Because we feel that the other party is someone we can trust, and we can vent all our emotions on them, so many times we will not take into account their feelings and say the most cruel things to them.

Because the people we love the most are also the people closest to us, they will never leave us, and they will always be there for us despite our harsh words.

That's because we have no fear, and we think that the person we love the most will never leave us, so we will say the most cruel words.

Because of the depth of love and the depth of hate, the more people who love, the more sad they are when they hurt themselves, and the more they want to hurt them again.

Because we know in our hearts that they will not leave us because of these words, and it is precisely because of this fearless mentality that we can always say the most cruel words.

The person who hurts you the most is often the person you love the most", this sentence is true. Why, let me explain to you:

One of the reasons: two close people meet frequently, contact for a long time, small spatial distance, and know each other deeply. Because of the accumulation of feelings for a long time, once you rely on these things, and you think that the most meaningful things in life are questioned and challenged, it will subvert a person's expectations for the beauty and meaning of life, as if a dream has been shattered, and the emotional impact can be imagined.

Reason 2: Love will drive a person to endure and forgive the pain and hurt caused by the other person in their common life, the more love will lead to more tolerance, and the more tolerance you will bear, the more pain and hurt you will endure.

Reason 3: You have expectations for the people you love, because you have given love, so you have the expectation of being loved. Once that expectation is expressed in a form that is not valued, understood, or accepted, you feel hurt.

Reason 4: You and the person you love, is a strong relationship (including economic relations, ethical relations, legal relations, etc.), in the social strong relationship, whether you want to or not, it is difficult for you to escape from this person, under the constraints of such a strong relationship, you are less likely to avoid being hurt than a weak relationship, so the damage is long, the impact is far-reaching.

So, since the person we love the most hurts us the most, should we stop loving? How can this harm be avoided? I'll teach you a few more ways:

Clause. 1. When you give love, don't expect to be reciprocated. It's hard for a lot of people to do, but it's my magic weapon.

Sometimes, the people I try to love, help, and take care of not only do not repay me, but hurt me, and someone asks me, don't you hate her? I would say lightly: what is there to hate?

Giving is because I feel that I should do it, and I do it voluntarily; Whether you know how to reciprocate or not is someone else's business, so why should I worry about it?

Clause. 2. Learn to be "intimate" and grasp the "degree" of love. No matter how much you love someone, don't love to the point of losing yourself, just love to 90% at most.

People need to grasp the best distance between people, whether it is a lover, a friend, or a family member, we must follow this principle, which is my second magic weapon.

Clause. 3. Maintain your independence and don't depend on others financially and emotionally. You are only safe when you are not dependent on others in any way, and no one can give you a devastating blow, and if you have no desire, you will be strong, because you can't control my weaknesses, so I won't hurt you.

Clause. Fourth, learn to communicate and negotiate, don't just blindly endure. When you are dissatisfied with what others are doing, don't be busy complaining and getting angry, because then you will be invisibly hurt.

It is a smart way to learn to put forward in the form of constructive suggestions and negotiate with the other party, and not to get angry, not to confront, to think of a way, to make suggestions, is a good way to refuse to let yourself be hurt.

Because when we love someone very much, we will be very tolerant of them and care about all their words, so after being hurt by the other party, we will be particularly uncomfortable.

This is because you love each other very much, and you have relatively high requirements for each other, and then a simple move by the other party will hurt you very much, and it will also have a particularly serious impact on your psychology.

You love this person, you must pretend to be him in your heart, others have no place in your heart, and everything he does is something you want to know. So if he does something bad, it will be a shock in your heart, it will be a blow, to put it bluntly, you care too much about him, so he will hurt you. In interpersonal relationships, two people who love each other are closest to each other.

It is precisely because of this intimate distance between each other that every bit and every corner of our body will be fully displayed in the lives of two people, and a little attention may touch each other and cause discomfort. On the one hand, love shows the depth of love for each other as the distance between them is infinitely closer.

On the other hand, the deeper the love, the closer the two people are, the more likely they are to touch each other, and the more bad feelings they will bring. This situation is also contrary to our personal psychological expectation of love, resulting in the situation of "deep love, deep hate". If you love someone, and since you choose "love" instead of "like", it already shows that you care about him and how much he carries in your heart.

Then, since it is love, you must be very concerned and concerned about his words and deeds, details and details, and his feelings, emotions, and reactions will also be closely related to you and closely linked. Naturally, his reactions and actions make you dissatisfied, and compared with ordinary people, they will bring you a greater reaction, which may be sadness, heartbreak, and so on.

Or, if he leaves you, the ending is not what was originally expected, and this problem will be presented: the person you love is always the one who hurts you the most. It is difficult for the relationship between the two to continue.

You must trust each other in your relationship. Let's not be too glassy, whether it's boys or girls. Don't get hurt because of his unintentional words.

Sometimes he or she may be innocent, or he may have a slightly lower emotional intelligence. This can be cultivated slowly! The two must understand each other and tolerate each other!